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boca120879
post Apr 13 2019, 01:53 AM

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Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Daripada Ishaq bin Ibrahim, daripada Muhammad bin Bisyr, daripada Mujammi' bin Yahya,
daripada 'Utsman bin Mauhab, daripada Musa bin Thalhah, daripada bapanya (Thalhah),


Kami berkata,
“Wahai Rasulullah s.a.w.,
bagaimana cara kami berselawat kepadamu?”

Rasulullah s.a.w. menjawab,
“Ucapkanlah,

اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ عَلَى مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَى آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ
(Ya Allah,
curahkanlah kesejahteraan kepada Muhammad
dan keluarga Muhammad),

كَمَا صَلَّيْتَ عَلَى إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَآلِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ
(sebagaimana Engkau curahkan kepada Ibrahim
dan keluarga Ibrahim).

إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ
(Sesungguhnya Engkau Maha Terpuji
Lagi Maha Agung).

وَبَارِكْ عَلَى مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَى آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ
(Ya Allah,
curahkanlah salam kepada Muhammad
dan keluarga Muhammad),

كَمَا بَارَكْتَ عَلَى إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَآلِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ
(sebagaimana Engkau curahkan salam kepada Ibrahim
dan keluarga Ibrahim).

إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ
(Sesungguhnya Engkau Maha Terpuji
Lagi Maha Agung).

(Hadith Nasa’i no. 1273)

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boca120879
post Apr 17 2019, 02:57 PM

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Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Daripada Abu Marwan Muhammad bin 'Utsman Al 'Utsmani, daripada Abdul Aziz bin Abu Hazim, daripada Al 'Ala bin Abdurrahman, daripada ayahnya (Abdurrahman), daripada Abu Hurairah,
Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda,


"Dunia ibarat

penjara
orang-orang mukmin

dan syurganya
orang-orang kafir."

(Hadith Ibnu Majah no. 4103)

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post Apr 17 2019, 10:47 PM

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QUOTE(boca120879 @ Apr 17 2019, 02:57 PM)
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Daripada Abu Marwan Muhammad bin 'Utsman Al 'Utsmani, daripada Abdul Aziz bin Abu Hazim, daripada Al 'Ala bin Abdurrahman, daripada ayahnya (Abdurrahman), daripada Abu Hurairah,
Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda,


"Dunia ibarat
penjara orang-orang mukmin

dan syurganya
orang-orang kafir."

(Hadith Ibnu Majah no. 4103)

Nota penting:
(Untuk pemahaman yg lebih baik,
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Klu u dah study dngn mana2 guru share point form pun dah ok

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post Apr 17 2019, 11:18 PM

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QUOTE(reed90 @ Jan 9 2019, 12:01 PM)
salam..nak tanya fellow muslims kat sini... ada tak yang pernah buat solat istikharah utk decide benda?

cmna tanda2 dia tu datang?

prob is aku dah buat, tapi still x clear apa patut aku decide

hopefully sapa yg ada pengalaman boleh share sikit
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Well I did few times. Istikharah (minta Allah pilih). You dah pilih tp you takut salah n bila u dah start x memilih, itu lah yg jd pilihan u sebenarnya. Tuhan akan masuk campur dlm semua urusan u. He knows best.


Rasa tenang je, semua benda jd smooth. U xda rasa menyesal, u rasa sesuai dan boleh pergi jauh.

*xda mimpi2 pon (xpernah lg sy istikharah pastu mimpi petunjuk) biasa yg I hadap the next day tu akan jd petunjuk. Proses dia x sekejap dan dan x terlalu lama, it depends. Yakin lah dngn tuhan yg tengah atur hidup kita ni. Chill as semuanya akan baik-baik saja.

Xsemestinya bila u dah buat pilihan lepastu few years later de masalah, you pun ckp istikharah x valid n so on. Keep in mind, you will be tested selagi u hidup. Yakin je..

