Well, only dolphin and human enjoys sex. Oh, and sex is important in reproduction. Sometimes, it relieves headache. Not bad not bad.

But the most important thing is, who is your partner? A mere partner or someone you love?

no sex..not sincere..hahaha

That would be the lamest trick guys always have in their sleeve

Sex is one thing ... making love is another thing
I can have sex with anyone , guys or gals ... or i can even pay to have sex.

But Making Love with your partner is a whole different sensation where you try to please your partner as much as possible (where most guys fail to see that )

This post has been edited by MSA: May 20 2008, 09:52 AM

So if both tries to please each other as much as possible what will it end up to be? What if the other end do not feel pleased?

Please do tell me when do you "make love" and don't feel pleased ....
But i Do feel that way when i'm really stressed so sometimes i'll skip sex cuz I will not be able to perform

This post has been edited by MSA: May 20 2008, 10:20 AM

I dun know my partner never pleases me.

hahaha the "words" bro..the promise..n wat so ever...hahaha

Tisue paper you really wipe away tears ehh?

hahahaha anyway..im kidding bro....just enjoy the ride...

i agree couples have sex and disagree one night stand or call prostitute.but underage couples who wanna have sex have to becareful.

uh, KY jelly might help?

my virgin post and reply.
Men go through different stages in life, same as women.
When i was young, i am desperated for sex(I believe most teenage boys are like me,too),I respect my gf, i never force her till we are 23 when we are going to marry than we have sex.
When we start doing it, i just cant stop, it is just like a curse. I just want to meet her and do it, i never betray her, i just want to do it with her and not anyone else even when they are occassion when some ladies approached me for...i just want to do it with her, maybe some will said my gf should dump me, but please girls, listen to us, men, it is our needs. Some can control it, some not.Not all men can have sex with other girls. I cant, only with my gf(safe to be with her).

Men are different from women, maybe we are young, fit and strong. We need to release our strength somewhere.

Now coming to late 30, i am sad to say that i am not as desperate as last time. My wife blame me for having sex with her once a month, thinking that i may have betraying her outside.

When she was young, she dislike it at all even i make her so high. Now, she like a beast.hehehe.wanting more and more while i am so stress with my work. May be also lacks of exercise to maintain my fitness.

Maybe your friend is still young and have not reach the age or urges to like sex, maybe some imagination of sexual fantasy to open her thinking. She feel guilty as what was taught in her religious.

Her bf maybe like me, only want to do it with her but nobody else, he may feel hurt and sad for rejecting him(I said that because you mentioned they are going to marry), girls will think that everytime, my bf(esp army boys) meet me just to have sex, he is not worthy for me, just want sex from me. Most of us are build these way, unless gay.

Sometime, it better to keep your virgin and do it when you get marry. When you try it, you just want to have more and more.

Do you all think there is problem occurs there for a couple without sex relationship even though has been together more than 3 years ?

I suppose sex is very important to keep the intimacy going and the relationship lasting. It's not the act itself that's important, but knowing that u've given it to each other, and thus becomes a sort of 'symbol' that u 2 love each other very much.

Of course there's exceptions, but sex should be a way of demonstrating love and intimacy.. not just simply a way for lust.. XD But then again...

people, the poll question is if without sex, will your relationship crumble. obviously, if it were to crumble because there is no sex, then it is a lust relationship and not love. voted no.

i so damn agree wif u...
sometime we ask for it is nt bcz we are ham sap(horny) or watsoever...bt we jus wanna knw whether the gal o guy willing to "give"...
i myself as a guy has been absent from sex for 2 weeks, quite suffering...to tell the truth, if we're talking about sex guys...it's better never than ever..
jus one time will make u ask for more, and then, when they stop giving u u will be in despair...

If have discomfort, search up on remedies.. That way, its both a win-win dicision.

And most guys crave for "it"
and one word for a great marridge - Intimacy!
If the other partner doesn't like it - tough relationship

SEX is undoubtedly essential for a healthy relationship. Seriously, your friend is being 101% unfair to her bf. Do you expect him to live without sex for the rest of his life? I'm sure no man would ever want that. unless his pennis had been chopped off or he's gay or something. If someone whom you love so much, most probably the women your gonna share your life with for the rest of your life tells you " i don't like having sex with you. ITS annoying, your being a jerk. STOP IT. JUST STOP HAVING SEX WITH ME" as a guy, how would you feel? DEJECTED. No sex after marriage? NO! Well at least not for me.

This post has been edited by yijzen: Jun 1 2008, 10:31 AM

Then find another partner lol Just joking, talk with him/her. Communication very important. Otherwise relationship will not last long

is eating important?