goody. someone knows my pain too. like other people are always shocked when I tell them that the next time I see my boyfriend will be next summer. Sheesh.
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QUOTE(pandazhun @ Oct 28 2007, 08:33 PM) huh...over d?broke up d....? Try not to think so negative. This kind of thing varies from case to case. The most important ingredients of course is constant communication and that you have each other in your future plans. Such was not my case.well...this is making me to think more negative .... hey bro,dun be sad...try to save the relationship incase she has got some reason or wat.. if really gone d..then i suggest u to move on and look for other girls...many girl over CC for u to buaya 1 ma...dun be sad wor... lastly...I would hope that u will still hang out with us over here and juz to tell us some updates of ur life... u r always being welcomed over here ya!  But I'm not too sad. Feel somewhat liberated. Uncertainty is worse than rejection. |
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Oct 29 2007, 07:43 PM
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QUOTE(babysept @ Oct 29 2007, 12:25 PM) yeap yeap.. started a relationship b4 even u 2 had really met each other??last yr July was the 1st time, met in SG, and his mum was with him.. and recently, end of last month, I went Syd to be with him for 2 weeks.. can only c each other once a year.. =p only through online? |
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Oct 30 2007, 02:30 AM
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Guys, let's continue upload some pic for 1st post. Let's share your happiness with us.
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Oct 30 2007, 04:07 AM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Oct 29 2007, 06:33 PM) goody. someone knows my pain too. like other people are always shocked when I tell them that the next time I see my boyfriend will be next summer. Sheesh. hahaha.. don't worry.. u got someone wit u here..frens were shocked after hearing and alwaz asked, how can that work by only seeing ea other once a yr.. well well.. 2 yrs had passed and life still goes on =p QUOTE(pandazhun @ Oct 29 2007, 07:43 PM) started a relationship b4 even u 2 had really met each other?? yeap yeap.. started thru the pixels and only met ea other after 9 months =ponly through online? ridiculousss ma~? o_O.. Added on October 30, 2007, 4:10 am QUOTE(dazzywazzy @ Oct 28 2007, 06:01 PM) slowly lor.. slowly prove to his mom that u're not wat she thinks u are hehe.. thankss..same to you, jia you ba~ who noes 1 day, ur mummy might be able to accept u and ur gal as well~ to all in LDR~ goody luck  This post has been edited by babysept: Oct 30 2007, 04:18 AM |
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Oct 30 2007, 11:15 AM
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QUOTE(babysept @ Oct 30 2007, 04:07 AM) hahaha.. don't worry.. u got someone wit u here.. Yeah. Keep active in this thread and could learn a lot of things over here.frens were shocked after hearing and alwaz asked, how can that work by only seeing ea other once a yr.. well well.. 2 yrs had passed and life still goes on =p yeap yeap.. started thru the pixels and only met ea other after 9 months =p ridiculousss ma~? o_O.. Added on October 30, 2007, 4:10 am hehe.. thankss.. same to you, jia you ba~ who noes 1 day, ur mummy might be able to accept u and ur gal as well~ to all in LDR~ goody luck Anyway, where is all our big big sista? |
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Oct 30 2007, 11:19 AM
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QUOTE(babysept @ Oct 30 2007, 04:07 AM) same to you, jia you ba~ who noes 1 day, ur mummy might be able to accept u and ur gal as well~ |
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Oct 30 2007, 11:21 AM
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well LDR is very hard... especially for a girl...
