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de1929
post Jun 15 2015, 11:53 AM

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QUOTE(De_Luffy @ Jun 15 2015, 10:24 AM)
been skipping church services alot since this year and last year, mainly because of foot arch pain which make me very uncomfortable when i walk or sitting down also my nephew sometimes nobody available to take care of him when he decided not to go sunday school (lazy to wake up)........so i have to either wake him up and attend CHC which would be late already when i got there only can send him to sunday school then myself and another friend sit down in the cafeteria for another 30 mins or longer waiting for the sunday school to end
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the sufferings always temporary... i know it's easy just to talk / write, and i may not display empathy properly.
I pray that u get well too thumbup.gif
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post Jun 15 2015, 11:56 AM

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QUOTE(kron_ka @ Jun 15 2015, 09:52 AM)
Talking in context of relationships.

The girl I been going out with, she invited me to her church. Then we both sat together and worshipped together. For me, its like, she won't simply ask any guy to join her sit with her one to one, right? at church some more. I mean, people know her at church would surely notice.

I then took her out for dinner...and manage to hold her hand. But question still linger in my head, is she my gf?

So I failed to ask her to be my gf and go steady that evening...aw gosh...

But she did admitted to me that she is going out with other guys as friends, then that made me anxious.

So I watsapp her next day, to ask her to be my gf...so very suspense....have to wait because she dun have data plan, only can wait till evening.

I ask her out again for next week, but she say she's busy, ask me to ask her out again the next 2 weeks.

I almost made the same mistake to my ex gf when I sounded very controlling, she was pissed with me, when I tell her that we must date exclusively and not see other guys. My ex told me off and said that I am very controlling because even guy friend I not allow her to see one to one. SO this time I won't say it to this girl, I almost wanted to tell her date exclusively, but I was afraid I would get the same reaction as my ex.

So this time, I try the soft method instead. I wonder if I am doing it right.
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perhaps this prayer is best: Thank GOD i can have a meeting with her. If she's my GF than thank GOD, if she's not my GF than thank GOD. I know whatever yes / no scenario you are always in control and you will bring the best of every scenario regardless yes / no replies.

Try to maintain positive attitude toward JESUS and like paul in Philippians 4:11 (some part only)
I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances
De_Luffy
post Jun 15 2015, 02:11 PM

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QUOTE(unknown warrior @ Jun 15 2015, 11:23 AM)
Make sure you practise the soft method even after marriage.  laugh.gif
Have you tried, there's a special sandal called birkenstock sandals designed especially for foot arch pain. May want to invest for better comfort.

And also don't neglect the reading the Bible in this trying time.
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I've visited a shop like this the price tag however is just too much for me cannot afford it price is at about RM 900++ and above shakehead.gif
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post Jun 15 2015, 02:37 PM

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QUOTE(De_Luffy @ Jun 15 2015, 02:11 PM)
I've visited a shop like this the price tag however is just too much for me cannot afford it price is at about RM 900++ and above shakehead.gif
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You sure?

http://www.birkenstock.com.my/products/birkenstock

It's about RM200-RM300.

If you go lelong,

RM50+

http://list.lelong.com.my/Auc/List/List.as...d=&PriceUBound=

Inspired Birkenstock.


Mudah lagi good bargain


http://www.mudah.my/Selangor/birkenstock-f...w=108&so=1&st=s



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post Jun 15 2015, 04:29 PM

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QUOTE(unknown warrior @ Jun 15 2015, 02:37 PM)
most of this is sandal type, the one i checked in the mall, was just the rubber layer to put in your shoe or sandal, according to your feet type cost about the price i mentioned earlier

the shop name is foot solutions........

as i mentioned earlier i mistaken my pain on arch instead on heel. sorry for the error here

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QUOTE(de1929 @ Jun 15 2015, 07:58 AM)
Christian pleasure or GOD's pleasure ?

for Mr A. It's GOD's pleasure if he drinks and hangout in bar so he can know about his future ministry. reaching out people in bar.
for Mr B. It's GOD's pleasure to abstain from drinking bir ?

