i whack my kid's hand and with super stern voice get angry with him. after that never again.

how old is your kid? can understand reasoning?

worse comes to worst, just safety plug all the power so if on and off at least no issue. let them play till they get bored of it.

hmm. as long as he doesnt FULL BLOWN crying i think should be ok. kesian the little guy got that issue.

a year and a half i think still cannot really understand 'why?' type of things. so a bit hard for reasoning with him. my son for some things i will just try explain that if he does do it and something happen we will be very sad. seems that emotion is something they sorta can grasp.

my wife just tells him 'if you do that again, mama will be sad and wont talk to you' then he also stop and will be a bit sad, but wont cry. but all kids different so hard to say. the issue with boys is that they are so stubborn. the other way is just to distract, but easier said than done. haha.

this would be ideal lah. but then need to tampal everywhere.


yeah. last time i had to open up my sub woofer.... take out few thomas train engines.....

hahah. sounds so cute. but stress at same time. is it a normal occurance. i mean like all the time? strangers kids too or just family?

once in daycare normally the teacher will be more experienced as they deal with tons of kids. sure they can help manage it. if you have a place in mind, maybe can ask them for some tips of how they handle kids. also good info to find out how they handle bullying.


wah young dad. congrats man! its a challenge for sure. but yeah. life so damn hard and then see your kid smile when you come home is really the best feeling. i only see friends at events like org kahwin or something otherwise we are in our own family bubble hahah. keep at it bro. you will be masta in no time, then all your friends turn they will call you sifu hahahah.

oh... thats pretty bad. this one sure can cause gaduh between kids, or even between parents...

not entirely sure at all how to help other than talking to him about personal space. i guess. but maybe too young to understand.

you mean the one for baby bottle and sayur and stuff? LOL. should be fine. if no rashes or anything i doubt any issue.

have you done the nebulizer?

my son had a cough which lasted a while. so in the end he admitted to hospital for 2-3 days and did nebulizer around 4-5 times a day i think. after 3 days, all ok. if dont want to admit also can, but just need to go to clinic 5x per day. but we had insurance so still ok lah.

Ya lah. But most insurance won't cover that. So need to admit then will cover all costs plus doc visit 2 times per day to monitor and adjust dosage and frequency.

there is probably nothing you can really do to increase your likelyhood of a boy. just keep conceiving. its 50:50. thats all.

some families are prone to boys, some prone to girls. no such method and i would hardly believe any science behind increasing the chances unless it was down to genetically messing around with stuff. my cousins family wanted a girl. in the end 6 boys and one girl. i dont think many will be trying so hard like that hahahah.

breast milk will get digested much faster so baby easy to be hungry. if its a real issue, can try use formula milk before sleep.

then no choice loh hahah.

if BF, then kid confirm keep waking up due to being hungry. just supplement the formula for the meal at around midnight, then at least can get few hours straight sleep. only 1 time ma. haha. then later 4-5am can do breastfeeding again.

he mentioned he is always outstation. so that makes it hard to work in shifts or help her out other than moral support. kesian the mum. sure going to be grumpy and on edge as keep waking up every hour or so... (which i think is a military torture method ) hope she can cope through all of that.

dont forget to hold her hair as she throws up. hahah.

just read and keep reading. find out what foods are important. make sure shes taking all the vitamins etc. anyways. just be knowledgable and not blur af and she will already really appreciate it.

if shes lucky she wont get. not all will get.

just go to the pharmacy and ask the pharmacist there. there are a lot of brands, but essentially all the same stuff. just get some DHA, folic acid, etc. make sure got folic acid. anwyays the pharma can guide.

if got budget then just go find a gynae. ask for recommendations. or you can visit those gov klinik for wanita and anak2. should be free and they should have all the equipment if not mistaken. congrats!

not a good idea bro. the milk is not bland for baby. think of it this way. a kid has no experience with taste. so for you its bland for them its like "DAMN SEDAPPPP YOOOO! WHAT IS THIS MAGIC!?" hahah. anyways. follow the recommended mixture or add a bit more (some water will be lost as the hot water evaporates).

my son also has hard stool, since birth till now. dunno wtf the reason. some kids just dont want to poop. so it becomes impacted and then loses moisture then becomes hard. but make sure they are getting enough liquids.

but dont give your baby water. just formula or breast milk. giving them water makes them full, but no nutrients.

stroller also very useful. to dump all your heavy bags hahahah.

my son also very active during those times. will get the 2 seats at the front aisle with the wall. then we put up our kaki to block him and he plays around as got some space and he ketuk the wall also no issue. just this weekend flew back to kl and son (now 3yrs) hentam the screen so many times hahah. lucky managed to get him to stop and also get him tido.

Depends where and what activities? Since already passed first trimester. Should be no big issue. Unless she is at risk category