To be honest I just hope for one thing from women which is patience

My ex dump for a year ago The reason simply because I didnt earn much that time that I could afford to buy a half a million condo (yup thats one of the reason since she said she wants quality in her life) 

Some more she would tell me how her friends bf could afford to buy 2-3 properties like it was nothing and that a bed which cost 2k is normal to buy for a middle income family

Food wise dont need to talk lo its always better to eat at the most expensive place

But getting back to the issue that I want to talk about is the she never had PATIENCE im not trying to boast myself or anything but although I was not earning much (3k plus) at that time people in my company saw potential in me and that I can go far in the company

fast forward 1 year later I already earning much more then what I use to earn and manage to have a healthy savings since i my ex left me I use the money to bring my family for trips nearly every month haha

But its sad that after 8 years of relationship she never had the patience to give me time to establish myself and that she keeps on comparing with her friends bf who are from rich families I believe this is not only her problem but a lot of girls too They want quick result and presume u should be wealthy even after few years of work

So to the girls out there is your BF not earning much and cant afford things that you want please please have PATIENCE banyak-banyak bersabar give him some time so that and he can afford to give u quality of life if not then go look for a guy who comes from a wealthy family lo

Its getting harder for the cainis to find a life partner due to high cost and all these stupid customs we impose ourselves. Like must have banquet in wedding la, must this and that la. We are like the stupid panda in China that need to be save by having a breeding program. If only we fark like rabbits and reproduce, then only we have a larger say in this nation. But no no, we have to stress ourselves with all these crap customs. in 20 years we gonna be the minority like 10% of the population, after that nobody cares about us. We just get side swiped.

I tell all these things to my wife, but she thinks we are in la la land, I just want facepalm myself. She is living in a dream world, she thinks the nation is doing ok. All she wants is a stable household buy some nice expensive kitchen ware...which I refuse to pay so premium.

japanese ah sushi not hard my mom say... very soon...

deswai i no prefer to have kid after marriage

if no kid, can retire before 50, then travel around the world, when at old age, can use the pension / saving to hire hawt sexy nurse to take care of you

There is a catch.

I know a guy married to his wife but they don't want to have kids. The guy inherited a lot of shop lots from his father because his father owned a construction co. His wife family very lazy one, only want to be fed like parasite. She has one gambling brother with wife and two kids. After he die, guess who is gonna inherit all those properties? His wife lazy nephew and niece.

sign in the will or when youre almost knocking on death's door.....  liquidate everything and burn the money to bring to heaven

you better sign in the will now, you will never know what will happen to you.

hahaha well im giving all to my mom. else it will be my sister. since she deserved it anyways.

nothing for your future wife?

high chance she doesnt exsist so yea.. will amend if she does but as of now, very unlikely.

just amended my comments above, add some other stuff.

If you are alone, a will is required la, but not so urgent.

To be honest I just hope for one thing from women which is patience

My ex dump for a year ago The reason simply because I didnt earn much that time that I could afford to buy a half a million condo (yup thats one of the reason since she said she wants quality in her life) 

Some more she would tell me how her friends bf could afford to buy 2-3 properties like it was nothing and that a bed which cost 2k is normal to buy for a middle income family

Food wise dont need to talk lo its always better to eat at the most expensive place

But getting back to the issue that I want to talk about is the she never had PATIENCE im not trying to boast myself or anything but although I was not earning much (3k plus) at that time people in my company saw potential in me and that I can go far in the company

fast forward 1 year later I already earning much more then what I use to earn and manage to have a healthy savings since i my ex left me I use the money to bring my family for trips nearly every month haha

But its sad that after 8 years of relationship she never had the patience to give me time to establish myself and that she keeps on comparing with her friends bf who are from rich families I believe this is not only her problem but a lot of girls too They want quick result and presume u should be wealthy even after few years of work

So to the girls out there is your BF not earning much and cant afford things that you want please please have PATIENCE banyak-banyak bersabar give him some time so that and he can afford to give u quality of life if not then go look for a guy who comes from a wealthy family lo

if she wants to understand you, she will but not your case. Apparently she put more priority to her "wants" more than your needs. She breakup with you might be a good thing. Is she hot? pretty? interesting person? why you choose her? You choose to be beta person, thats why you let her to make decision.

alpha person would just say bye bye & gtfo bltch. Hence, to summarize you are not strong enough to defend yourself.

dont have to proof who is right or who is wrong... in love there is no right or wrong... just love or dont love only... embrace ba... but as men/women single or attached or married or divorced... keeping improving life aspect through the time is a must.. and not to stop at one point..

there's a limit in how much one can make when working for people

eg for early 30s, usually most people can reach assistant manager, or still at senior execs level, cross check with jobstreet how much the salary range? at most is within 12k, that is consider top tier range, after epf and tax deductions is barely touching 10k only, and how many managers can a medium size company afford to hire anyway? retrenchment is more rampant nowadays

cannot compare with someone from family which is running a biz or collecting rentals from real estates. 20-30 years back real estates were cheap and unker aunties able to buy many to rent out. Passive income for these people can reach 5 figure a month easily.

if she wants to understand you, she will but not your case. Apparently she put more priority to her "wants" more than your needs. She breakup with you might be a good thing. Is she hot? pretty? interesting person? why you choose her? You choose to be beta person, thats why you let her to make decision.

alpha person would just say bye bye & gtfo bltch. Hence, to summarize you are not strong enough to defend yourself.

dont have to proof who is right or who is wrong... in love there is no right or wrong... just love or dont love only... embrace ba... but as men/women single or attached or married or divorced... keeping improving life aspect through the time is a must.. and not to stop at one point..

Got new gf already ah ? When wanna invite me to your new house ?

i agree with u somewhat but I not generalizing la but most people I know who comes from rich families are not independent enough or mature enough basically they just go through life listening to what their parents says since thats where the get the income So maybe I font come from a family which run a biz in real estate i know how to do get things done without anyone's help

Again marriage is not about 1 guy marrying 1 girl only its also about the guys family and the girls family need to be ngam on if not world war one right So if he marries a guy who comes from filthy rich family and she is not do u think its good for her  or not