GOD's pleasure ? Mr A or Mr B ?
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u have a very twisted mind shakehead.gif
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post Jun 15 2015, 04:33 PM

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QUOTE(14-9-2015 @ Jun 15 2015, 04:31 PM)
u have a very twisted mind  shakehead.gif
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who can comprehend GOD's mind ? just trust HIS instruction lah... don't evaluate GOD biggrin.gif ... unless you don't trust GOD well, it's different story
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post Jun 15 2015, 07:34 PM

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QUOTE(de1929 @ Jun 15 2015, 07:58 AM)
Christian pleasure or GOD's pleasure ?

for Mr A. It's GOD's pleasure if he drinks and hangout in bar so he can know about his future ministry. reaching out people in bar.
for Mr B. It's GOD's pleasure to abstain from drinking bir ?

GOD's pleasure ? Mr A or Mr B ?
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Seriously dude, I don't know what you are talking about.

Maybe I should talk in your native language.

Tuhan Kristus nikmat bisa sama ngan Kristus sih? Sama sih. Apa bedanya?

Kamu bisa bicara sama gue bahasa ibunda mu?

Gue ngak faham bila kamu omong bahasa Inggeris.

Aku bilang terus terang aje ya.

QUOTE(pehkay @ Jun 15 2015, 08:30 AM)
I will respond in this way:
Excellency here means transcendence or super-eminence.

Here is one testimony which fits your question biggrin.gif
Christ is truly far superior to all other things and matters.

The issue is not that we tried very hard not to love the world .... that is being religious ... also hypocritical and will not last.

Rather, have you seen or experience THE transcending, super-eminence, ultimate, CHOCOLATE!! biggrin.gif Then, spontaneously, you will drop the lesser things.

The Christian life is not a matter of cultivating character. The Christian life is a matter of transformation. To be transformed we need a new element. This element is the real and living Lord. In Him God's attributes and the riches of all that God is become the fullness. Furthermore, as the Spirit, the Lord has become our bountiful supply. We need to love Him, fellowship with Him, read His word, pray to Him, and always call on His name, which is to breathe Him in. In this way we receive His element into us. This element will have a metabolic effect within us to transform us.
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Ohh good example. Ok I understand better now.

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In January and February of 1937, I went from Shanghai, passing through Hangchow, to Nanking to hold a gospel conference. During that conference, a group of highly educated people came to hear the gospel. One of them was a very modern lady who listened with complete attention to the gospel that I was preaching. After one evening meeting, she came up to the front to see me and said, "Mr. Lee, what you have preached in these past few evenings has touched me very much; I am willing to believe. But I would like to ask you if I can do a certain thing after I have believed in the Lord. If I can do it, then I will certainly believe the gospel which you preach. My believing is totally dependent on your answer to this question." Then she continued, "After believing in the Lord, I will be able to give up anything, but there is one thing that will be very difficult for me to give up. I like to go to the opera. From my youth I went to the opera with my father, and I have become addicted to it. I can give up breathing, but if I cannot go to the opera, then I"ll not be able to live. My husband has also been influenced by me. Now that I have heard you speak about Jesus, you have really persuaded me and made me very willing to believe. But if I believe in the Lord Jesus and cannot go to the opera, what will I do? If you say that I cannot go, then I will not believe. If you say that I can go, then I will believe." This question was certainly a hard one to answer. It so happened that by her side she had a three- or four-year-old child, and the Lord gave me wisdom to answer. I said, "Madam, all children like to play with knives. If your child was playing with a sharp knife and was about to have an accident, what would you do? Would you grab the knife away from him?" She was very clever and immediately thought of the chocolate candy which was so famous in Shanghai and Nanking at that time, so she said, "That is easy; I would scatter pieces of chocolate candy all over the floor, then the child would go to pick up the candy, and in the end he would not want the knife." I said, "Chinese opera is a sharp knife. Without Christ, you have nothing that can satisfy you, so you need to go to the opera. But now I am scattering the pieces of chocolate candy. Do you see? I have lots of "chocolate"; this is Christ. Do not ask me if you can go to the opera, but only believe in Christ and see if He satisfies you to the extent that you will not want other things." She said, "That is very reasonable; I will believe in Him."


hmm.gif Sounds like you are describing my character..

Well anyway good example.

QUOTE(unknown warrior @ Jun 15 2015, 02:37 PM)
Birkenstock ist gut.

