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nightshade_nova
post Feb 6 2018, 08:03 AM

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RM10 so cheapskate...
Those are ang pows you give to kids during raya.
nightshade_nova
post Feb 6 2018, 08:20 AM

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QUOTE(amxpayne67 @ Feb 6 2018, 08:05 AM)
when you get invited to someone's wedding, and is pretty close to the bride and/or bridesmaid, you are torn between your commitment as a friend, your financial situation, your own personal problems. It is not you to judge someone is cheapskate based on the angpao they give for your wedding.
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If close then should be no problem. They will understand. Im just saying in general situation, independent of any extenuating circumstances.

QUOTE(ocphangaz @ Feb 6 2018, 08:08 AM)
RM10 for kids? kfc also need RM12 nowadays... RM10 for CNY is so cheapskate too... hari raya also people give RM10

how's that burn feel to you?
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You said it yourself. RM10 also cant buy KFC, thats why its cheapskate.
Raya and CNY give to a lot of kids ang pows vs wedding which is one party only.


Bottom line is only the people who host the wedding's perception is important, not other people.
How important they are to you, how understanding they are, and how important it is that you want to keep a good image of yourself.

You dont tell how much you give, people wont know also.
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post Feb 6 2018, 09:07 PM

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QUOTE(amon_meiz @ Feb 6 2018, 05:38 PM)
I think when u invite people to ur wedding
U want them to be there right?
Not their money

The way u guys been complaining
Its like u guys just care about angpow
Not about friends being there during ur wedding

I agree that the angpow need to be adequate in value
But that shouldn't be the priority

I mean, if this matter so much
Next time make it like a paid event
Wanna come. Pay rm50 or rm100
No pay. No come

May look like bad. But at least u guys are honest to the guest
There won't be complaining behind later on

Things like this that tear family and friends apart
Money really is the root of evil
My wedding, i dont even ask for angpow
Dont really care

Parent calculate, got more than 10k

Not necessarily cover my cost
But it doesnt matter
That isnt the priority
If 0 also i dont mind
Because i want them to be there during my happy day
Not their money

Maybe u guys got rm10 angpow
Because those guests dont like u in the first place?
Maybe u kinda... A cheapskate calculative asshole
Hence why they gib so little angpow
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I already told you what is important is the image between you and the people getting married.
I only generalized in a sense that it is what most people would think.

If I ever get married, I wont care people give me money or not also.



 

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