Hello,

One should always use a condom for safe sex. It is utterly irresponsible otherwise.
Although condom is 97% effective, it's still a good method to avoid unwanted pregnancy/std etc.

So, happy making love, but remember safety first!



Dogbert ~ The best personal trainer on Earth

Sex is pure lust. Aside from generating next generation, it causes a lot troubles. So many social issues related to it. If it is not that serious, society would have been better, and advancements are faster.

oral sex is ok.....but keep ur sex off of Camera...!!!

Yes, we should all be monks and live a life of celibacy. By your argument, a society with the most celibates would be the most technologically innovative and developed. Tibet is a real shithole. Your points are without substance, but full of empty biased opinions.
And we all know opinions are like assholes, everyone has one.



Dogbert ~ Sex Guru Extraodinaire

Better not to do it lah.. Say no to premarital sex... it coz lotz of bad consequences, mostly to galz.. If dat gal got pregnant, guys juz blah....they wont b responsible 4 wat dey did.... Also used 2b happenened dat sum gals were murdered coz of dat..Then come to abortion n others... Its realy bad man... Does d advancement of technology hav turn our ppl 2 lose their morality?damn man...its like livin in such an uncivilize world..

what do open minded have anyting to do with having sex before marriage

we open our mind to accept something good... so we can make ourself better... and more valuable...

oohhh... i forgot... u r the kind of ppl that think having sex b4 marrieage is good...

say what... the girl u married was having sex with other guy b4... and that guy was great... but u r so lousy when having sex with her...

of course she will stay with u bcoz she love u... be she will keep thinking abt the exp she had b4...

not all girl who go clubbing are like what you said...

haha.. u are one funny person.. ooo plz dont talk about religion here.. sex is the act of affection believe it or not.. maybe some ppl misuse it.. wat if u dont attached in any religion.. i mean if ur religion does not allow u.. and u believe tht it is worth waiting then dont it.. but when it comes to others i think u shouldnt be tht judgemental.. i dont do pre-marital sex too now but if there is someone that is right i dont think i mind.. as long as it is safe sex.. well let's be factual that some marriages fell apart because of their sex life.. naivete is sooo last century...

haha.. then at least tht girl know what she's missing..

There you go Lizzie! Safe sex is the way.

This komeng guy lives in the 21st century but has a mentality of the 18th century.
All he does is curse you to hell because he thinks he's better than you, no explanation given whatsoever for his stand on something. You disagree with him, you burn in hell.

You are so blinded by your faith that you don't know which way is up.
Your assumptions about other religions are ludricous. You make a sweeping statement about all other religions without knowing what they are.

You are a monument of bullshit. People like you are a waste of air.

This post has been edited by dogbert: Sep 3 2006, 01:46 PM

Religion is for guidance. It really depends on yourself. I agree with you dogbert.

True,religion is just a guidance not a must for the way you live your life.Just dont bring religion into the topic pls.I dont like to talk about these things.

religion or no religion...havin' sex before marriage is wrong.........

our self conscious are there....unless we choose to ignore it

otherwise, the guilt feelin' won't be there everytime you've committed sexual intercourse.....

there's a lot of my friends who've feedback......yeap, who not feels guilt after doin' it....

we only feel guilt after doin' wrong thing....that's what's in built in us, the ability to differentiate right and wrong.....no doubt about it

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IMO, make sure you don't regret and don't complain around in future. You choose to take the risk and you should get yourself prepared to pay for it.

u have your point. it does sound biased. But i didnt say anything about me doing it to other girl is ok but not vice versa. Personally when i actually do it to her i would take full responsibility and i would actually have planned on marrying her. But if the relationship doesnt work out at the end i really cant help it right..cuz i know definately would have done my best already.

I can't believe I found this thread here while doing my research/informations about Premarital sex for Moral Studies assignment. *credits to threadstarter*

Anyway, as for my point of view, I don't think it's wrong to have sex before marriage. It's a very common thing in this world nowadays, even if you don't agree with it, people might think like, "aiyeh, you so traditional/old one!" Right? Some of them will also have this opinion, have sex before marriage can maintain a relationship, is it true?

I've no idea, how do you think?

Take note of this....What everybody is doing and what is common is not always right.

I absolutely doesnt agree pre-marital sex can maintain a GOOD relationship...well if u just talking about maintaining, maybe yes....
Maintening i mean is more towards girl thinking..."i cant breakup becoz i gave u my body".
Unless those ppl who says pre-marital sex is NO PROBLEM...

Oh another way of thinking is.....Why must use SEX to maintain relationship?
Love is "I love you" or is it "I SEX (f***) you"???
Or is it "I love you becoz i love u" or is it "I love u becoz i have sex with u" ??

This post has been edited by WaCKy-Angel: Sep 4 2006, 09:13 AM

If you really love someone, you'll willingly give your body to the person. What happens after that is how the person treat you in return. If it's unfavorable, you can't blame anybody for your own action. You need to be responsible for your action.

Yes, religion is a guidance. Pre-maritial sex is not totally wrong, it depends on how you interpret it.