In Germany they are selling for Euro 40 and below (classics).

There's another German leather made too, but its non branded. But the quality is very good though. As good as Birkenstock. Less than Euro 10.


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QUOTE(tinarhian @ Jun 15 2015, 07:34 PM)

Well anyway good example.
Birkenstock ist gut.

In Germany they are selling for Euro 40 and below (classics).

There's another German leather made too, but its non branded. But the quality is very good though. As good as Birkenstock. Less than Euro 10.
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I just use those cheap night market el-slippar rm15.


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post Jun 15 2015, 08:47 PM

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QUOTE(tinarhian @ Jun 15 2015, 07:34 PM)
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Seriously dude, I don't know what you are talking about.
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ok fine.. let's start 1 by 1. What i know is, there are 2 difference between (red and blue below)
Christian pleasure
and
GOD pleasure

i think, or i assume: Tina thinks there is no difference between Christian pleasure and GOD pleasure.

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I can explain the difference if you want biggrin.gif ... let me know.
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post Jun 15 2015, 10:21 PM

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QUOTE(unknown warrior @ Jun 15 2015, 07:38 PM)
I just use those cheap night market el-slippar rm15.
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Oh..kamu bilang selipar sih?

Oops wrong dude.

You mean slippers right? El-slippar, what is that? laugh.gif

QUOTE(de1929 @ Jun 15 2015, 08:47 PM)
ok fine.. let's start 1 by 1. What i know is, there are 2 difference between (red and blue below)
Christian pleasure
and
GOD pleasure

i think, or i assume: Tina thinks there is no difference between Christian pleasure and GOD pleasure.

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I can explain the difference if you want biggrin.gif ... let me know.
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Gue diskusi "worldly pleasure" dengan "Christian pleasure."

Aduh bapak, gue tahu nikmat Kristen asalnya dari Tuhan dan Yesus Kristus.

Jangan diskusi lagi. Kepala gue pening. rclxub.gif

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QUOTE(tinarhian @ Jun 15 2015, 10:21 PM)
Gue diskusi "worldly pleasure" dengan "Christian pleasure."

Aduh bapak, gue tahu nikmat Kristen asalnya dari Tuhan dan Yesus Kristus.

Jangan diskusi lagi. Kepala gue pening.  rclxub.gif

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Ok last one, put worldly pleasure aside. because it's irrelevant.

Christian pleasure is not from Jesus Christ.
Christian pleasure is what tina thinking is from Christ biggrin.gif
GOD's pleasure is from Jesus Christ.

I think you know the book man from mars and women from venus right ?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Are_from_..._Are_from_Venus

the book is about relationship between man and women
bible say: Christ and church often represent by husband and wife.

if earthly husband and wife often miscommunication, how about "heavenly husband and wife" ? brows.gif

JESUS has HIS mind about Christian pleasure
Tina has her mind about Christian pleasure.

if 2 entities (Tina and JESUS) thinking about Christian pleasure, how to make sure JESUS and Tina are thinking the same Christian pleasure ?

no other choice except 2 way communications right ?

-- to conclude:
1. worldly pleasure - no
2. christian pleasure - fake
3. GOD's pleasure - eternity.

GOD's pleasure for Mr A to go to bar for abcd reasons.
GOD's pleasure for Mr B not to go to bar for abcd reasons.

Do you know what is GOD's pleasure today ?

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post Jun 16 2015, 07:37 AM

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post Jun 16 2015, 07:06 PM

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QUOTE(de1929 @ Jun 15 2015, 10:34 PM)
Ok last one, put worldly pleasure aside. because it's irrelevant.

Christian pleasure is not from Jesus Christ.
Christian pleasure is what tina thinking is from Christ biggrin.gif
GOD's pleasure is from Jesus Christ.

I think you know the book man from mars and women from venus right ?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Are_from_..._Are_from_Venus

the book is about relationship between man and women
bible say: Christ and church often represent by husband and wife.

if earthly husband and wife often miscommunication, how about "heavenly husband and wife" ?  brows.gif

JESUS has HIS mind about Christian pleasure
Tina has her mind about Christian pleasure.

if 2 entities (Tina and JESUS) thinking about Christian pleasure, how to make sure JESUS and Tina are thinking the same Christian pleasure ?

no other choice except 2 way communications right ?

