maybe one day you can just go sit infront of him during lunch time and talk to him while eating. and you can ask him...what made him look at you.? something like that... then if he's like not answering your question sincerely or something then u see how lo. (his response will tell you about it lo..)

But for you to just go and sit infront of him would shock him... hahhaha... but just treat it as a casual chat lo.. like getting to know each other.. instead of like want to question him like police like that...hahah...talk about anything also can la... and if he's too shocked to talk.. then juz diam diam eat lo... and then after that.. u go on with whatever your life is...hahhaa.. how's that.? If i offended anyone here, i apologize.

so how??

i recently i was 'hinting' him that i wanna break friendship with him...
but i think he doesnt get my hinting...

mon-tue : i nv find him..then at nite , he sms n ask y i nv find him...

wed : he got exam..i went to college..then he suddenly talk bout his gf...in front og the college main entrance i push him away n walk off....when he go downstairs ady..then he call me ask me want ti eat o not? (coz actually b4 he talk bout his gf we plan to eat lunch together)...then i went down and find him..and had lunch with him b4 he goes to office..

thurs : i nv sms o call him...(at nite : he sms and ask [hello, how are u? y nv find me? u busy?] this is wat he asked...

everytime when i nv choi him few days..he sure will sms n ask me wat happen & y nv find him?

i really dunno wat he meant by this? i really very confuse...friends wont do like that...

he like that only hurting me day by day...

im also thinking it too.. cuz.. i really duno...
guys, when u keep on looking at her,
usually u like? or u think she is weird?? or watever
that makes u looking.. and she also felt he is looking at her..
haiz..
sorry ah.. just a survey

Because of her beauty...
Because of her clothes...
Last not least just cuci mata

Could be someone he knows or look familiar?

treat u as good like his gf? ...super care of u..?

Eyes tell true story . The only fallback would be

wat is the question?
i am so blur...

hmm i think that would scare the guy IF he doesnt mean anything by keep staring at the girl

hm...i am interested with a girl...but no one would interested with me.=/

when he tries his best not to embarrased himself
EG: He was with 2 friends of his, scolding each other with fouls.
But the minute he sees u, he will start acting gentleman
Suddenly he will be the angle. Saying "Hey, its rude to speak like that"

EG2: He get bullied by his friends, but upon looking at u, he stood up, and fought back. Even if lose also look yeng ma~

hahaha, i think tis from a gal point of view

bt i am pretty sure most guy nvr react tat way, most i think then will tell their frend " i got something up " n disappear from sight, until his frend is missing then he will start his " kau Lui "

Hmm.. I think some of the guys here are right. Guys who show interests are often concerned about your well being.

Truth be told, in all 6 relationships I've had, it was the girl who chased me. >.< How lame is that?

woo hoo, consider yourself lucky man, gal chase you , tak payah trouble go "kau lui", in your case it "kau cai "

Yeah, a couple of my previous gfs told me before, that I'm damn blur when it came to receiving signals they're trying to send. It's bad because they get tired of waiting for me to do something and so they initiated the first move.

hahaha, then tat wat we call a waste ! bt it a man glory gal chasing after you, consider yourself the luckiest man on earth, not once bt 6 time gal chase after you ! who are you? some kind of superstar ? haha

Lmao. Dude, you don't know WHAT how many of us wouldn't give to be in your shoes. Srsly. U must be like better looking than the average John.

Couldn't help that ur siggy is hilarious xD

Btw, this is kinda true, for the first part. Lol. But that doesn't necessarily mean he wants to attract the girl's attention. Might be he just wants to give his friends a warning "oi, female coming, turn on your other dictionary!" or just wants a good image in front of girls.

Different guys give different reactions when they like a girl. Usually he'll try to find stuff in common with the girl, like she likes jap dramas, then he'll say "oh yea, i like them too... blablabla" then he will ask her to pinjam him and stuff like that. There are a million ways for a guy to come up with an excuse to chat with a girl or get closer to her so, u'll probably get many different answers on how do guys normally react if they like u.

In general, i think, he'll try to chat with you, go toilet maybe he teman u, ask u if u are craving for anything, either he will tapau for u or take u out. It all sounds friendly, and very close to like what normal friends do, but i think if u really see... its a lil different. Like .. theres more passion. I don't know how to say... you can sense his motive 1 larh

This post has been edited by Grimm: Oct 23 2008, 08:38 PM

Hmm I don't know. I'm just an ordinary guy like everyone else.


Yeelin, that kinda sucks. I've been in that kind of situation. Actually I'm still dragging my feet over it.

he will always call u.. sms u.. ask u out ... when u are together he will make u feel safe and be gentlemen to u..

1. he care for u
2. he malu2 like kucing?
3. he asked u out?
4. STOP & STARE only?
franly speaking i also dunno meh..... guys i dunno whether they are stupid or not..
care like more than friends... treat more than frens.... make all people around you feel u got sumthing going on between both of you.. then suddenly come to stop? seriusly... these guys are complicted... enuff said