Pergi tenangkan fikiran dulu, just yakin apa yg akan jadi lepas tu, itu yg terbaik.


boca120879
post Apr 18 2019, 09:41 AM

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QUOTE(gingerrobot @ Apr 17 2019, 10:47 PM)
Klu u dah study dngn mana2 guru share point form pun dah ok
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Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
saudaraku

Saya sekarang sedang mengumpul dan berkongsi
seberapa banyak Hadith yang sahih
untuk dijadikan panduan hidup

Saya harapkan ada di antara saudara-saudara kita
yang mengambil tugas
berkongsi tafsiran2 daripada pakar2
(ulama, ustaz atau yg setaraf dengannya)
boca120879
post Apr 18 2019, 11:53 AM

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Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

إِنَّنِي أَنَا اللَّهُ لَا إِلَٰهَ إِلَّا أَنَا فَاعْبُدْنِي وَأَقِمِ الصَّلَاةَ لِذِكْرِي
Sesungguhnya Aku ini adalah Allah,

tidak ada Tuhan (yang berhak)
selain Aku,

maka sembahlah Aku
dan dirikanlah solat

untuk mengingati Aku.

(Surah Taha 20:14)

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boca120879
post Apr 19 2019, 09:51 AM

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Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Daripada Al Qasim bin Katsir, daripada Abdurrahman bin Syuraih,
daripada Sahl bin Abu Umamah bin Sahl bin Hunaif,
daripada ayahnya (Abu Umamah bin Sahl bin Hunaif), daripada datuknya (Sahl bin Hunaif),
Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda,


"Barangsiapa memohon mati syahid
kepada Allah
dengan sungguh-sungguh
dari lubuk hatinya,

maka Allah akan mengangkatnya
sampai ke tingkatan para syuhada'

walaupun dia mati
di atas katil."

(Hadith Darimi no. 2300)

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post Apr 21 2019, 11:47 AM

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QUOTE(boca120879 @ Apr 19 2019, 09:51 AM)
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Daripada Al Qasim bin Katsir, daripada Abdurrahman bin Syuraih,
daripada Sahl bin Abu Umamah bin Sahl bin Hunaif,
daripada ayahnya (Abu Umamah bin Sahl bin Hunaif), daripada datuknya (Sahl bin Hunaif),
Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda,


"Barangsiapa memohon mati syahid
kepada Allah
dengan sungguh-sungguh
dari lubuk hatinya,

maka Allah akan mengangkatnya
sampai ke tingkatan para syuhada'

walaupun dia mati
di atas katil."

(Hadith Darimi no. 2300)

Nota penting:
Untuk pemahaman yg lebih baik,
sila rujuk nasihat pakar
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Heard somewhere that mati syahid feels like kene cubit. Betul ke tak? Or is that hadis daif? 🤔

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post Apr 21 2019, 01:27 PM

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QUOTE(damnself @ Apr 21 2019, 11:47 AM)
Heard somewhere that mati syahid feels like kene cubit. Betul ke tak? Or is that hadis daif? 🤔
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saya masih dalam proses pengumpulan hadis2 sahih,
saya tak jumpa lagi hadis tersebut

kalo ada, saya post di sini
boca120879
post Apr 21 2019, 01:46 PM

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Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Daripada Ahmad bin Hanbal, daripada Bisyr bin Al Mufadldlal, daripada Ibnu 'Ajlan,
daripada Sa'id Al Maqburi, daripada Abu Hurairah,
Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda,


"Jika ada lalat jatuh ke dalam bekas minum
salah seorang daripada kalian

maka celupkanlah lalat tersebut,

kerana sesungguhnya
di dalam salah satu sayapnya terdapat penyakit

dan pada sayap yang lain
terdapat ubat.

Sesungguhnya lalat tersebut melindungi diri
dengan sayap yang padanya terdapat penyakit,

maka celupkanlah
semuanya!"

