I'm kl people la but just most of the time outstation

Salah concept. Not all girls are the same. You are focusing too much on money and trying to link money with love. Disaster will happen some day.

no, it's not about stereotyping, it is what it is....

girls would look over to guys that have more ka-ching in his pockets when it comes to be in a relationship, and some may say that it's in their nature, but actually, girls are primarily emphasize in 'financial security' in men. it's not wrong, it's just that society is crafted 2 be that way right now...

now take this scenario: imagine this; your daughter finally grows up one day and decided to have a lifetime partner to live with. consider there're 2 guys that have same level of kindness in terms of personality, same level of education, same background etc....however, the main difference that separates them both black and white is that 1st guy is a millionaire, and the 2nd guy in your daughter's list is just a man that has secure financial stability, but he can't compare his financial status to the 1st guy as a whole....

given the above scenario, you & i both know who will your daughter pick in a heatbeat, even if she come and ask you for advice, you don't even need to answer me on which guy will you suggest for your daughter, the answer is very clear....you know that yourself

i'm not saying it's wrong, the society has been crafted in this way, it just is....

Not all girls have the luxury to meet a millionaire. Your concept is correct if the girl is way beautiful or famous or is rich. Else do not expect a lot of good criteria guys to go after her.

They may prefer.. but d world is made up of 30%rich ppl 70% working class.. so have to choose in between..

If not all poor ppl remain unmarried? What if d girl is rich? Choose richer? The cut off point shall be age and when one person fed up looking on money criteria..

At the end...only you will know whether monies make u happy or otherwise..

What if you have no such choice to pick? Keep waiting? Even there are choice.. will you be happy with it

What if ur age is growing upwards

What if u have lost confidence in love... many relationships..


This post has been edited by bearbearwong: Mar 10 2017, 02:09 PM

the analogy is like this, say u got a budget of 300k on a car, u got a lot of choices to choose from, ranging from a Saga to a BMW 3 series, so less likely u will choose a mere Saga rite?

likewise if u re a salesman of Proton, how likely you encounter a rich man to buy your car?

i've already thought about that... gonna be celibate my whole life lul, so whatever(bad) happens 2 me or when i'm in trouble, i'll only be concerning of myself...

yeah, true. like i say, there's no right or wrong, it's just the mindset of today's society and personal preferences

This is what i mean...Thanks