i can tell you my situation... sometimes i can't chat thru phone too long... around 1.5 hours per day... so sometimes it makes my gf thought i don care about her... but in order to show her how much i love her... i decided 1 things... no matter wat... i try to meet her up 2 weeks once... at least... 1 month after permanent in KL already... 3 times to meet her... although some ppl say very tired but i feel happy to meet her... guys and gals... to be a sucessful LDR... either sides have to make some sacrifices.... my side i'm traveling up and down... i don mind... as long as she is happy... but the other side also have to be understanding... I hope all of the true love around will be blossom... |
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Oct 30 2007, 11:31 AM
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QUOTE(dazzywazzy @ Oct 30 2007, 11:19 AM) lol.. thanks.. but haih, hahaha 2 weeks already.. still no contact.. time to find a new one lol =/ Aiyo. Why so fast?Doesn't mean a must to find a new 1. Just be yourself and love will come. QUOTE(michael9413 @ Oct 30 2007, 11:21 AM) well LDR is very hard... especially for a girl... Yes, but sometime don't make it a habit. What I mean is don't over do it. If you 1 day you really cannot make it and she demanding you to go over, then will be a problem. Can say spoilt?i can tell you my situation... sometimes i can't chat thru phone too long... around 1.5 hours per day... so sometimes it makes my gf thought i don care about her... but in order to show her how much i love her... i decided 1 things... no matter wat... i try to meet her up 2 weeks once... at least... 1 month after permanent in KL already... 3 times to meet her... although some ppl say very tired but i feel happy to meet her... guys and gals... to be a sucessful LDR... either sides have to make some sacrifices.... my side i'm traveling up and down... i don mind... as long as she is happy... but the other side also have to be understanding... I hope all of the true love around will be blossom... No offense  |
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Oct 30 2007, 11:32 AM
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Oct 30 2007, 11:15 AM) Yeah. Keep active in this thread and could learn a lot of things over here. Mandy san sudah busy preparing for marriage ar? Anyway, where is all our big big sista?  QUOTE(michael9413 @ Oct 30 2007, 11:21 AM) well LDR is very hard... especially for a girl... Yeah, it's about sacrifices. But not all can accept your sacrifice.i can tell you my situation... sometimes i can't chat thru phone too long... around 1.5 hours per day... so sometimes it makes my gf thought i don care about her... but in order to show her how much i love her... i decided 1 things... no matter wat... i try to meet her up 2 weeks once... at least... 1 month after permanent in KL already... 3 times to meet her... although some ppl say very tired but i feel happy to meet her... guys and gals... to be a sucessful LDR... either sides have to make some sacrifices.... my side i'm traveling up and down... i don mind... as long as she is happy... but the other side also have to be understanding... I hope all of the true love around will be blossom... |
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Oct 30 2007, 11:38 AM
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haha... at least my gf still happy about that...
she will come over this time...  |
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Oct 30 2007, 11:39 AM
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Oct 30 2007, 11:32 AM) Mandy san sudah busy preparing for marriage ar? miyoko also I think Yeah, it's about sacrifices. But not all can accept your sacrifice.  Not say cannot accept. Don't appreciate Added on October 30, 2007, 11:39 am QUOTE(michael9413 @ Oct 30 2007, 11:38 AM) haha... at least my gf still happy about that... Then it is good she will come over this time...  This post has been edited by Joshua_0718: Oct 30 2007, 11:39 AM |
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Oct 30 2007, 07:51 PM
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Hey gals and guys!! Sorry for so long didnt drop any msgs here cause there were lots of things happened since my last msg here.