(Hadith Abu Daud no. 3346)

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post Apr 22 2019, 07:43 AM

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salam

bila korang baca quran, siapa baca sekali terjemah dia apa?

disamping itu, kitab apa korang baca untuk faham apa maksud terjemah tu? ada suggestion kitab apa tak? maybe nak beli
myteam94
post Apr 22 2019, 09:04 AM

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Salam

nak tanya pendapat

i'm currently having some issue with my family
me and gf are currently about to embrace the next of our relationship, in this year, we are planning to proceed with the engagement but during this course of time, i somewhat see some of the true color of my own family
they somewhat look down on my girlfriend plus her family

whenever they talk about her, you can felt something is not right

imagine this, she planning to go to study oversea but my family always ask me, can her parent support ke? why tak continue here in malaysia and etc... i kinda terasa when they said like that

i've notice something, whenever i hangout at my gf family, they are always humble, live in modesty, sometime even duit x cukup they can still find some happiness within it
but when it come to family, money always matter. whatever you do, you must emphasize on the money management. My gf really give an eye-opening statement

Quote
"Buat apa ada duit kalau tak bahagia"
seriously this is what i felt
when i'm with her family, they always laughter and enjoyment
when it come to my family, it always serious and felt tension..... sad.gif

can anyone guide me to a proper path or is there a way to find some sort of ketenangan.

My only soothing Quran surah would always be the Yassin.
i've been feeling down for awhile
I know Allah S.W.T might be testing me at this moment. smile.gif
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post Apr 22 2019, 10:27 AM

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QUOTE(myteam94 @ Apr 22 2019, 09:04 AM)
Salam

nak tanya pendapat

i'm currently having some issue with my family
me and gf are currently about to embrace the next of our relationship, in this year, we are planning to proceed with the engagement but during this course of time, i somewhat see some of the true color of my own family
they somewhat look down on my girlfriend plus her family

whenever they talk about her, you can felt something is not right

imagine this, she planning to go to study oversea but my family always ask me, can her parent support ke? why tak continue here in malaysia and etc... i kinda terasa when they said like that

i've notice something, whenever i hangout at my gf family, they are always humble, live in modesty, sometime even duit x cukup they can still find some happiness within it
but when it come to family, money always matter. whatever you do, you must emphasize on the money management. My gf really give an eye-opening statement

Quote
"Buat apa ada duit kalau tak bahagia"
seriously this is what i felt
when i'm with her family, they always laughter and enjoyment
when it come to my family, it always serious and felt tension.....  sad.gif

can anyone guide me to a proper path  or is there a way to find some sort of ketenangan.

My only soothing Quran surah would always be the Yassin.
i've been feeling down for awhile
I know Allah S.W.T might be testing me at this moment. smile.gif
*
Wassalam

In my view, never a good thing if a girl studies overseas. Far from family and friends. Not being chauvinistic, just my observations when I studied overseas and there are scholars who has given their opinions on this. You may want to check out YouTube

Allah knows best
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post Apr 22 2019, 10:37 AM

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QUOTE(gempark @ Apr 22 2019, 10:27 AM)
Wassalam

In my view, never a good thing if a girl studies overseas. Far from family and friends. Not being chauvinistic, just my observations when I studied overseas and there are scholars who has given their opinions on this. You may want to check out YouTube

Allah knows best
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actually she will be going with her friends
technically most of her friends are there
because its their final year before graduation. smile.gif

my concern are how my family perceive her and her family
they somewhat look down on her
her family tried their best to impress my family sad.gif
whenever they talk about her, my family always ask
Her parent can support ke? tak rasa bazir duit ke and etc?
confused.gif

when she gave me that quote,
i started to realise, it might be true
*walaupun ada duit banyak tapi tak bahagia, buat apa* bye.gif

whenever they talk like that, felt terasa and bit down for both us
and also, we are about to engage this year. wub.gif

I really dont know what to ask from Allah S.W.T...
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post Apr 22 2019, 04:24 PM

