dont want to get kids after marry?

dont think its easily reversible.
think twice

if u want kids, but not immediately after marriage.. why don't just use condoms???

does vasectomy kills off your sexual urge?

EDIT: can vasectomy kill your sexual urge?

i see. not for me then.

I did consult with doctor regarding this with my gynae when he was asking me about my birth control plan.

He said logically, this is an small operation, when compare to female's one.
However, vasectomy is not common, not many doctor had much experience in doing this.
If you wish to do, better look for doctor who had good experience in doing this operation.

hmmmm do you know any medication/pills i can take to reduce testosterone ? not significantly, just for 'the days' la.

EDIT: btw, sorry i cant help u with what u're looking for.

It's not common here.. but yes.. compare to female sterilization.. vasectomy is a minor procedure, can be done under local anaesthesia..
Sorry to ask.. why dun plan to have kids?
Genetic issues? Sorry if i offended..

erm..why don't you go to a fertility clinic. You know, your sperm mortality rate might be 0%. Could save you some money.

Who's getting it, you or the wife?

How old are you J1g54w...? same age with your partner

You may not be able to get the vasectomy surgery that you want. Ask your wife to get Implanon. Last for 5 years. If in between you two change mind in having kids, just remove the Implanon. If still don't want, just continue get a new Implanon

to reduce testosterone usually will need to take oestrogen hormone la...try take in female morning pills..

never take any supplements to surpress my testosterone level.

In fact I have been working hard to improve my T hormone in healthy manners and maintain it at healthy level

too little of T hormone / too much estrogen hormone causing our body easily to keep fats

too much T hormone make us more prone to anger and attitude issues, as per articles that I read which pointed out these facts according to research journals they refer

eh sorry for not replying your answer

but I think rather than vasectomy...you might want to consider other long term temporary method like copper coil ke apa nama tah. got one type of device that doctor will fit into ladies punya apa tube tu...forgot already

best to check with your doc.. getting married but don't want to generate testosterone want to be less manly or not manly...

U need vasectomy recommendations.. U have to disclose where you located...
someone may have done it overseas, that recommendation may not be feasible.

I am sure you are the type of people who see a house on fire and just stay there "not my problem". useless human on earth.

to TS, you better open a discussion topic over vasectomy first. your mind is so narrow. open up and discuss first pro and con. everyone have their own choice. but your choice is not from the suppose one. your choice never will be necessary. Bye.

Bro, TS already told us at first post and posts after that he has already discussed this matter with HIS FAMILY , HIS WIFE, and has THINK ABOUT THIS MATTER MORE THAN TWICE.

It is his fuckin choice, who are you to order him to have another round of discussion?

This is just A FUCKING GODDAMN SIMPLE QUESTION, man. Do you know any good vasectomy? If yes, GIVE YOUR FUCKING ANSWER, TOLD HIM "HEY I KNOW THIS DOCTOR GOOD, MEET HIM"

If you don't know, THEN JUAT SHUT THE FUCK OFF AND BRING YOUR OPEN DISCUSSION ABOUT VASECTOMY TO OTHER PLACE.

God damn whats wrong with people nowadays? People asking simple yes/no question, but still wanna beat around the bush. Bodoh tak bersuap, nak tunjuk pandai tak bertempat.

Making love? Adam and Eve sin was making love?
I thought it was not obeying God and makan the forbidden fruit! Or u meant the fruit was sex? God told them not to have sex but they did? Still the sin is not obeying God.
Did the Christians interprets it as having sex? My old paster didn't very view it this way

After 3 pages of getting no where not hard to google it and check for reviews.

Such procedure not commonly perform in this part of the world.

Ppl around me had it done in states but they all Ang mo

I'll ask my aunt for the doctor detail first, then i engage the doctor la to check with him whether he can do vasectomy or not.

Relax bruh. Chill.

Bruh

I tried asked my aunt, she do her litigation at hospital serdang. But she also told me that malaysia not allow male to do vasectomy, based on what her doc told her la. Probably yeah u had to do it overseas..

Another contacts (shes taking medic) said probably can do vasectomy but need to provide very strong reason.

Thats all i got.

you seem mature......you should have at least one kid =) ..... its an experience, I know more than a few who have gone through the same thought process...guess what....some remorse is always felt....whatever your decision is...I respect that. good day.