QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Sep 4 2006, 09:13 AM)
Take note of this....What everybody is doing and what is common is
not always right.I absolutely doesnt agree pre-marital sex can maintain a GOOD relationship...well if u just talking about maintaining, maybe yes....
Maintening i mean is more towards girl thinking..."i cant breakup becoz i gave u my body".
Unless those ppl who says pre-marital sex is NO PROBLEM...
Oh another way of thinking is.....Why must use SEX to maintain relationship?
Love is "I love you" or is it "I SEX (f***) you"???
Or is it "I love you becoz i love u" or is it "I love u becoz i have sex with u" ??
Sex is sex. It's not love. It's not a relationship. As long as two persons agree to have sex, there's nothing wrong with it. Thus, we have one night stand/casual sex/etc.
Then there are people who use sex to get what they want, more money, more power, etc. Whether you approve of them or not is irrelevant. The point is, one can associate negative/positive elements to sex. The same can be said about many other issues, politics, religion, capitalism...
And you think sex after marriage has any significance, when one can so choose to divorce his/her partner later on? So, sex is no guarantee of a relationship or marriage. It's simply a tool used to fulfill them.
You can choose to have a detached view of sex, thus enjoying it more (not to mention it's good exercise), or you can choose to have a morality view of sex, thus enjoying it less. One man's meat, another's poison.
Dogbert
This post has been edited by dogbert: Sep 4 2006, 05:28 PM