So why not wait until after married?

lol
this kinda discussion
find it useless
since premarital sex is so common nowadays especially in big city like KL...
those younger tots really different
like example, my fren work as beautician at KL
all her colleauges, i mean ALL, around 6 ~10 person
age all below 22, just few older
non of them is virgin
so, how many couple left, at this kinda era, still left virginity till the marriage?

the discussion won't bring to a result n conclusion,
coz
no 1 bring it up to parents n our ministry to educate the young generation how to face this kinda serious problem

who actually make a decision that something is right or wrong???...

we follow our religion because we want it to be as a guidance... and religion come as package... take it or leave it... its not something that u can agree a part of it and the rest u dont agree... if u think the religions are wrong... and all your ideas are right... then... create a new religion or just become an atheist... do not disgrace your religion...

when u ask is sex b4 marriage right or wrong... u r asking other ppl... its up to them to take it from religion, culture or personal point of view... no matter what they say... at the end... its up to you to decide...

errr... just curious.... is there any religion that say sex b4 marriage is ok or sex without marriage is ok???

have you heard of this sentence ?

what is popular is not always right and what is right is not always popular

I dun think so...
Unless like u said previous post "create own religion"

COPYCAT !!!!!
I posted that in another thread.

cheh ... who want to copy u ?

and u r not the original ... so dont claim the copyright for this

ok... lets declaire it as open source so anyone can use it

Its her choice anyhow, i respect either way. Religion play a important roles in this tread.

Sex is sex. It's not love. It's not a relationship. As long as two persons agree to have sex, there's nothing wrong with it. Thus, we have one night stand/casual sex/etc.

Then there are people who use sex to get what they want, more money, more power, etc. Whether you approve of them or not is irrelevant. The point is, one can associate negative/positive elements to sex. The same can be said about many other issues, politics, religion, capitalism...

And you think sex after marriage has any significance, when one can so choose to divorce his/her partner later on? So, sex is no guarantee of a relationship or marriage. It's simply a tool used to fulfill them.

You can choose to have a detached view of sex, thus enjoying it more (not to mention it's good exercise), or you can choose to have a morality view of sex, thus enjoying it less. One man's meat, another's poison.



Dogbert

This post has been edited by dogbert: Sep 4 2006, 05:28 PM

for me that's bad. the problem is about nowadays culture. ppl sees that a small matter but in 1950-1990, only got a little doing sex before married. coz the culture that time don't like this.

OIC..So you are one of those colour wolves there

Yadda, yadda, yadda...it all comes because of love.

Ok..apart from that.. how sure are you that you husband/wife whom takes your virginity will uphold the until death do us part part? Hardly I can say. So is it worth it to hold back your virginity to your future husband and in later life when you are all sagging, and he looks for other tighter gals instead?

IMHO, have fun... play safe and never look back

Tak nak if can, but I accept sex b4 marage. (*note accept don't mean I and you all need or must do it. Depend to each individual, time, place. )
If decited to have, both person also have to bare the result and responsible to each other.

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This post has been edited by WTC: Sep 5 2006, 12:03 PM

aiyooo... WTC... what style of reply was that...

I'm committed, I can't.

it, reaps a lot of heartache and I think soul-ties are involved..I wanna wait for marriage (:

Errrr.....Im getting dizzy reading WTC reply.....

Im getting bored with this topic..

Yeah, I agreed with you, but we can't stop it from happening.

Sex is Sex, love is love. Totally diffrent thing. If sex maintain a relationship ? i guess u relationship sucks

so what is the point? IF you are willing to give it and someone wants to take. We should ask ourselves this question