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sangtupperware
post May 14 2016, 02:27 PM

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QUOTE(andrewhtf @ May 14 2016, 01:59 PM)
Well I think it's just another tool.

After all the kids belong to the parents. The parents would know what they can do within their limitations. If u have your own kids then u use your own methods, just leave other parents with their own methods.

Parents tak control, ada mulut celupar kondem parents tak control. Bila ada parents control,  ada mulut celupar kondem cara parents tu salah. Can't please everyone.
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this i agreed...

nowadays alot of ppl do not spent enough time with their kids....especially in working days....say like parents go to work then must put kids into nursery early in the morning...later come back late at night..cannot spent enough time with kids to teach them life...and the cycle continues...

maybe the only time they can spent enough time was during the weekends..saturday and sunday..or public holidays..

so as referring to limitation...they have to use this method to control their kids...they just don have enough time to teach the kids to behave...

people that can spent alot of time with their kids..thats different story...but nowadays trend...most husband n wife working ...very few wife we see are full time housewife...

ofc some parents even with the time i have given above..manage to teach their kids to behave...but we need to consider...that every children have different mind and understanding of things...so the time frame of teaching every single kids to behave is different from each other..

therefore ....just to be safe...like someone mention here...better to use that leach rather to lost the kid completely...especially those with that autism and adhd syndrom type of kids..

so its really not all parents that doing the leach thing method are treating their kids like animal...its because of their limitation...ofc a few will take advantage to avoid responsibility..but to generalize everybody doing this are treating their kids like animal...thats wrong..

another thing to bare in mind is criminal activity is not like in the 90's....nowadays crime can happened anywhere..and..what scarier is..people mostly will be only looking at your face when that happened...they also scared to help..cuz they also scared they'll got into trouble too..
sangtupperware
post May 14 2016, 03:53 PM

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QUOTE(amon_meiz @ May 14 2016, 03:42 PM)
Well. In that case. Leash would change anything

They  can snap the leash of the mother's hand

Or cut the leash
Yes. Of course boleh

But i choose not to

Because i want to give 100%

I dont want later i fail. I can use my studies as excuse

Its about eliminating possibly risk

Less thing i going to focus on

More time for my children

More chance of me succeeding in being a good parents

Its all factual number and probability

And what i did.does not harm anybody

At worst. I just dont have any kid. Nobody got hurt

But for leash. The kid got hurt. Psychologically.

And u treating ur kid like animal. Thats wrong
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u just answered why people use leach bro...same as ur logic..i highlighted it for u..

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sangtupperware
post May 14 2016, 04:10 PM

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QUOTE(amon_meiz @ May 14 2016, 04:00 PM)
wait. No husband?

Then did she work or just stay home?

If she work who did she leave her kids to?
And the last point is

If those 3 are still small. Are u going to drag them all on the floor?

If they old enough to walk.including the youngest one

Then the oldest children would be smart enough to take care of himself

Hence no need leash

Just like my in law. Got 4 kids. Difference between them only a year

No issue when going out because the 2 older siblings are old enough to take care the young ones
U ask me the comparison between with what i do and leash

Hence i tell u

Worst case for me=no kid

Worst case for leash=possible psychological trauma + treating kid like animal

So my point is. What im doing is less damaging than leash

Thats my point

Im not saying all kid with leash will kena psychological trauma la
Of course. Im not saying its impossible

Im saying i choose not to do it in that situation

U can do it. Tahniah. Kudos to u

No beef brah
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bro last time u saying that parent should be responsible for taking a good eye on their kids...now how come u need to rely on their sisters instead??...this is also not good excuse...as if the said sister are example trying..to take back her little brother to their parents..after loitering around far away..there will be a risk of getting both of them get kidnapped...hence now...it is ur fault..u should take care both of them...or 4 of them..by looking at them continuously...am i right here??...or u miss typed ur logic here?

man..ur not responsible to ur in-laws kids too??

lucky nothing happened man..

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sangtupperware
post May 14 2016, 05:03 PM

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QUOTE(Gon Freaks @ May 14 2016, 04:59 PM)
You see, when you have a 3 year old, 2 year old, and a 1 year old, most probably they wont sleep on the same timeline because you need to separate them as since they are small, you cant control their crankiness as it will be like, once you manage to make the first one sleep, when you are trying to make the second one sleep, the third one is going be shouting and causing the first one to wake up. and the cycles goes around.  oh about the bottle thing, just wanna say that even a 1 year old can do such thing with a bottle in her hand.

Oh boy, you are definitely goona have a first time with your first baby in the future, because you have the idea that you will always understand what they want or what is going on with them. Good LUCK ~ ;D

as for the thread nature, huh, its even funnier when you believe that there is right and wrong in kopitiam. You know that is all and fun in kopitiam but you expect that people in kopitiam are understanding. ahaha come on boy! having that mind set alone already tells you that in K\ everything can be amplified and wrongly interpreted.
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well amon....i think this thread might be a godsend upon u...

although there might be right and wrong here...but...soon in the future u will refer or might just remember this thread again..when u have ur child ofc..somehow i think this is karma in the making for u...

hopefully is on the bright sight ofc...goodluck

This post has been edited by sangtupperware: May 14 2016, 05:04 PM
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