-- to conclude:
1. worldly pleasure - no
2. christian pleasure - fake
3. GOD's pleasure - eternity.

GOD's pleasure for Mr A to go to bar for abcd reasons.
GOD's pleasure for Mr B not to go to bar for abcd reasons.

Do you know what is GOD's pleasure today ?
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Which part of "No" that you don't understand? doh.gif

Christian pleasure does comes from God, then why are Christians glorifying in God's delight? If they glorify themselves and others, its not glorifying God.

Why do you think Christian pleasure does not come from God? doh.gif

Why are you bringing up "husband and wife relationship" into this context? Its not relevant. shakehead.gif

1 Corinthians 6:19 NIV

19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own;

You can have your own twisted opinions. I don't need it. Besides pehkay already answered my query very well.

Please respect mine.

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post Jun 16 2015, 07:23 PM

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QUOTE(tinarhian @ Jun 16 2015, 07:06 PM)
Which part of "No" that you don't understand?  doh.gif

You can have your own twisted opinions. I don't need it. Besides pehkay already answered my query very well.

Please respect mine.
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This is forum, it's open, everybody can give opinions. If i quote you, you may not accept my answers, but others who may have similar problem may be blessed.
I answered for the sake of silent reader who may have similar problem like yours.

QUOTE(tinarhian @ Jun 16 2015, 07:06 PM)
Why are you bringing up "husband and wife relationship" into this context? Its not relevant.  shakehead.gif

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https://bible.org/seriespage/8-husbands-and...lossians-318-19
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post Jun 16 2015, 10:07 PM

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QUOTE(de1929 @ Jun 16 2015, 07:23 PM)
This is forum, it's open, everybody can give opinions. If i quote you, you may not accept my answers, but others who may have similar problem may be blessed.
I answered for the sake of silent reader who may have similar problem like yours.
https://bible.org/seriespage/8-husbands-and...lossians-318-19
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Any why do you think that glorifying God is a problem? doh.gif

For goodness sake, do you have to win every arguments? shakehead.gif

Was I even talking about husband and wife analogy? doh.gif

You really spoilt this thread.

#IGNORE MODE ON
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QUOTE(kron_ka @ Jun 16 2015, 10:42 PM)
I am kind of a neutral person here. But at times I am sorry to say, when De is in debating mode, best option is to just let him win.
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Its not the point of winning or losing. I cannot stand it when someone is talking nonsense. tongue.gif

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QUOTE(kron_ka @ Jun 16 2015, 10:46 PM)
Hahahaha

anyways how is life?
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Good. I've finished a couple of projects too. So I got some money. hehe...
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QUOTE(kron_ka @ Jun 16 2015, 11:07 PM)
Good for you.

Today i am so stress at work. I scolded a colleague who kept pushing work unfairly at me. Almost got me into trouble, well its bad already, thsi colleague complained me to the big bosses, and gave me a bad light.

Although i was stressed but it was no excuse, as i used some not very nice words at this colleague. I called up prayer tower and asked for repentance.

But i know the colleague is kind of a snake, I didn't apologise to her as i know she is well known for stabbing people from behind.
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Danke.

Ohh your colleague so mean and sneaky! And its a girl too.

Uh but the Lord asked us to love our enemies too. tongue.gif

pehkay & unknown warrior maybe you can explain how "The Lord wants us to deal with our enemies." tongue.gif

Bapak de1929, ini soalan nya untuk uncle-uncle. Saya ngak mahu kepala kron_ka berpusing-pusing.. brows.gif

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QUOTE(tinarhian @ Jun 16 2015, 11:14 PM)
Danke.

Ohh your colleague so mean and sneaky! And its a girl too.

Uh but the Lord asked us to love our enemies too.  tongue.gif

pehkay & unknown warrior maybe you can explain how "The Lord wants us to deal with our enemies."  tongue.gif

Bapak de1929, ini soalan nya untuk uncle-uncle. Saya ngak mahu kepala kron_ka berpusing-pusing..  brows.gif
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Matthew 18:17 strongly applies.

Titus 3:10 very relevant.

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