A deep fear that her country would become another Pakistan and Afghanistan, where religious extremism is on the rise, prompted Datuk Noor Farida Ariffin to seek other like-minded Malays to sign an open letter asking for a rational dialogue on the position of Islam in Malaysia.

But she is also hopeful that the positive response the letter has garnered will be the start of "something big" to help restore moderation and rationality in Malaysia.

In an interview to explain her reasons for signing and disseminating the letter, the former ambassador said she was worried that groups politicising Islam would lead Malaysia down the path of violence if left unchecked.

"I do not want to see what happened in Pakistan and Afghanistan happen to us, where professionals and talented people are so scared of their own future and their families' future because extremist religion is on the rise and they leave the country taking their money and skills with them.
"If this happens in Malaysia, it is going to affect adversely our economy and we will be left with non-talented people who will lead the country to ruins," she told The Malaysian Insider.

Noor Farida also said she was heartened by the positive response since the letter was published in various media outlets, adding that she had hopes for the 25 signatories to organise themselves into something more formal.

She said she wanted to "keep the momentum going" as the signatories shared a common desire to promote tolerance and respect among the races.

They were still a loose grouping, she said and, as yet, had no fixed plans on their next move, but they would meet soon to discuss concrete steps.

What she knows, for certain, is that it will be strictly a non-political group.

"This is the start of something big, we have received a lot of goodwill and we have started something positive for the country so we want to keep the momentum going.

Datuk Noor Farida Ariffin says she is worried that groups politicising Islam would lead Malaysia down the path of violence if left unchecked. – Pic courtesy of Noor Farida Ariffin, December 11, 2014.Datuk Noor Farida Ariffin says she is worried that groups politicising Islam would lead Malaysia down the path of violence if left unchecked. – Pic courtesy of Noor Farida Ariffin, December 11, 2014."It is not going to end here, this is a genesis of a movement of moderate Muslims," said the former Malaysian ambassador to the Netherlands.

The letter, published two days ago, decried the "lack of clarity and understanding" on the place of Islam within Malaysia's constitutional democracy, as well as a "serious breakdown of federal-state division of powers, both in the areas of civil and criminal jurisdictions".

It also expressed concern at how religious authorities were "asserting authority beyond their jurisdiction", and that fatwa issued had violated the Federal Constitution as well as the consultative process.

Besides Noor Farida, other signatories of the 19-paragraph letter comprised of former high-ranking civil servants, including directors-general, secretaries-general, ambassadors and prominent individuals, all of whom are Malays.

Noor Farida said she was especially disappointed that Prime Minister Datuk Seri Najib Razak had made "beautiful speeches abroad" about moderation and yet did nothing at home against Malay supremacist groups who made inflammatory speeches.

In singling out Malay rights groups Perkasa and Ikatan Muslimin Malaysia (Isma) which claimed that Malay rights were being threatened, Noor Farida said conversely, it was the rights of the non-Malays that had been trampled.

"Malay rights are entrenched in the constitution and every government agency is seen to promote Malay rights, from education to job opportunities, so why do they perceive that there are still threats to the rights of the Malays?

"It is all in their imagination," she said.

She said no good would come out of a situation where moderate Muslims and non-Muslims, spooked by rising religious extremism, decided to leave the country.

"Whether we like it or not, we sink and swim together. Isn't it better to foster good race relations, promote peace and live peacefully? To what purpose do we want to instigate violence?" she said.

This was why all extremist rhetoric had to stop, she said, as such organisations did not speak for the silent majority.

Describing the Malaysia that she grew up in as a country that celebrated differences and where people of all races and religious beliefs mixed together, she questioned why Malaysia of late had descended into such vitriol, and to what purpose.

"All the recent events are showing a face of Islam which is totally contrary to Islamic teachings. Islam is a religion of peace and the way these people are behaving is as though they are trying to instigate another May 13," she said, referring to the race riots of 1969.

"Islam has got such a bad image abroad and what the extremists are doing is causing so much confusion and giving Islam such a bad name. Why should we allow these rat pack gangs to force us out of our own homes and country?" – December 11, 2014.

its sad that a multiracial country has to come to this level.. what went wrong along the way?

its sad that a multiracial country has to come to this level.. what went wrong along the way?

Religious tolerance went wrong. It's always subtle. It starts first with the loud prayers coming from mosques, you diam diam and "tolerate" then later it is assumed it is their right. Then comes the puasa thing, where they tell you it is disrespectful to eat in front of a fasting muslim, and you obey.

It snowballs, and eventually, you have extremist.

Religious INtolerance and mutual respect is the key to religious harmony.

Religious tolerance went wrong. It's always subtle. It starts first with the loud prayers coming from mosques, you diam diam and "tolerate" then later it is assumed it is their right. Then comes the puasa thing, where they tell you it is disrespectful to eat in front of a fasting muslim, and you obey. Then comes halal issue, make a non-Muslim factory shutdown because of some unconfirmed material in chocolate, then people diam diam and take it up the tailpipe.

It snowballs, and eventually, you have extremism.

Religious INtolerance and mutual respect is the key to religious harmony.

Now that you mentioned it, yes there are mosques everywhere in SG but I don't hear them blasting it off.

SG is a secular state through and through

Meanwhile Malaysia while secular, but almost everyone thinks it's Islamic State