Where in the Bible? Please show. Anyway, I'm planning to remove it in December. Laser tattoo removal. hehe..

Just something I found.

depends on how much the Lord measured us lor.

He is the "man of brass"; Brass = judging, testing, examining us

Haha. How you know that I am bitter and unhappy most of the time.

Did you even see me in real life?

Just because I happen to be agressive here, you conclude that I am like that in real life.

Shows how shallow you are. Right?

It's pretty easy to say that my views are wrong without any justification.

Your maturity really does not coincide with your age. I feel like I am talking to a twenty something or even a teenager.

Even Decky is probably more matured then you. Says a lot right?

Again, what makes you think I feel " rejected, bitter and unhappy in the past".

That is the problem with you guys.

Never ever consistent. Even in your own post. And you expect to be taken seriously.

You are only good at name calling that's all.

Are you really a developer? With such logic, I doubt it.

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I mean, its not like I ask my friend to become a Christian too. 

I told her that being a Christian mean I cannot hang out with her going to pubs / clubs anymore. No more of those hedonistic lifestyle. So she can't accept that.

No more tattoo, piercing, etc...Told her my body is sacred. Now belong to Jesus.

She said I'm just faking it. Uh, that really hurt my feelings. I'm praying and reading bible verses everyday, why would I fake that? 

I am rather the opposite. Most of my friends are unbelievers except one special person I know who is a christian.

Reason being? I felt betrayed by my christian peers. Like the church I am currently attending for 6 blasting years not even one friend I can trust. My previous church of 6 years, not even one person kept in touch. When I moved from one cg to another, because the cg leader moved his cg to wednesday which was inconvenient to me, the previous cg leader don't even bother to say hi when he see me at church. Some of the church people are so fake, I know them for so many years, invite them for some stuff, they just ffk me. Its not even to decline my invitation ! Instead they say, i will come lah, but when i go there, i kena ffk. After i confront these people why you do this to me? Then they start to reveal a long laundry list at me, about why they have problem with me.

Not like my unbeliever friends. If they have open house, they will invite right away. I have 20 years since childhood/kindergarden friendship with some of my unbeliever best friends. They got YEE HEI, when they say they do this, they will do it. Not like the christians at my church, they just promise me something, and then next day, they pull out their promise and give me a long laundry list of complains.

Some of my unbelieving friends even invite me to their house, share with me their food stuff, even give me gift bags of expensive food stuff to bring back to my family. Not like the hospitality i get from my church peers. Like my youth church, they play so much politics at me. Then last time when they don't have enough quorom, they invite me to their christmas party, and ask me to pay RM60 fee. Then when I paid, go there, sit there like statue, they totally ignored me. When they got their quorom, they just treat you like you are nothing. Neh, that Cheras Tmn Billion church. Crap church.

I have unbeliever friends that are triad gangsters, yet they have more loyalty and integrity than those whom i met at church. At least they are forthright honest about who they are. Unlike those at church who profess righteosness but I see before my eyes, they bully other weak minded christians and socially outcast them. Some of these joker christians are born into christian families.

allow me to ask ... open discussion ok ... anonymous anyway ..

why do you need friendship badly ? isn't that 1 Christ is enough ?

Ask yourself this, from young till you die don't make friends with anyone got church service will do after service go home don't socialize with church members then you die nobody know who re you at all.

Remember the greatest commandment that Jesus laid out love your neighbours and enemy as you love yourself

Jesus also said there is no greater love than this that a man die for His friends

i wonder, is it any way ask holy spirit to leave? i saw  alot Christians convert to atheist or Buddhism.
but the holy spirit still there and keeping harass the converter.

If you don't need friendship, why are you in this forum ? Why you want to go out with tiharnian and invite me out for a drink? Come on lah, we are human beings, we are designed and build by God for the purpose of relationship. God also yearns for relationship, thats why he created us.

Relationship with other human beings are tough. It takes a lot of effort but mind you once you build that long trusting relationship, it is quite fruitful.

If 1Christ is enough then why he needed 12 Apostles to be around him to help him do his ministries and to impart his spiritual power to them?

I didn't say I need friendship badly. After 6 years not even one friend there. It is very bad ok. I have better odds at the office than church.

thanks but no thanks.

Nooooo...hello? People retaliate back because we are fallen human beings plague with sin. We are not cursed by evil spirit lah...hellooooo...but we are cursed by sin thats why we are mortal and our bodies are succeptible to disease. The devil has to ask God for permission, if he wants to attack us christians ya know, this is the special privaledge we have.

I think you play too many computer games, fren. You should cut down.

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The devil has to ask God for permission, if he wants to attack us christians ya know, this is the special privaledge we have.
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allegory, why dont ask and know the reason for those ex-Christians left ? lose faith?
being realistic a bit. thank you. its is not about dream world we live now,
not every time are human fault, some entities are in fault too.
coz love cover their sin, everything, that why become blindly listen ,blindly accept, and blindly eat sweety shhitt all the time.

More like you get the concept or not? the devil will continue pawning the botak leader and he won't change.

Its like this, if you wife keep on having affairs, then what is the point of staying together?

aiya talk to cow come home, we both also cannot come to agreement. I have little further to say after this.

what is there to rebuff?

people are like that one, so I mind as well go my separate way. But mind you, if somebody bring something up, I have to opportunity to tell the person this place offer bad service. Just like a restaurant, I go eat there, I find the food and service bad, I never come back. Then i overhear somebody wanna eat at this restaurant, I will provide my feedback.

But having said this, don't misunderstand me, I am not saying a church must offer service to people. I am just likening the church kindness to the level of satisfaction you get when you go to a restaurant.

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I told her that being a Christian mean I cannot hang out with her going to pubs / clubs anymore. No more of those hedonistic lifestyle. So she can't accept that.
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wanna drink beer with me ? beer factory at setia walk is ok2x price... Tina ur welcome to come too...