Firstly, I have resigned from my current job and currenty serving 2 months notice whereby my last day will be 29th nov. After that, I will be moving to KL to work (already found new job, luckily )However, during my notice period, I didnt really have a smooth time as my boss's wife always trying to find fault with me till causing me so stress and tired. Really hope i can get through this faster, pray for me guys and gals! The good news is that I can end my LDR soon However, I know that the future road still hard to walk but I'm sure if we dont give up, we can overcome all obstacles. So gals and guys, never think the word "FAIL" in your heart but always remember this word "PERSISTENCE" |
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Oct 30 2007, 08:11 PM
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Mind if i join here ??? =)
really new in LDR here... well...guess i started to fall in love with someone who is far away from me... she was my primary schoolmate...but we never talk that time... somehow we start to keep in touch from Friendster to MSN now... currently only get to chat thru MSN ... and only during weekends... i wanted to call or meet her in person... but she just think it's not yet the time to meet... so i'm waiting endlessly here... all these started off 3months ago... after i broke up with someone else... is there any sign to tell... am i really in love with her ??? |
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Oct 30 2007, 08:21 PM
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maybe u're just looking for a substitute to fill in the loneliness from ur break up
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Oct 30 2007, 08:32 PM
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QUOTE(dazzywazzy @ Oct 30 2007, 11:19 AM) lol.. thanks.. but haih, hahaha 2 weeks already.. still no contact.. time to find a new one lol =/ =( .. u know saying or typing it out its easy, but deep down inside ur heart.. she's still there..Nothing we can do to help u, but of cuz, when u need ppl to talk with, u have whole bunch of us here.. I alwaz tell myself to giv up but i know deep down inside my heart, I know its not gonna be dat easy to let go.. when its like, after 2 yrs?? Jia you~ |
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Oct 30 2007, 08:34 PM
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talk bout substitute.... i guess it's not...
cause whatever i do now and think about is all about her... not because she can fill-in the empty space of mine... at first i also thought , the same as yu said... after a long while... it doesn't seems so by the way... on the other hand, i have another girl who... willingly be with me... somehow is just not someone i'm hoping for... Added on October 30, 2007, 8:47 pmsomehow i really wonder ... do girl really mean what they say in chatting ??? This post has been edited by LY115: Oct 30 2007, 08:47 PM |
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Oct 30 2007, 09:12 PM
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REBOUND ALERT. XD
again, I shouldn't talk since the time between my second and current boyfriend was a month. Of course, I broke up with my second bf because I got bored. |
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Oct 30 2007, 10:43 PM
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QUOTE(mandysu @ Oct 30 2007, 07:51 PM) Hey gals and guys!! Sorry for so long didnt drop any msgs here cause there were lots of things happened since my last msg here. wow...so good...Firstly, I have resigned from my current job and currenty serving 2 months notice whereby my last day will be 29th nov. After that, I will be moving to KL to work (already found new job, luckily )However, during my notice period, I didnt really have a smooth time as my boss's wife always trying to find fault with me till causing me so stress and tired. Really hope i can get through this faster, pray for me guys and gals! The good news is that I can end my LDR soon However, I know that the future road still hard to walk but I'm sure if we dont give up, we can overcome all obstacles. So gals and guys, never think the word "FAIL" in your heart but always remember this word "PERSISTENCE"respect  Added on October 30, 2007, 10:44 pm QUOTE(LY115 @ Oct 30 2007, 08:34 PM) talk bout substitute.... i guess it's not... give urself more time to find out...cause whatever i do now and think about is all about her... not because she can fill-in the empty space of mine... at first i also thought , the same as yu said... after a long while... it doesn't seems so by the way... on the other hand, i have another girl who... willingly be with me... somehow is just not someone i'm hoping for... Added on October 30, 2007, 8:47 pmsomehow i really wonder ... do girl really mean what they say in chatting ??? cant trust 100% watever chat online.. BTW...whr r u and ur gf? mayb next time can make a visit trip tgh if same destination...  Added on October 30, 2007, 10:47 pmBTw...i juz found out that joshua is actually from my hometown... summore i tink he is my sister's ex-schoolmate... well,hope nth harsh happened between them b4...hehe... This post has been edited by pandazhun: Oct 30 2007, 10:47 PM |
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Oct 31 2007, 12:48 AM
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QUOTE(pandazhun @ Oct 30 2007, 10:43 PM) wow...so good... Huh?respect Added on October 30, 2007, 10:44 pm give urself more time to find out... cant trust 100% watever chat online.. BTW...whr r u and ur gf? mayb next time can make a visit trip tgh if same destination... Added on October 30, 2007, 10:47 pmBTw...i juz found out that joshua is actually from my hometown... summore i tink he is my sister's ex-schoolmate... well,hope nth harsh happened between them b4...hehe... How you find out and who is your sister?? What you mean by nothing harsh?  |
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