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 Marrying soon. Need vasectomy recommendation.

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post Dec 19 2015, 09:57 PM

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QUOTE(Syd G @ Dec 19 2015, 08:36 PM)
Yes menstrual cramps and bleeding. Very light periods afterwards because the mechanism is to thin out the endometrium. Not because you're going into menopause or something biggrin.gif

Implanon works via systemic circulation (spread hormones from your arms to your body, and hits your reproductive organs), but Mirena works by local release of hormone. But do get your gynae's advice. Not some stranger on the Internet wink.gif
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Ooh interesting. Thanks so much for the info biggrin.gif
The IUD sounds ideal haha. Now I know what to ask and look up already wink.gif

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post Jan 12 2016, 05:28 PM

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vasectomy seems to be common thing for the western. In Msia, anyone heard of it done on your relatives or friends? I'm worry that the doctor here are so out of practice that complication might occur.

We are planning to stop having kids, but so far, still not sure which option to go yet.
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post Jan 31 2016, 06:41 PM

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My cousin in law had his done in Sydney. He mentioned that the recovery period is much better to deal with than circumcision, the morning erections won't hurt that bad. Which is probably the reason how he's able to fly back to Malaysia just one day after surgery.
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post Feb 5 2016, 04:44 PM

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I was told by someone who is working in a fertility clinic that vasectomy is indeed available in Malaysia. Try asking your urologist about it.
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post Apr 3 2016, 06:51 PM

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Stumbled upon this thread/Q.... Wow so many people on high horses here. It's TS choice lah. Ppl ask question obviously already researched and thought about it. Suddenly religion get pulled in, then ask ladies side to do and bla bla bla..... Zzzz.

TS, I have friends who did this in DSH (damansara specialist hospital). Was a simple procedure it seems, no need to stay. Give them a call and hope you can start there.

Respect your choice and decision man, all the best!
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post Apr 4 2016, 01:58 AM

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QUOTE(supersound @ Sep 5 2015, 08:50 AM)
Don't want your wife to get pregnant, don't make love, simple as that. Making love is a sin to begin with.
Follow too many Singaporeans already? Do you think you can have enough money for your old days? I can't, so I need to make 1-2 children so that when I'm old and no money, they will support me.
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Interesting.... nowadays with high cost of living, doubt that next generation will take care of parents....


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post Apr 4 2016, 11:20 AM

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Is supersound has a sound mind? Who on earth will label Making love as sin? WTF!

Having sex doesn't mean u need to procreate.

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post Apr 13 2016, 02:43 PM

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QUOTE(arthurlwf @ Apr 4 2016, 01:58 AM)
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Interesting.... nowadays with high cost of living, doubt that next generation will take care of parents....
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Nowadays many children still depend on their parents even after working. Live in parent's house, feed on parent's food, depend on parents for laundry, homemaking, etc. Some more it's becoming increasingly harder for younger generations to own a house, can't imagine for children in future.

QUOTE(Amanda85 @ Apr 4 2016, 11:20 AM)
Is supersound has a sound mind? Who on earth will label Making love as sin? WTF!

Having sex doesn't mean u need to procreate.
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Rarely hear this from a female tongue.gif
I agree, it's to increase intimacy and production of good hormones. It's really funny to have weird traditions dictating how you should live your life.
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post Apr 25 2016, 10:02 AM

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QUOTE(J1g54w @ Apr 13 2016, 02:43 PM)
Nowadays many children still depend on their parents even after working. Live in parent's house, feed on parent's food, depend on parents for laundry, homemaking, etc. Some more it's becoming increasingly harder for younger generations to own a house, can't imagine for children in future.
Rarely hear this from a female  tongue.gif
I agree, it's to increase intimacy and production of good hormones. It's really funny to have weird traditions dictating how you should live your life.
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Hello Jigsaw,

As I can see from your first comment to the latest. You are currently still having another mindset of not having future generations. Life in this world might be cruel due to environment and the country's currency. Supportive for a children is also not a cheap price. Before born, you have to take care of your wife, guiding her before delivery. While on the way to the hospital, First comes is the payments for the children is Gasoline. After born, needs to pay Hospitality Fees for hundreds. If it is in a private Hospital, might costs thousands !!

Planning for future education, pocket money, school fees etc. It will become an unbelievable commitment.

In the other hand, you will enjoy the life with your future generation and having memories together. Imagine and remember back, how did our parents worked so hard to give us a comfortable lifestyle? And how did you give your parents a living lifestyle after you went to work in a company?

Pocket money for parents is a fair thing to do. At least at old age, the old generation will not starve to death and looking for a job. Don't be so negative, life will goes by every single day. So it's time to change your mindset bro~! Peace thumbup.gif
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QUOTE(William1988 @ Apr 25 2016, 10:02 AM)
Hello Jigsaw,

As I can see from your first comment to the latest. You are currently still having another mindset of not having future generations. Life in this world might be cruel due to environment and the country's currency. Supportive for a children is also not a cheap price. Before born, you have to take care of your wife, guiding her before delivery. While on the way to the hospital, First comes is the payments for the children is Gasoline. After born, needs to pay Hospitality Fees for hundreds. If it is in a private Hospital, might costs thousands !!

Planning for future education, pocket money, school fees etc. It will become an unbelievable commitment.

In the other hand, you will enjoy the life with your future generation and having memories together. Imagine and remember back, how did our parents worked so hard to give us a comfortable lifestyle? And how did you give your parents a living lifestyle after you went to work in a company?

Pocket money for parents is a fair thing to do. At least at old age, the old generation will not starve to death and looking for a job. Don't be so negative, life will goes by every single day. So it's time to change your mindset bro~! Peace  thumbup.gif
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are you effing kidding me. already people say don't force your effing stupid uneducated and completely personal opinion onto others still don't understand ka?

are you bloody stupid or what? what the fark is wrong with with you idiots, why do you think your damn perspective of life is more superior than another person's choice? how bloody bigoted can you people be?
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post May 5 2016, 08:55 AM

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QUOTE(William1988 @ Apr 25 2016, 10:02 AM)
In the other hand, you will enjoy the life with your future generation and having memories together.
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I notice this very consistently in all those who preach about having kids. It's all about THEIR lives. I can enjoy life with everyone's future generations, not necessarily only with MY OWN family or children. People are too focused on their own lives and own family and forget that the world is a big family. smile.gif
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post Aug 13 2017, 10:57 PM

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TS, have u got it done? Pls share.
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post Mar 20 2018, 03:57 PM

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Hi.. Have u done it? Can share with me?
Coz my hubby also looking for Doctor to do the vasectomy..
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post Dec 10 2018, 12:16 PM

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I know ukm hospital provide vasectomy

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post Dec 12 2018, 10:52 AM

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QUOTE(patryn33 @ Oct 22 2015, 09:04 AM)
Making love? Adam and Eve sin was making love?
I thought it was not obeying God and makan the forbidden fruit! Or u meant the fruit was sex? God told them not to have sex but they did? Still the sin is not obeying God.
Did the Christians interprets it as having sex? My old paster didn't very view it this way
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post Dec 16 2018, 08:22 PM

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Save some in sperm bank, just in case.. 😉

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