My opinion, simple, always do test drive 1st before you buy the car, dont you? Its the same here also...

errr... you're comparing a car to a human being? until unless cars got heart to feel, i doubt its the same.

What a stupid opinion...

So after u "test drive" a car, wouldnt u ask for a NEW car if u decide to buy?
LOLZ......Do u get what i mean?

Well, thats my exact point. We usually dont buy the car that we test drive. LOL! We will look for similar one, not the same one.

p/s: well its just for discussion purpose ok, if my opinion sounds stupid, well be it, hehe

poor girl... used just for test drive... imagine if that girl is your daughter...

and theres someone out there say its ok... nothing wrong with that...

not necessary must change to muslim lah...
got $$$$ to feed wife enough...

my gf's pevious chinese boss have at least 7 wifes... included the local artist that showed in previous local drama - Chan Mei Ngo (cantonese)

but most of the wifes are "used" to arrange the business, each wife have different companies to take over and earn money for their husband (boss)...

Well, i agree with you!
Now i wonder, why should we have this tread? What is the purpose?
No Dads and no Moms in this world would want to see their daughter getting scre*ed b4 marriage, am i right? In that case, wouldnt you personally agree to say NO to sex b4 marriage?
In this tread's question, we will for sure have mix reaction, some dont mind and some would mind. You get what i mean? Im sure you are very wise to understand what i mean!

Uhm...i think those parents thats above 50 years old would say like that..
But kids now thats like 20 years old, next 20 years old when became parents might not say like what parents nowadays says..

it's one's choice actually, u wanna stay virginal until married that's fine .... if u are not ... tat's fine too, no big deal ... gurls and guys nowadays have the freedom of choice, they dun have to confine to the dragonic rules of the blibical ages or confine themselves to any form of stereotyping .... anyway i think viginity is overrated

... two ladies wearing wool sweaters on a nite out ... one exclaimed "mine is 100% virgin wool" .... the other replied "so what if mine have a bit of experience ...."

Agreed!

What point are you trying to make?

Matter of fact, parents of this century or past century or future century, for parents their kids are still small and needs protection(even though their kids had grown big). Therefore, its not easy for them to change their point of view on sex b4 marriage.
(even though, once upon a time they might had thought sex b4 marriage is ok, when they were young)

That is plain stupid....
Rules are rules...no matter its prehistoric or futuristic...

... two ladies wearing wool sweaters on a nite out ... one exclaimed "mine is 100% virgin wool AND ITS NEW".... the other replied "so what if mine have a bit of experience AND ITS USED BY OTHER PPL B4...."

Idk...I buy 2nd hand items coz its cheap and used and outdated....

This post has been edited by WaCKy-Angel: Sep 13 2006, 03:40 PM

ooo rules ... ok ok i will then follow the general civic rule of being polite .... i will not say that your thinking is stupid ... that's rather rude ... so i must say your thinking is not so clever lar .... good luck in yr finding a virginal mate ... just in case if it is otherwise ... pls pls dun swear and accuse her of being cheap, used and outdated aaaaa

Imo, its not only wrong because of religioun factor but I think its rather stupid for a girl to risk/ give something so valueable to someone that is temporary...
I'm a girl and totally object sex before marriage... but again, it's only my opinion~

that's the topic of this thread ... "having sex b4 marriage, wat's ur opinion?" .. all opinions are welcomed and respected ... i reckon

If religion is not a barrier for you...
Go ahead, have premarital sex!.. use condom or whatever..
its fun,rite? You've nothing to be afraid of, as long as it safe.
So, what's hold u up?

Seriously....Some girls just think ITS OK to have sex.....
But some innocent girl really dont know....and 1st time taken coz they DONT KNOW its not right...

I didnt say i would only find virgin girl, i'd not say i will not...
Its depend on fate...if i really like the girl, maybe i will accept, maybe not...

well, i think it's better to live together before marriage, or try to be like a married couple... at least, TRY to live in together... because, living in together or not are very different from each other...

many things you will only find out when you live together... what if you only find out after married and then regret... it's a bit too late...

as well as... sex... everyone is different... you probably love him or her but not his or her sex... dont tell me that it's not important, as long as you love each other... be realistic, it does make a big difference... and dont tell me SOME people can make it... yes, SOME, but not ALL...

There will never be "ONLY ONE" test driver to test drive the car

hmm,who says sex is wrong? Its a matter of perception right? Perhaps you see it as a wrong doing,but others might not... ...pls don't flame me,just my opinion here