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gingerrobot
post Apr 17 2019, 10:47 PM

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QUOTE(boca120879 @ Apr 17 2019, 02:57 PM)
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Daripada Abu Marwan Muhammad bin 'Utsman Al 'Utsmani, daripada Abdul Aziz bin Abu Hazim, daripada Al 'Ala bin Abdurrahman, daripada ayahnya (Abdurrahman), daripada Abu Hurairah,
Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda,


"Dunia ibarat
penjara orang-orang mukmin

dan syurganya
orang-orang kafir."

(Hadith Ibnu Majah no. 4103)

Nota penting:
(Untuk pemahaman yg lebih baik,
sila rujuk nasihat pakar
(ulama, ustaz atau yg setaraf dengannya)

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Klu u dah study dngn mana2 guru share point form pun dah ok

gingerrobot
post Apr 17 2019, 11:18 PM

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QUOTE(reed90 @ Jan 9 2019, 12:01 PM)
salam..nak tanya fellow muslims kat sini... ada tak yang pernah buat solat istikharah utk decide benda?

cmna tanda2 dia tu datang?

prob is aku dah buat, tapi still x clear apa patut aku decide

hopefully sapa yg ada pengalaman boleh share sikit
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Well I did few times. Istikharah (minta Allah pilih). You dah pilih tp you takut salah n bila u dah start x memilih, itu lah yg jd pilihan u sebenarnya. Tuhan akan masuk campur dlm semua urusan u. He knows best.


Rasa tenang je, semua benda jd smooth. U xda rasa menyesal, u rasa sesuai dan boleh pergi jauh.

*xda mimpi2 pon (xpernah lg sy istikharah pastu mimpi petunjuk) biasa yg I hadap the next day tu akan jd petunjuk. Proses dia x sekejap dan dan x terlalu lama, it depends. Yakin lah dngn tuhan yg tengah atur hidup kita ni. Chill as semuanya akan baik-baik saja.

Xsemestinya bila u dah buat pilihan lepastu few years later de masalah, you pun ckp istikharah x valid n so on. Keep in mind, you will be tested selagi u hidup. Yakin je..

Pergi tenangkan fikiran dulu, just yakin apa yg akan jadi lepas tu, itu yg terbaik.


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post May 8 2019, 09:20 PM

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QUOTE(69420666 @ May 8 2019, 03:44 PM)
hey there fellow muslims. idk if you guys wanna read this but i just wanna share. in 2017, i didnt fast at all. after coming home, I would just eat whatever i buy from bazar ramadan lol no shame. fast forward 2018, I decided that i wanna fast for the whole month. I did manage to fast for the whole month but i didnt do my prayers. Just friday prayers. This year, I decided that i want to fast and do my prayers. Alhamdullilah, I managed to do my 5 times a day prayer without missing a single one. I hope I can keep this momentum.
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Great.. Keep it up. I just wanna share with all of u.. I got a friend, she never performed fardu prayer. She come from a rich family, her father is a businessman.. Income very masyuk btw. The whole family did not take religion seriously.. They never care about fardu prayer as well and her father and brothers x pergi solat jumaat. She was a free hair girl and.. Wear short in public.. She started change when she saw a group of girl ajak dia performed zuhur prayer.. It was very awkward actually but yep she joined them.

Those girls solat berjemaah tapi dia xtahu so dia solat Sorang2. She finished earlier thn them and she was astonished.. 'aku start lambat aku habis awal'. After she went back to her house, she texted me, 'zuhur 4 rakaat kan?'
I said yes and I asked why? She texted me again with '4 rakaat tu mcm mana?' aku cakap panjang lebar dlm phone lastly she said tomorrow u come to school and show me 4 rakaat tu mcm mana.

The next day, I explained to her 1 rakaat = starting from nawaitu until ur second sujood(1st rakaat) and u stand up again n so on. Just to make her understand I showed demo using my hand early in the morning before class started.

