I surrender.

Rule of the thumb. Never argue with a Girl/Woman.

Not sure if serious or not when you say never argue with a woman

I also dunno why we're so fearsome

I dunno, think I just want an easy going fellowship here.

For anyone who dabbles with digital art

https://krita.org/

This program is a hybrid of SAI and Photoshop. Best of all it's freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

I've met him before in Shangrila Hotel, KL. Remember when I told the story "Mrs. Cheeky?"

He's ABC. American born Chinese. Not the dessert. hehe...

Its hard talking and expressing oneself in English, because its not my mother tongue.

Sometimes when I translate my thoughts from German to English, it may sound weird or off.

Been some time since i was here, how everyone doing?

PS: congrats to you, Tina on your engagement

I am currently a lecturer in a private college.

Being small, i was given a position head of academic...multi tasking

Even i have 7yrs exp and doing my phd now, i felt v stress

1. One of my staff resigned without any notice and i need to cover all the subjects
2. The college will be audited by iso this week
3. My classes for phd on weekends and i have not finish my assignment yet
4. So many teaching hours and paper work to do
5. I have been looking for job but no response from the potential employer since 3 weeks ago.

Really cant stand the preasure.

I wished i could resign but i will be in a deep problem to pay installments for house then

Side income generates my living expenses only.

Everyday, early in the morning 6am, stress.....cant show my face to my gf tht im really stress...i can only sit in toilet n stress myself..

Please help me..... (T.T)

Have you discussed your overloaded task with your superior? I would suggest you to speak to him/her first, as this situation is bad for both parties.

This post has been edited by fx20: Jun 23 2015, 07:37 AM

My superior is also fully loaded and just wait time to burst.

I felt i am not productive now.daily find jobs..

Vv tiring

You stress because you focus on fear of unemployment.

When i pray to GOD for you, the job load will "stay as is". So the overal calculation is: if you fear, your positive energy is multiplied by 0.1 ... meaning your strenthg will be only 10%... then your senses will response as danger is imminent...

But if you choose not to dwell in fear, then you will "feel" than your strength is abundant.

mindset brother... mindset

This post has been edited by de1929: Jun 23 2015, 07:51 AM

I presume that you're a Christian......

Surrender this worry to God then pray for what you need and stop worrying about it.

When you refuse to worry, it is an act of Faith on your part and God (as far as I know) is faithful to what He says that He will act when you put your trust.

I know easier said than done but you'll gain nothing either by being stressed out so might as well embark on this Faith journey.

cheers bro.

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I'm having a personal existential crisis. Well, had this before and it didn't completely go away.

I feel 'generic', as in if the world plunges into chaos I will be stuffed at the lowest category of people. Common. Faceless. No value. Not any influential politician or academic.

It's the odd position of being unique and yet not. There are so many others with the skills and expertise that I have. The personality I have and so on so on.

If I'm gone, the hole I leave behind eventually gets filled by someone else. That's how I feel.

This is a common trait of identity issue. You are not secured on how GOD looks at you. You are not secured with your identity in Christ.

because i know you since V7 or V6... do you remember we have argued in the past about (i put in bold) the strong one rules issues ?. You told me:
1. The the strong one rules issues is darwinian
2. the strong one rules issues does not display humbleness

well, humble and identity are two different things. Darwinian is irrelevant. You need to boast (well, my language is the strong one rules issues) about your identity in Christ. If you don't boast, then, like glass, is either filled with water (CHRIST) or filled with emptiness (something else)

google keyword: boast in CHRIST, there is some verses in galatian something.

How are you dude? How's your ankle?

Thanks.

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I was pondering upon this verse, James 4: 1 - 12 (Warning Against Worldliness)

From this verse, God wants us to trust more in Him rather than we trusting in ourself. That we always desire and covet for the "wrong" things in life? That we often judged our neighbours too?

What God wants us to do:-

- Submit ourselves to Him faithfully.
- Be humble.

Thanks bro

Yes..its my fear.

I tried not to worry yesterday after my working hour. But the same thing arise again this morning 6am when i wake.

Yesterday, i receive a bad news again whereby the government officer will come to audit in 2 weeks time.

Things kept on happening and its non stop...

I initially, i thought it will end after this Thursday. But another wave is coming after it.

Haiz...

As other have said, you need to complement your actions with prayers. But I suggest do prayer before you take any actions.

I believe when you have submitted everything to god, He will lead you a way and you shouldn't be worry about anything followed up. If you felt uncomforable, I suggest you to spend sometime and share it with brothers or sisters, I am sure thing will work out great for you.

I used to go church 6 months ago, but now, i got no time to go church. My phd classes on weekends 8am to 5pm.

I will learn to pray prior taking any actions....guess some of brothers in here prayed for me.

When i receive the call from the ministry of higher education, i strt to worry again,

Guess tht time, God assisted me. My superior send 5 staffs to me and asked me to accomplish 1500 files in 2 weeks time

not ankle but my heel, still pain as usual but i'm managing it bearing the pain by wearing sandal at home so it not that pain when i walking around

on other note, i just had a simple checkup last week only to find out that my body is not doing that well, everything is high even my bone density reading is not that good either

tried to donate blood too but too high also the last reading was 146/100 too high.....need to start dieting already but with my love for foods it seem so hard

PS: it's Durian season now which make my craving for durian skyrocket when i smell it

Take Heart and Pray.

today a guy from mormonism come to preach and tell me believe god. I took out a paper and wrote down thing he said to me, i drew a line and I said further action will be taken upon him. I am a lawyer am i going to hell?