agreed
on the 2nd paragraph of course
im not in the advance stage of evolution to agree to the 1st sentence
the growth of my wisdon teeth is proof to that

The question: is it that easy to seperate sex and love?

if its just sex for the sake of sex just get a prostitute. She selling you buying..finish....no different than a dog or animal then.

Problem is when in a relationship you mix sex into the cocktail, then problems will come up...jealousy..etc.. refer to my post. Normally one party will just have sex for the fun of it and the other party may most likely due to the constant intimacy naturally want commitment from the other party. The result... well just read Dear Abby columns. The whole hollywood lifestyle looks good, convenient even, but I guess no one bothers to also speak about issues like unwanted pregnancies, STD, abortions and broken marriages due to infidelity.

All this talk about pre-marital sex is pointless if you don't bring up the other more "ugly" and sober issues.

"But it feels so good it has to be right"

Sure and when the feelings fade you move to another eh? But I guess the whole point of growing up from a child to an adult is learning responsibility hahaha... tends to sober alot of things up ya. Its just sad that kids these days only learn this word when its already too late. The Price of experience.

This post has been edited by stefanong: Sep 28 2006, 02:39 PM

i can't recall anyone here ever mentioning about SEX without LOVE...

or do u mean that ppl who got married will not love each other anymore?

There will be no end for this topic. It's not who is right & who is not. Everyone have their own view about premarital sex

Currently the way this topic is going is by only using one point which is religion & practical. It's a sin according to religion but fun for a free-thinker.

So, any other points? Can list down all the bad of premarital sex?

This post has been edited by ViRaViRa: Sep 28 2006, 05:26 PM

Here is the bad thing
http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?act=Sear...ghlite=abortion
http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?act=Sear...ghlite=pregnant

Look at those ppl.....

I totally agree wt u...ppl r nt suppose to measure love wt virginity...love love nt virginity...wat if u marry a virgin bt she/he ended up havin affairs later on? then i'd rather marry 1 who is nt virgin bt willin to love me for the rest of our life n nt f**kin ard bhind my back...in a nutshell find someone u love n loves u back whether they r virgin or not...

haha.. definitely a NONO, y so desperate where u can have sex with someone many many years down the road after marriage? Better to keep ur desperation until the night u guys married n shake n world.. haha

there's no right or wrong on premarital sex...it all dpends on individual...if u wnna do it jz go right ahead n do it bt owiz bear in mind the consequences n the responsibilities tat u r willin to take up...if u think u r ready for it then by all means go for it...

do it for love nt lust...stop f**kin ard...bt if both parties wnna f**K ard then no comment...it's ur life n if u r happy wt it then fine....

Obviously you haven't read any of my posts or you don't understand what I have been writing so far.

ow, you....yes I still remember. All your posts are too 'short' which makes me sleepy

No hard feelings. Can you come straight to the point when giving opinion next time so that newbie like me can pick up your point without configuring what are you actually trying to tell ?

Love is patient...................
if u can't wait thats not love -.-

sex without love is void thats why it calls "make love"

getting a prostitute is not the only way to get laid....
u just need to go out n meet more ppl "prince of experience"

sex without love is called having sex
who told u it has to be "makes love"?

really...there will b no end to this topic...so many diff view by so many diff individuals affected by so many factors...religion, upbringin, philosophy, lifestyle, culture n the list goes on...so i guess jz do wateva u think is right n willin to bear the consequences if there is any at all...enjoy life the way u think is rite ^^

yeah..
agree wif u..
different people has different thinking..
juz choose da best 4 urself n ur gf/bf..

haha glad tat someone agrees wt me...really if we were to discuss tis matter for centuries, in the end there wont b a final answer at all unless all the humans r rule by 1 ruler n by 1 system ...n yet i stil think there'll b those few who shall break the laws, dun u think so?

the best to do is lock this topic

damn... wheres the lock button... can't find lor... oohhh... forgot... i'm not moderator

This post has been edited by myxzspzlx: Sep 29 2006, 08:56 AM

me oso no moderator...let those moderator do their job then...lolz...^^

dun care make love or love make before or after married... i jus dun liek those ppl who critic gal that arent virgin ... and say until they r prostitute.. they r not allow to have sex b4 marridge.. and have to keep them self clean alwiz... and wut about guy.... guy are allow to have sex.. y gal not... wut u think galz is?? guy and gal are equal ok... i not allow u to bring out ur religion says to critic galz... say they r cheap or wut word that not gud on galz.....

I thought women were liberalised when the birth control pill was conceived.

Animals dont do it for fun like humans do. Its a chemical reaction for animals. Where else ppl can use the sligthest thought or sight.

Whatever it is, you choose your poison to abstain or otherwise. Dont' be prejudiced towards others, and dont place your conviction upon the general public.

We dont all live in our own world.

Oh my got to go.....flame throwers coming...........really like you guys who dun speaking the manglish

speakign manglish better then u banana..... at least i still can mix up mandarin and english