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QUOTE(EarendurFefalas @ Apr 22 2019, 07:43 AM)
salam

bila korang baca quran, siapa baca sekali terjemah dia apa?

disamping itu, kitab apa korang baca untuk faham apa maksud terjemah tu? ada suggestion kitab apa tak? maybe nak beli
*
at least for me, i read the translation and try to distinguish which word is translated into what. i believe that if you do this long enough (read: years) - even on your own - you will gradually understand bits and pieces of what you read/hear.

but never rely on your own interpretation, as we are not qualified to interpret. need to at least rely on Tafsir Ibnu Katsir. Investing money on these books are worth it. If got official e-book version, I will definitely buy (already have the free version, but not sure if it is 100% accurate... free is sometimes corrupted with unknown things...)
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QUOTE(myteam94 @ Apr 22 2019, 09:04 AM)
Salam

nak tanya pendapat

i'm currently having some issue with my family
me and gf are currently about to embrace the next of our relationship, in this year, we are planning to proceed with the engagement but during this course of time, i somewhat see some of the true color of my own family
they somewhat look down on my girlfriend plus her family

whenever they talk about her, you can felt something is not right

imagine this, she planning to go to study oversea but my family always ask me, can her parent support ke? why tak continue here in malaysia and etc... i kinda terasa when they said like that

i've notice something, whenever i hangout at my gf family, they are always humble, live in modesty, sometime even duit x cukup they can still find some happiness within it
but when it come to family, money always matter. whatever you do, you must emphasize on the money management. My gf really give an eye-opening statement

Quote
"Buat apa ada duit kalau tak bahagia"
seriously this is what i felt
when i'm with her family, they always laughter and enjoyment
when it come to my family, it always serious and felt tension.....  sad.gif

can anyone guide me to a proper path  or is there a way to find some sort of ketenangan.

My only soothing Quran surah would always be the Yassin.
i've been feeling down for awhile
I know Allah S.W.T might be testing me at this moment. smile.gif
*
I wasn't there when you family said those things, so I'll take your word for it. Just know that the way you wrote it, it didn't really sound like "looking down" on them... concerned maybe, but in a good way.

You cannot choose how people live their live. Nor are you responsible for it. So you cannot expect your family to change. As long as you are doing good things (not going against syariat) just carry on. Rely on the Quran and the Sunnah always. If you feel a clash, again, revert to the Quran and Sunnah (An Nisaa 59). In the very end, what matters is whether you enter heaven, or hell... not how many house you have, or what car you drive.

So her quote is very true in that respect. the word "kebahagiaan" refering to "bahagia" in the afterlife (i.e. in heaven, the only place where you can be "bahagia") can be found in Hud 10 and al Qoshosh 77 (this is my own search in the translation, not the actual words of wisdom from ulama...)

Also, to have some sort of envy is human nature. We are not angels, so we have negative emotions. The important thing is how we control the negativity. Don't act on it. If it's there, deny it or reject it, divert your attention on other things - things that are actually useful for you. If people talk this way and that, which offend or raise the envy in you, just smile and shrug it off. Just think of it as "nice to have" but not "must have" - you won't die without it and it sure isn't going to be asked in the afterlife.

Btw, am curious... why is the Yassin the only soothing surah for you? for me it has always been Ar Rahman... especially the first few ayat...
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QUOTE(abu.shofwan @ Apr 22 2019, 04:41 PM)
I wasn't there when you family said those things, so I'll take your word for it. Just know that the way you wrote it, it didn't really sound like "looking down" on them... concerned maybe, but in a good way.

You cannot choose how people live their live. Nor are you responsible for it. So you cannot expect your family to change. As long as you are doing good things (not going against syariat) just carry on. Rely on the Quran and the Sunnah always. If you feel a clash, again, revert to the Quran and Sunnah (An Nisaa 59). In the very end, what matters is whether you enter heaven, or hell... not how many house you have, or what car you drive.

