Wow, so much too read! You guys...

Usually what most Christian girl/guy are concerned on being unequally yoked with non believers is to avoid family conflict/arguments due to religious culture & difference. Believe me It will happen. It's either from the couple or the parents.

If you have a very stout religious parents, you will have problem in having a blessed marriage. Don't think either parents will budge.

Unless you and your parents are okay with getting married under Christian ceremony and will not stop her from her faith and you are willing to be open to Christ, you may have chance.

From God's perspective why God disallowed this is because Marriage is a sacred matrimony. We believe when Man and Woman come together they become ONE in spirit.

Your potential life partner have God's own Spirit in her and If you're from another religion, we believe you have another spirit, there can be no union when both have different spirit of different religious background.

I'm sorry if I offended you but this is what I can explain.

im an atheist. I dont care about the ceremony, it can be under a tree or a church or anything.

i never did stop her from practicing her faith. I'm spiritual, in my own ways. Not the typical Judaeo-christian spirituality, but I understand her beliefs too.

It's not only about Marriage ceremony but a lot of other things. It's not about now, but the long term future.

Most couple are like that. Before marriage, everything also can one and everything okay one.

After marriage, it's a different story there will be requirements and expectations. Trust me.

Maybe it's not you could be her, maybe it could be you. People change as time goes by. Doesn't matter, Life is always a challenge.

Being of the same Faith does help a lot in marriage especially for Christians because we believe in God, we believe that prayer changes situation.

With only her as the believer when it should be both as husband and wife and the Man taking the lead as the Head of the House, there will be times she need you to believe with her...things like that.

Sometimes it's the parents. That is a big headache. When and If you have children.... Some parent insist to go to temple, Her parents will of course object, insist to go to Church ...things like that.

If I may add, sounds like life after marriage sucks.

Life is not a bed of roses they said.

Jesus wasn't kidding when He said We will have tribulation in life.

Without God, not only marriage but like can also sucks

But if you and your hubby put Christ as the center and the head of your marriage, it can be like wine, gets better when it gets older.

Even sex.

Wow. My ex church pastor thinks sex is a dirty thing.

You think the devil created sex?

God is the one who created sex and it's good because it's designed for married couples originally.

The Devil is the one who PERVERTED this and promote the opposite; make people think it's good OUTSIDE of marriage.

And the idea is that what is wrong has been replaced to self justify with the word "it's natural".

See where the world is today, n you'll understand.

Of course I know its from God. But the supposingly MEN of GODLY NATURE thinks otherwise.

Just like what you always reiterated again and again. Not by law but by grace of God.

These pastors are better off living in the 12th century.

The world today is corrupted, you see SEX everywhere in the mainstream media. You can even watch porn in European cable TV.

But in Malaysian TV, even kissing is censored. LEL.

Since when Sex is wrong in marriage?

What sort of Pastors are those?

The ones that aren't getting any sex.

By their logic, its bad because they said so.

I don't want to give names, denominations, etc....

FYI, to them drinking wine is ok.

That's why these type of pastor[s] are not pastoring in my church anymore.

Itu follow the old old old prutian ideals. Boleh kata ajaran sesat de.

Yup. Is de1929 considered "ajaran sesat" ?

oh no, Puritans; they pursue moral purity down to the smallest details something like what's that group call? Living in Isolation from the world.....

Hey Tina, with regards to partying vs Life, introduce your cousins to listen to this.

Hobbits.

Amish.

Yeah Amish. ha ha.

Sometime I wish people know how to read the Bible.

My China cousins are Buddhists. Please UW, My mum already gave me a tongue lashing..Spare me..

They rather listen to Kanye West ( ) and 1Direction (boring).

They even asked me to play this stupid "kissing game" during my visit. Sheesh...

Meanwhile my mother is playing mahjong with her relatives.

Lacrae and Andy Mineo are the biggest Name in Christian Hip Hop

This guy also not bad