Voted "Yes".
i've decided to skip the 14 pages reply and proceed to replying..
to a guy, the sexual relationship can mean one kind of recognition to the relationship.
so her reactions to his eyes could be somewhat a demotion to the relationship.
before disgusting the guy, one should probably put oneself in his shoe, imagine that ur partner express dislike--at some point even reject all kinds of intimacy to take place, how would u feel?
he, in this case should not be the only one to get the blame.
they both share equally responsibility to make the relationship works.
the pain during the initial few times of sex is bound to happen.
Try using lubricants and better foreplay before attempting again.
they may need counseling if this situation continues, marital counselors might help too.