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hutazi
post Sep 26 2017, 09:04 AM

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QUOTE(vo0de3_x | oum@n @ Sep 25 2017, 07:46 PM)
holy cow one years old ... thats quite a journey
i hope my daughter can fix the sleeping time asap .. my wife n my mother in law always gan jiong when my daughter cry @@
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LOL. if you think 1 years old is quite a journey. thats only season 1. got many seasons. and many filler episodes of crying because of weird reasons like want to pee but dont want to pee in the toilet, but want to pee in the shower...

you live with parents in law? this gonna make it even more difficult to train the kids. bangwall.gif after moving out. my son easier to handle. once they grandparents get a hold, kid becomes spoiled like fak.

anyways for the sleep thing, hard to train. my tips.
1. keep a routine.
2. keep lights dim/dark.
3. feed before bed.
4. know the difference between manja cry, hungry cry, and real cry.
5. dont make any eye contact.
6. dont play with them when they wake up crying.
7. remove toys out of the sleeping crib that would catch their eye or scare them.

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post Sep 26 2017, 09:41 AM

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QUOTE(Syd G @ Sep 26 2017, 09:31 AM)
Am not a big fan of Grolier due to its pushy marketing so I dont have any first hand experience.

But I do  know you can get used sets from mudah for less than half the price.
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haha. yeah i feel so annoyed they try to lure your kid in so you are stuck there. just a few books. got so many types of books out there. if you sign up and your kid doesnt like the books, then will be stuck with 84 useless books hahah.

nowdays got so many places to learn and have easy access to.
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post Sep 26 2017, 10:56 AM

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QUOTE(Alpina @ Sep 26 2017, 09:44 AM)
whats  up bros... father and husband here... ahahaha...
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welcome to the club.

QUOTE(vo0de3_x | oum@n @ Sep 26 2017, 10:22 AM)
I live with my own parent but my in law will be take care the baby once my wife started working.. my mom need to take care three of my sis child... Expected both side of parent will spoil ady lol
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haha. yeah thats gonna be tough. hopefully your parents (both sides) can learn to be strict. so many times when i scold my son the grandparents will say "its ok" then give him his toy or whatever back. after learning to eat by himself, after stay with grandparents for a few weeks, suddenly cannot hold his fork or spoon longer than 10 sec before crying "feed me!" hahah. damn it!
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post Oct 6 2017, 09:02 AM

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QUOTE(vince01 @ Oct 5 2017, 07:50 PM)
Hi everyone,

Me and my wife are contemplating to deliver in private or govt hospital? The nearest govt hospital in my area will be hospital sungai Buloh

Anyone have experience there b4? Doctor and nurse there good?.

Thanks in advance
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congrats! private is mainly for comfort. thats what you pay for. i wont say their docs + nurses are any better. if your wife is having a very standard pregnancy and you can afford it (6-15k natural to c-sec or emergency c-sec) then can consider private. if got real emergency, i think govt hospital much better though.
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post Oct 6 2017, 04:40 PM

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QUOTE(talexeh @ Oct 6 2017, 04:36 PM)
Wait, isn't this thread posted in /k/? Did mod move it over to P&P?
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that is a different thread. thats a rant thread... hahah. this thread more for guidance.
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post Oct 9 2017, 09:26 AM

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QUOTE(vo0de3_x | oum@n @ Oct 7 2017, 05:00 PM)
morning until night drink breast milk.. midnight drink formula..will try reduce the scoop of milk powder n see
Mine previously daily poo once or twice..before came back my home started constipation n today is 4 days ady
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i think at 4 days. the stool sudah impacted. go to the pedeatrician to get a suppository. after a while the stool becomes too hard so the child doesnt want to pass motion as it hurts. the suppository force it out. its going to be painful to watch. but please go to doc as soon as possible it will only get harder and more as the body will keep absorbing moisture out of the stool.

my son had the same issue and still giving us some issue (now 3yrs+) but seems to be getting better. but its always a concern for us.
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post Oct 9 2017, 10:34 AM

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QUOTE(eksk @ Oct 9 2017, 09:49 AM)
having difficulty with my son in going to school.. every week sure will throw tantrum and say don't want to go school.. in the morning we sent to my MIL house and from there my mother will pick him up and send to school..  when he don't want to go he will refuse to wear schoool clothes and cry .. he'll even run out of the house in the compound to avoid wearing school clothes...  usually everybody gives up and he gets a day off school ..

at first i thought coz he is going to chinese school and we are a English speaking household. though my MIL speaks to him in Mandarin.. thought coz he can't follow lessons but he is not the only one in his class with this background though.. he seems happy when i pick him up in school .. talking about happenings in school.. he doesn't seem to be bullied.. its just that period of getting him to school.. once there he seems ok..

