Any good doctor around? Thanks.

dont want to get kids after marry?

dont think its easily reversible.
think twice

There is actually some reversible process for men. The process can be reversed in 10 years period with reducing success rate over the years.

yup

more than twice

if u want kids, but not immediately after marriage.. why don't just use condoms???

no, we don't plan to have any kids at all.

does vasectomy kills off your sexual urge?

EDIT: can vasectomy kill your sexual urge?

This post has been edited by imhereto: Aug 12 2015, 08:39 PM

according to science it won't.

you still generate testosterones, which drive your libido

i see. not for me then.

how old are you? testosterones naturally decreases as you get older.

I did consult with doctor regarding this with my gynae when he was asking me about my birth control plan.

He said logically, this is an small operation, when compare to female's one.
However, vasectomy is not common, not many doctor had much experience in doing this.
If you wish to do, better look for doctor who had good experience in doing this operation.

Yeah. That's why I check if there's anyone can recommend.

hmmmm do you know any medication/pills i can take to reduce testosterone ? not significantly, just for 'the days' la.

EDIT: btw, sorry i cant help u with what u're looking for.

This post has been edited by imhereto: Aug 13 2015, 04:15 PM

I'm not sure about that. I often heard guys want to increase testosterone, not decrease.

It's not common here.. but yes.. compare to female sterilization.. vasectomy is a minor procedure, can be done under local anaesthesia..
Sorry to ask.. why dun plan to have kids?
Genetic issues? Sorry if i offended..

Not genetic issue. There are many factors involved. One of them is that we wish to dedicate our lives to fellow human beings and the world, not just our own little family unit. Also, the current state of the world discourage me to bring another human being in this world, unless it's improving. But by the look of it, it seems to be worsening.

erm..why don't you go to a fertility clinic. You know, your sperm mortality rate might be 0%. Could save you some money.

yeah but you won't know when they'll be alive. and isn't mortality rate 0% = fertility rate 100%? you mean mortality rate 100%

I think he meant 'motility'...

This post has been edited by hairybelly: Aug 18 2015, 10:50 AM