if she didnt like sex now..will she like sex after married? if not also, how about the guy, mast his whole life?
Is sex really important?, What is your opinion??
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 Feb 22 2008, 04:19 PM
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Feb 22 2008, 05:49 PM
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I vote "yes" too...cos Sex is just another way to express Love and care....hahaha
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Feb 22 2008, 06:09 PM
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sex is an important part of a relationship lah. especially after marriage.
one- your friend doesn't like sex because it hurts. hello, of course it hurts lah if it's the first few times. she can't just shut him off from sex totally because it hurts her, that's pretty selfish. two- him not showing any affection is also selfish. conclusion? they totally shouldn't get married. it's gonna be heading for disaster if they can't realize that love is selfless and it's about both of you being happy and reaching a compromise. it's not possible for her to not have sex EVER because she doesn't like it. two, he has to understand other ways to make it better for her. can't say that sex is not important, but can't say that it's the most important thing. sex, like anything else, should be in moderation. there's no such extremes. |
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Feb 22 2008, 10:16 PM
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of course is important ah
 after marriage actually  |
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Feb 23 2008, 02:00 AM
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QUOTE(matthewctj @ Feb 22 2008, 03:46 PM) Erm, shallow you mean? whahhaa...tahnk u for the correction  Only women swallow    This post has been edited by akchang: Feb 23 2008, 02:01 AM |
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Feb 23 2008, 03:19 AM
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Very interesting topic indeed
 Perhaps the gf would like to find out why is it painful? |
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Apr 13 2008, 03:34 AM
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Watson, Guardian, petrol stations, 7-11s..they are all selling the lubricants..few choices..I never use it before, but lately I always visited Watson and accidentally saw many new different packing and different flavour..It doesn't cost too much, the big bottle one I think not more than RM20.00 ..I think that will reduce the pain..
but I still suggest that to reduce more pain, the first position when having sex, is to have gal on top..so that the gal can control the strength and also to get use the hardness of something tat going into their body, loosen it a bit and only proceed to other position. |
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Apr 16 2008, 08:47 AM
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NOOO~~ Animalss Instinctss =X ... *Shuts up and gets out*
*Peeps* hehe tis sounds like interesting... This post has been edited by DreamChaser85: Apr 16 2008, 08:48 AM |
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Apr 22 2008, 04:24 PM
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Wuu....sex not only statisfy for guys..for girls also..
somehow, a couple, sex will not only bring statisfaction for both of them, it can build up strong relationship between them... |
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Apr 23 2008, 01:15 AM
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QUOTE(quireyuyue @ Dec 7 2006, 10:21 AM) Recently, a fren of mind encounter a problem. She and her bf decided to get married by next yr, so they have been having sex a few times d but my fren does not really enjoy it. She feel uncomfortable and she said its painful for her bcoz of it. the post is almost 1 year and half already. i really wondering your friend married to that guy already?So, she's been giving excuses and tried to avoid from having sex coz even after she told him the problem, he still insist. Now her bf did not push my fren anymore, but he also did not tok to her. Did not touch her anymore, not even hold her hand!!! he basically just ignore my fren. Not just ignore, he totally pretend as if she's not there!!!! FYI, they're living together and both parents also know about their relationship and the suppose to be coming soon marriage(i dont really know if marriage will take place anymore anot) so their relationship is very very much a serious 1. haiz....i did not know how i can comfort my fren but i personally disgusted at that guy. I wanna ask my fren to dump him straight out but then i just dun wan push my own opinion on her. Pls give ur opinion on this so i can tell my fren about it. usually girls have her first time is very pain. After a few times only can feel better but not 100% enjoy it. should be slowly to get better. BTW her bf also should understand her gf's situation. he should more gentlely... if not the gf will afraid to have sex with the bf again. is very normal she say NO to him. so he should not ignore his gf!!! that's his fault!!!!!!!!!  |
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Apr 23 2008, 11:10 AM
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voted no....
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Apr 23 2008, 11:51 AM
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There should be another poll for the ladies to answer if they enjoy sex or not.
From the responses here many people assume that sex is always pleasurable for the girl. But research has shown that not all women find it enjoyable (usually a physiological problem, sometimes psychological) and guys have to understand this and find out how to overcome the problem. |
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Apr 23 2008, 12:34 PM
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QUOTE(jchong @ Apr 23 2008, 11:51 AM) There should be another poll for the ladies to answer if they enjoy sex or not. Girls enjoy "making love" not so much of penetration. From the responses here many people assume that sex is always pleasurable for the girl. But research has shown that not all women find it enjoyable (usually a physiological problem, sometimes psychological) and guys have to understand this and find out how to overcome the problem.  What do you girls say? |
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Apr 23 2008, 12:54 PM
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QUOTE(fujkenasai @ Apr 23 2008, 12:34 PM) Girls enjoy "making love" not so much of penetration. have you penetrate one before ? What do you girls say?  |
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Apr 23 2008, 02:42 PM
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QUOTE(dopodplaya @ Apr 23 2008, 12:54 PM) have you penetrate one before ? That is none of your business, read more books and watch more documentaries dude. |
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May 19 2008, 12:50 PM
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if scared 2 pain, how 2 get pregnant???pregnant even more pain den having sex!! rite??
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May 19 2008, 01:29 PM
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The key point here communication and understanding. After all, the relationship wouldn't have happened in the first place without those two. Why must it stop in bed?
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May 19 2008, 01:32 PM
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Sex ain't important.... but it help to build up the relationship of a couple. some couple can even together long lasting even without sex.
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May 19 2008, 01:49 PM
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SO important.. NO sex = NO mankind..
 Haha.. Juz kiddin.. Bout relationship.. I would say it depends.. If both likes it i dun c y not..  Most important is that both couple understand each other... Of course relationship should not be based on sex alone... But it sure makes it more interesting n fun..  |
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May 20 2008, 05:34 AM
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A relationship based on just sex alone isnt going to work.
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