*sigh* rant over
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no offense but i think you need to be more strict in your handling of your son. Your MIL or Mother will not be strict, they will spoil your kid, the "kasi je lah" or "its ok lah" is standard for all grandparents. even my son wanna take neices toy they will say "its ok lah. just toy he can take it back" but we are strict. Die die, the kid crying we wont let him take the toy as it is not his. he can play, but cannot take it home.

same my son crying for school. cry however he wants. we will fully dress him and drag him to the car. then after that sudah calm down. sampai school also happy. no matter how fun school is. better to be able to hang out at home. once they learn its not an option unless they are sick or family emergency, then they will of course fight it.
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post Oct 31 2017, 05:02 PM

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QUOTE(wyyew @ Oct 31 2017, 03:58 PM)
hi ,

can  i know your partner will keep on vomiting after 3 months pregnancy?

Thank for sharing.
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my waifu vomit for 9 months. good luck! hahahah. bring plastic bag everywhere.
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post Oct 31 2017, 05:20 PM

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QUOTE(quebix @ Oct 31 2017, 05:04 PM)
just wanna ask any fathers here if they share the same experience.

my baby (now 3 months old) has been acting like this ever since i take him out in the car....maybe around a few weeks old i guess.

everytime my car stop, he will start crying. even at the traffic light.
if traffic jam, headache. hahaah.

if long distance drive, sleep soooooo well, not even lorry honking or loud music can wake him, but as soon as i stop the car at R&R, he start to wake up and cry.

so sensitive meh?can know if the car is moving or not. lol
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baby is used to motion because whem mom walks around easy to rock him to bed. at home how you put the kid to sleep? with a rocker? if he always learn to sleep when things moving or always quiet, then susah later.

QUOTE(quebix @ Oct 31 2017, 05:05 PM)
wow pity u both.

imagine all the nutrients she lost.
pity the baby as well.
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dont need pity the baby. he came out at 4kg. enough nutrients di.
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post Nov 1 2017, 09:57 AM

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QUOTE(quebix @ Nov 1 2017, 08:56 AM)
at home we dont use a rocker to put him to sleep.
just carry him and sway a bit. or just carry him above the shoulder, or just breastfeed...he doesnt really feed, but just sucking until sleep. comfort sucking is the term i think.
4kg? wahahaha.
im no doctor, but maybe ur wife vomited because too much nutrients...
or perhaps if she didnt puke too much, the baby is 5 kg!!
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hmm. maybe once in a while start training him to sleep by just putting him on bed and lying down with him. hopefully then movement wont effect him much. then can sleep soundly. or can resort to pacifier? we used pacifier and once hit two just throw away. never teach them suck thumb... cannot throw thumb away... hahahah

dunno why wife vomit whole time. maybe cause no energy from baby absorb all her nutrients. lucky she will also eat a lot to replace. if she no appetite and vomit sure gone case. but now everyone healthy and good so thats over and done with hahah.

you can buy that rocker from Ford. hahah. simulates the car and even got noise hahah
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post Nov 1 2017, 10:04 AM

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QUOTE(quebix @ Nov 1 2017, 10:02 AM)
no, my baby doesnt really need to be "in motion" to go to sleep. lie down and sleep.
or lie down witht he mother (also lie down) while sucking (not really feeding), or just carry him on my shoulders. not really a problem.

just that when in car, cannot stop at all. haha. i usually have to find less traffic jam road and less traffic light roads.
did your wife get sensitive with ur scent too?
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nope. my wife ok with everything. no real strong cravings or anything. just eat whatever but just vomit easily. partly i think due to we ride bus to work that time everyday.
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post Nov 1 2017, 10:13 AM

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QUOTE(quebix @ Nov 1 2017, 10:10 AM)
all her pregnancy like that or only that one?
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only that. hahah as only have one kid
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post Nov 1 2017, 10:58 AM