During weekend she called me.. 'buku solat apa yg bagus?' I told her beli ja buku cara belajar solat klu ko mau belajar'.. It was a very long conversation and she told me about the zuhur prayer, she said she started late and she finished earlier rupa-rupanya dia buat 3 rakaat ja.. 😂 and she also did not know whether apa yg dia baca tu betul ke x since dia dah lupa banyak benda dah xtahu mana satu rukun and etc. It was her starting point, dia belajar balik sampai beli buku tu.. Bukan satu tapi banyak buku yg sama. She bought those books because she wanted to give the whole family.

Dia bukan ubah diri sendiri ja tapi the whole family.. Mula2 ayah dia sngt xsuka sbb dia berubah.

1) Dengar azan ja dia akan bgtahu the whole family 'kita kena solat'.

2) Dia bersiap lama sbb baru belajar pakai tudung.

3) Dia akan mengelak bersalaman dengan sepupu sbb ajnabi

4) Dia selalu beli buku agama for the whole family.

Only the mom listened to her. The father beat her few times because he was annoyed with her changes and her sister slapped her once until she lost hearing for few days. Begging to be sent to clinic but no one cared except her mom. Her mom cried for her because too many bruises on her limbs.. Dia kena pulau, xbagi duit sekolah, x dihantar ke sekolah dan macam2 lg lah..

She was very determined, lastly she wrote letter to her father and these are the sentences that made her father cried 'you mean so much to me, the first man ever loved me, my hero, my best friend, my guardian, and I love you so much until I don't wanna see you burn in hell, I want you to enter the paradise, even if I could transfer all my rewards to you so that you can get the green light to enter the heaven then will give it to you' ada banyak lg la yg dia tulis.

After the incident, her father started to pray for solat jumaat.. Lama2 sikit baru solat 5 waktu.. Pastu kakak n abang dia follow..

And now she is a great woman.. Dia lagi banyak pergi majlis ilmu dan ilmu dia bertambah banyak.. Serious talk, I am not lying. Even bab fiqh pun dia power..Mak, kakak dia semua dah pakai tudung, semua dah solat 5 waktu..

Permulaan x mencerminkan pengakhiran pun.. Just keep up the good work.

This post has been edited by gingerrobot: May 8 2019, 09:42 PM
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post May 10 2019, 07:15 PM

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QUOTE(butterkijen @ May 10 2019, 06:14 PM)
praying is so hard i can't even find the motivation

what am i praying for actually is what ive been thinking...i think

like how do you even find the hidayah or whatever you call it and why some people get it and some people don't? and how do i know which path is the true one and which one is not,

as i grew older most of things started to become blurry, like i cant even draw a line on what's right and what's wrong in religion, i cant decide what i actually want to follow and believe in
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Hidayah ni something yg rahsiah, kita perlu cari.. Mcm mana nabi nak sangat Abu Talib masuk syurga sampai nabi mohon kao kao dengan tuhan tp at last he died without saying syahadah.. Pastu Allah cakap.. Even kau muhammad xboleh bagi orng hidayah walaupun saudara mu, kamu mu and etc.. Hanya Aku(tuhan) yg boleh bagi hidayah kepada sesiapa yg aku kehendaki dan tarik balik hidayah drpd sesiapa yg aku kehendaki. Abu talib bukan calang2 orng ye.. Dia banyak tolong /membenarkan perjuangan nabi.. Nabi mintak supaya azabnya diringan kan pastu Allah ckp paling ringan pun nnti di akhirat, pakai kasut dr api neraka sampai menggelegak kepala otak. Even orng yg dulu alim pun boleh jd sebaliknya.. Hidayah dtng dan pergi.. Doa la selalu.. Usaha lah.. Kita memang banyak dosa.. Buat dosa is part of our nature.. Tp tuhan tu maha pengampun.. Iman pun turun naik. Determine solat tiap hari, even dlm al fatihah surah pembukaan pun kita minta ditunjukkam jalan yg lurus.. Dulu aku main baca je xhayati pun.. Tp ada satu hari tu aku baca slow2 aq rasa ayat tu power gila.. Since hari tu aq suka gila ayat tu.. Memng mintak tiap hari.. Tunjukkan aku jalan yang lurus. Good luck
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post Jun 11 2019, 11:17 AM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Jun 10 2019, 08:38 AM)
Salam everyone.
Wanna ask sth about the non Muslim political guy that distribute sedekah issue. Some /k say it must be fully Islamic in the whole chain. From A to Z. Is this true?
Can you involve a courier company that is non Islamic? Is it ok?
Same goes to Hajj. Can you have non Muslim pilot flying the aeroplane for Hajj?
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Erm please understand, syarat sah bayar zakat, salah satunya beragama islam.

