see, you failed to see the restriction. In the case that i just mention, this woman planned that her husband will not be an offshore worker, after the third child, the husband lost his job and had to do offshore job to bring up the family. He had to do what he had to do.

That's what those parent are doing .
Eliminating risk .

Takde nye smpai psychological hurt . tu aku cakap kau overreacting .
bukan kena leash 24 jam . bukan leash kt leher pon . so what if psychologically hurt ? Kids cannot get hurt ? Anak nangis meraung2 nak mainan kalau tak nk beli kn , x psychologically hurt ?
Sayur sangat smpai boleh psychology hurt .

Budak bwh 4 taun nk psychology hape siak . dah kena leash pon dia anggap leash tu macam tak wujud .

Bro

I have 2 kids. 2 years old and 1 year old. I work 7-430 every weekdays and on alternate weekend have mba class
From 9-5. In my second semester and alhamdulillah with ok result. And I slept everyday at 2am just to take care of my children and wake up every 6am to go to work. Not bragging but just to say it is possible just need to know that there is the power of God.

You can't judge a book by its cover. You need to know what certain parents are going through. Though I don't do any leash but I understand why certain people do that.

wait. No husband?

Then did she work or just stay home?  stay home, house wife.

If she work who did she leave her kids to?
And the last point is

If those 3 are still small. Are u going to drag them all on the floor?

If they old enough to walk.including the youngest one all of them are able to walk themselve, even the one year old.

Then the oldest children would be smart enough to take care of himself trust me, dont trust them, 3 year old is the most riskiest out of all.

Hence no need leash

Just like my in law. Got 4 kids. Difference between them only a year how old are them?

No issue when going out because the 2 older siblings are old enough to take care the young ones later anything happen blame the siblings?i thought they need you because they want to go holiday, if they can ask theyir children to take care of each other, why would they need you? doesnt make sense.



U ask me the comparison between with what i do and leash

Hence i tell u

Worst case for me=no kid

Worst case for leash=possible psychological trauma + treating kid like animal

So my point is. What im doing is less damaging than leash

Thats my point

Im not saying all kid with leash will kena psychological trauma la
Of course. Im not saying its impossible

Im saying i choose not to do it in that situation

U can do it. Tahniah. Kudos to u

No beef brah

to be honest, you are saying it to their face, when i say "their" i mean who are parents and they use leash as their control in this forum,so technically you are saying it to their face. Heck your title enough to piss them off as if they are treating their child as an animal.

Unless your title is like..

"Hey guys, what do you think about leash for kids, any pro and cons, coz i see more cons in it."

wait. No husband?

Then did she work or just stay home?

If she work who did she leave her kids to?
And the last point is

If those 3 are still small. Are u going to drag them all on the floor?

If they old enough to walk.including the youngest one

Then the oldest children would be smart enough to take care of himself

Hence no need leash

Just like my in law. Got 4 kids. Difference between them only a year

No issue when going out because the 2 older siblings are old enough to take care the young ones
U ask me the comparison between with what i do and leash

Hence i tell u

Worst case for me=no kid

Worst case for leash=possible psychological trauma + treating kid like animal

So my point is. What im doing is less damaging than leash

Thats my point

Im not saying all kid with leash will kena psychological trauma la
Of course. Im not saying its impossible

Im saying i choose not to do it in that situation

U can do it. Tahniah. Kudos to u

No beef brah

dik that's bcos you dun know some kids are super hyper active.

u fortunate your kids are normal.

when i was a kid, im quite the obedient and polite type

quite the opposite of ur generalization

ada suatu kisah, si parents bawa anak2 pergi shopping baju sekolah kat mall.
syukut hujung tahun ada bonus, dapat la anak2 pakai baju baru.
ramai dapat bonus agaknya tahun ni hingga mall bersesak ramai.

si parents tersebut pun kehilangan anak kesayangan mereka di lautan manusia.
nanti ada hamba Allah bernama amon_meiz akan buka thread bersabda,"If u cant take care of your own kid. Sampai nak prevent hilang pun fail

Dont have kids. Just dont

Spare the kid of the suffering

Spare yourself from embarrassment

Spare mankind of your stupid gene. Let it die with u"

Nope

Never did that

Many thread about kid missing or kidnapping

Never did i post "tak pandai jaga. Tak payah buat"

Never

Unless u got proof la

syukur. nanti anak hilang then it is not the parents fault

No. It might be their fault

But throwing insults wont help them find their kid

Pointless and rude

tapi nak prevention kena insult pula. kesian jadi parents

tapi nak prevention kena insult pula. kesian jadi parents

hang jangan cakap kl dengan aku.
mak hang beranak tang mana

Sapa insults?

Kah kah kah

hang memang kelakar

1)house wife. I see

Then can ask the oldest take care of the little ones oldest is 3 years old bro....

Give milk. Let them sleep. Then go Haha this made me laugh, how little do you know about these kids. one of them threw the bottle to a 55inch tv and broke the screen.

2) 7.  5. 3. 1y.o  7 year old is still too young, but what about the one that i describe? 3 years old is the eldest.

When i go out with them

I only dukung the 1y.o

Other 3 behave very well

That might down to them being a non active kid

But still i find that leash is unneeded