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QUOTE(quebix @ Nov 1 2017, 10:23 AM)
owh ok.
planning to get a new baby? not yet?
how old is ur child now? what is the best gap between children?
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nope. due to our working schedule and what not, we think 1 child is enough to put our efforts to give him best what we can afford. better schools, better experiences, etc. hes 3+ years. as for age gap, i think normally people wait 1-2 years. one for mum to heal, another to allow baby to become less dependent. but some people every year get... so dunno lah. depends on situation. i think if c-sec, need 1.5 yrs healing or something. forgot di.
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post Nov 1 2017, 11:25 AM

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QUOTE(quebix @ Nov 1 2017, 11:09 AM)
yeah, i agree.
if can afford to have one child, support one child.
if can support 10 child, then support 10 child.

not like some people, cannot support 5 child, but have 5 child and then ask for donation.
pity the children.
but one thing to ponder, i have a close friend, he dont have siblings. only son.
he said its not easy. sometimes feel its kejam.
when hi father passed away, just leave him and mother, no brother sisters to help out oso.
growing up also alone. and a lot of other things.
so, work hard, and try to give your son a sibling.
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haha. yeah lah. some really get tons of kids. it is nice to have siblings. but to cut quality of life i think not worth it. especially in our economy now. if i have a 2nd that would equal: then no more/less overseas travel, lower level of tadika/school, more stress on finances and mental stress. all not worth it. even if we have 2-3 kids doesnt guarantee a single one will help their dying parents anyways. or even help their bro and sis to support the parents. anyways we also older di. risk of unhealthy kid sudah multiply berapa kali di.

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post Nov 6 2017, 02:34 PM

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QUOTE(Dead_Arrow @ Nov 6 2017, 02:03 PM)
Hi All the Daddy here, did any of you feed your baby with S26 milk? Normally where you all buy the milk as the price increasing and now looking for cheaper price (Even Shopee also selling Rm84 for step 2). Need some help here.
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yo. i using s-26, i normally keep track of Tesco pricing. i forgot how much i bought step 2 as its a while back but sometimes they got some really good discount. that plus my CC 5% cashback, can save a bit.

for instance, the S-26 step 4 goes for RM90+ normally. Once i bought from Tesco @ RM75 during their promos. also sometimes you can find some discounts via partners. such as last time i bought it via happy fresh which they offered free delivery for first time, plus like RM30 or RM50 discount voucher via maxis. i know this all not that much to some, but thats almost 1 week petrol for me yo! hahahah.
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post Nov 6 2017, 03:11 PM

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QUOTE(Dead_Arrow @ Nov 6 2017, 02:46 PM)
Thanks for sharing, Tesco is kinda not convenience for me. i did try check in Aeon Big which im a member and have their Aeon CC. If I went on 28th of the month (member day) I mostly entitle 10% but the actual price for S26 at Aeon kinda expensive. After few survey and I found Shopee kinda cheap as it include shipping fees. Just due to new packaging, most of the seller increase the price.
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tesco can deliver ma. i always deliver haha cause sometimes buy like 6 boxes. so no need angkut sendiri
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QUOTE(Yveatel @ Nov 6 2017, 06:17 PM)
No... it was indeed a sudden change for the baby
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yeah should mix the two. then slowly change the flavour. i think step 2 start having vanilla flavour or something.. but step 1 has the most nutrients i think. so shouldnt be any issue.
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post Nov 8 2017, 05:44 PM

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QUOTE(quebix @ Nov 8 2017, 05:42 PM)
my baby has drink the step 1 (enfalac) lesser and lesser now, and i think he prefers breast milk better.
should i be worried?

he is 3 months old, and on formula (enfalac A+ step 1) and bf, both.
lately has not been feeding much, and i noticed more to bf compared to formula.

anyone has any similar experience?
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why need to be worried. i'd be worried if he want the enfalac more than the breast milk. the BM fed via bewb or via bottle as well? that may be the reason.
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post Nov 9 2017, 09:17 AM

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QUOTE(quebix @ Nov 8 2017, 05:53 PM)
he is breast fed, and only formula by bottle.

u are saying nipple confusion? but now 3 months going to 4 months soon oo
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no lah not nipple confusion. but maybe he feels more comfortable with breastfeeding than using the bottle. but if i remember correctly my son went through the same thing. dunno how many times throw out formula. pain wooo. hahaha. in the end started making less but more feeding. once he was continuously finishing the formula, then started mixing more again.
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QUOTE(quebix @ Nov 9 2017, 09:19 AM)
so u mean, its normal. after that phase, he started taking formula again?
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yeah i think so. i dunno if they get bored or what. hahah. used to make 150ml... baby only drink 50ml. the rest throw. so sad. LOL. but after a while, he got better.

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