Non muslim bagi duit/zakat(including political issue) = bersedekah (tiada tuntutan dr segi syarak).

Setiap sedekah dr orng islam atau pun non boleh diterima oleh orng islam (zimmi won't harm muslim/it's not like okay I give u money for apostasy)


And yes indeed salah satu fungsi zakat untuk membersihan hasil pendapatan (money). Waqi' kita skrng, ramai diantara kita bekerja dngn non muslim.. Boss kita non muslim.. Let say now I work for A bussiness as IT exec , but at the same time my boss ada multiple businesses(kita pun xtahu source dr mana, halal haram ka) , sometimes boss bayar gaji bukan 100% dr business A, yg aku tahu kerja aku halal tapi aku tak tahu boss aku bayar gaji/bonus aku dr sumber business yg mana satu. It's different from if aku kerja kedai jual arak.

About tanah haram, even Jurists got different views. Better follow ja rules yg dah ada. Tp kita terbang dr malaaysia ke jedah dulu kan, what if negara yg penduduk islam minority dan pilot yg ada semua non muslim dan what about journalists yg nak buat documentary about mecca, xsemua journalists beragama islam.
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post Jun 17 2019, 08:58 PM

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Minta pendapat

Macam mana nak bagitahu kpd non muslim especially yang sukar faham kenapa perempuan islam perlukan masa yang lebih lama untuk solat berbanding lelaki islam di ofis?

1) Waktu solat flexible (boss tak kisah, boleh solat bila2 masa, yang penting kerja siap)

2) Perempuan dan mazi tidak dapat dipisahkan (boleh rujuk penulisan dr Imelda balchin untuk penerangan lebih lanjut) - mcm yang kita tahu taharah tu penting bagi syarat sah solat - biasanya perempuan akan bersihkan terlebih dahulu dan mengambil sedikit masa.

3) Tudung (x semua perempuan pakai tudung sarung - sebelum ambil wuduk kena buka dan lepas habis berwuduk kena pakai tudung semula, juga mengambil sedikit masa) tolong ambil kira jumlah segala kerongsang dan pin tudung yang digunakan termasuklah masalah pin tudung hilang secara tiba2. Sounds funny tapi hakikatnya memang berlaku terhadap segelintir perempuan.

4) Make up (even make up mesra wuduk sekali pun kena dibersihkan terlebih dahulu sebelum mengmbil wuduk- turut ambil sedikit masa)-not a heavy type (before going to work-foundation, pressed powder, lip balm - after solat - pressed powder, lip balm)

*reason: to prevent pale look

Kadang2 kebanyakan perempuan malu nak terang bab mazi especially klu yang bertanya tu lelaki. So previously kami dah pernah terang pasal wuduk-kena ambil wuduk dulu sebelum solat - kena buka pasang tudung tp mesti dia akan ckp mcm ini 'lelaki pun kan ada ambil wuduk - tudung boleh pasang macam itu saja.

Is it rude kalau kami bawa extra tudung dan extra pin tudung lepas tu bagi mereka cuba sendiri supaya mereka tahu berapa lama masa yang diambil untuk pakai tudung.

Kalau ada cadangan lain sila berikan.

PS: Masa kami solat cuma lebih 5 minit saja dr lelaki.
PPS: hari ini dah kali ke3 orng yang yang sama bertanyakan soalan yang sama. Dan dia selalu cari kami masa kami tengah solat 😢

This post has been edited by gingerrobot: Jun 18 2019, 06:48 AM
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post Sep 28 2019, 08:31 PM

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I need pencerahan on this, air kencing unta utk tujuan perubatan? 🤔

https://iluminasi.com/bm/mengapa-orang-arab...ncing-unta.html

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