So her quote is very true in that respect. the word "kebahagiaan" refering to "bahagia" in the afterlife (i.e. in heaven, the only place where you can be "bahagia") can be found in Hud 10 and al Qoshosh 77 (this is my own search in the translation, not the actual words of wisdom from ulama...)

Also, to have some sort of envy is human nature. We are not angels, so we have negative emotions. The important thing is how we control the negativity. Don't act on it. If it's there, deny it or reject it, divert your attention on other things - things that are actually useful for you. If people talk this way and that, which offend or raise the envy in you, just smile and shrug it off. Just think of it as "nice to have" but not "must have" - you won't die without it and it sure isn't going to be asked in the afterlife.

Btw, am curious... why is the Yassin the only soothing surah for you? for me it has always been Ar Rahman... especially the first few ayat...
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1. I know their intention is somewhat can say is good but maybe it just how i see it, they macam look down on her
maybe my emotional was unstable due to how they talk about her.

I tried to be as optimistic as I can. I felt quite bad for my gf/fiancee....
she did her best to impress my family. She quite takut2 whenever visit our house.

it may sound biased since it came from my word and I'm not sure how they felt
I thought I can try open their heart and don't judge her too harshly. She will become part of our family.

not sure, i've been listening to Yassin since Primary school (from radio to bacaan yassin night)
compared to Al-Fatihah, Yassin soothness bit stronger for me.
Whenever I felt anger/tak puas hati/ given up.. I listen to Yassin for awhile 1 or 2 repeats
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Today I led the maghrib prayer. I’m staying overseas and Maghrib is early. After finishing prayer, an arab brother approached me and said that normally its the people who memorize the quran who leads the prayer.

When reciting fatiha, I recited a verse twice because the first time I was about to cough, so thats why I recited the verse again. Then I recited two short surah.

That give off the impression that ayam jahilliah, ignorant a’jam ohwaiii.

I admit that my quranic is not perfect, the zal ra zai, sad dhod tho zo, can be easily mixed up by my melei mouth.

So brothers, commit to learning your quran properly so you wont be humiliated.

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QUOTE(seiferalmercy @ Apr 22 2019, 05:13 PM)
Today I led the maghrib prayer. I’m staying overseas and Maghrib is early. After finishing prayer, an arab brother approached me and said that normally its the people who memorize the quran who leads the prayer.

When reciting fatiha, I recited a verse twice because the first time I was about to cough, so thats why I recited the verse again. Then I recited two short surah.

That give off the impression that ayam jahilliah, ignorant a’jam ohwaiii.

I admit that my quranic is not perfect, the zal ra zai, sad dhod tho zo, can be easily mixed up by my melei mouth.

So brothers, commit to learning your quran properly so you wont be humiliated.
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aaah.... enjoy OZ ramadhan...

Qatar ramadhan currently overstretched daytime...

Last time, during Qatar winter, also got "pushed" as Imam for maghrib (sun sets before we go home... so, yeah... need to pray magrib at the office). This despite me definitely looking like a chinese (sepet eyes... what to do) and got some arab looking guys in the crowd. got a feeling that because i was the client, so i have to lead... thing is, i get easily nervous when leading the prayers where you recite out loud. Dhuhr and Asr are no issues... hehehe...
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QUOTE(abu.shofwan @ Apr 22 2019, 05:40 PM)
aaah.... enjoy OZ ramadhan...

Qatar ramadhan currently overstretched daytime...

Last time, during Qatar winter, also got "pushed" as Imam for maghrib (sun sets before we go home... so, yeah... need to pray magrib at the office). This despite me definitely looking like a chinese (sepet eyes... what to do) and got some arab looking guys in the crowd. got a feeling that because i was the client, so i have to lead... thing is, i get easily nervous when leading the prayers where you recite out loud. Dhuhr and Asr are no issues... hehehe...
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Dhuhr and asar I would race to the first saf for the chance

maghrib and isha I wud take my time doing wudu even as the iqamat is recited luls

lek luu

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