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 Havin sex b4 married?, wat is ur opinion?

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post Sep 21 2006, 09:32 AM

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QUOTE(chitchat @ Sep 21 2006, 09:26 AM)
What so wrong about making love before marriage ?? give me a good reason of it (scientific one pls no religion crap) come on you guys are old enough to think rasionally. If they both agree on doing it for love and doing it the safe way there is no problem at all. Do you have to follow watever ur religious says ?? those book are written thousand years ago and it no longer accurate. Do they have condom, pills back then ??

SIN ?? CRAP !!!
If making love with someone whom you are CONFIRM going to get married with, then ok lor.

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post Sep 21 2006, 09:40 AM

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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Sep 21 2006, 09:37 AM)
Why dont u start with whats so not wrong about making love b4 marriage?

Last time had no nucklear bomb, now have, whats so wrong about bombing the whole world with it?
Many ppl are more to western culture & some are still pure Asians. You will never get to prove that he is wrong & he'll also never get to prove that you aren't right sweat.gif

- Nuclear = you bomb the whole world, you will die too tongue.gif

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post Sep 21 2006, 09:46 AM

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QUOTE(Tsuet @ Sep 21 2006, 09:41 AM)
i'm not against sex before marriage and i don't promote it. it's something i can accept yet not what i'll preach to other people.

but please la guys, voicing out your opinion is something, critisizing non-virgins with words like dirty, sinner, hooker just shows how rude and ignorant you are.

understand that there are girls who knows the consequence and girls who don't. don't generalize all of them by saying that they never think before they act. even if they never, who are you to judge them
Yup, agree with you....good points there

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QUOTE(CupidCupid @ Sep 21 2006, 04:22 PM)
so, i assume you are a fortune teller ???

so, tell me whether you are going to be rich in future ? If yes, then wat's the point of studying for the cert and working for the $$ ? and everybody knows that one life will end one day, so .... we dont need to eat/drink to stay alive ...
Fortune teller? Did I said that? Are you sure? Very sure? Confident? doh.gif

QUOTE(CupidCupid @ Sep 20 2006, 08:47 PM)
oh my .....  doh.gif 
when both are loving each other, it's not called 'having sex', is making love.
ya right, i bet 95% of the members here had done something which you considered as 'sin' .... so ? are they 'dirty' ?NO, you are wrong ! Oops, or maybe i should say, i STRONGLY DISAGREE with your statement.
making love to someone you love, is TOTALLY DIFFERENT with ppl who look around for sex or prostitute ... kindly make ur explaination CLEAR to the word 'prostitute', before putting any false statement here ...
and i am here to tell you, there are more than 50% of guys here, in LYN are glad and happy to have a gf/wife/partner who is a non-virgin ...
If you call me a fortune teller coz of that, then what shall I call you for those statistics that you gave? Master of all the fortune teller in the world?

Don't be a dumbass to simply flame others especially when you know that you are even worse

I said I don't mind going thru it with someone im SURE im going to get married with. Since you, me & nobody can be sure of anything, then don't do it lar...

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everybody knows that one life will end one day, so .... we dont need to eat/drink to stay alive ...

yup, since you said that....then you should not eat & drink from now onwards. Good luck thumbup.gif

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post Sep 22 2006, 08:48 AM

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QUOTE(CupidCupid @ Sep 22 2006, 08:27 AM)
reply to ALL above:

you said "If making love with someone whom you are CONFIRM going to get married with, then ok lor."
i am NOT a fortune teller, and i know NOTHING bout what is going to happen tomorrow ... i enjoy my life everyday  icon_rolleyes.gif

i am here NOT to flame anyone. i am here to voice out my disagreement on something... and i am sure i am BETTER than you, since you claimed that i am worse when you dont even know WHO I AM ... i dont do that, but you did tat  whistling.gif
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Why, fortune teller will only talk about the past izit? From where did you got the statistics exactly 95% & more than 50% ? Did you asked every LYN members? No right? So, what shall I call that?

You are sure you are better than me? In which way? Flaming others & giving statistics in your fortune telling? Haha doh.gif
Obviously you are worse, by just looking at your reply.
I don't feel wrong with what I said. As for me, after enggagement, which it before marriage, it's already considered confirmed both as husband & wife.
If you wana tell craps like everything is uncertain in life, then you should one of the most miserable women in the world. Then how come you can enjoy your life?
Note: No one can know about tomorrow but that doesnt mean that you don't take certain steps or decision because you don't know what's going to happen tomorrow, right?

Btw, have you stopped eating & drinking? laugh.gif
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post Sep 22 2006, 09:07 AM

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QUOTE(CupidCupid @ Sep 22 2006, 09:00 AM)
noob, obviously you are NEW here ... tat's why u do not know the result of the pool which was created before ... i am NOT making my statement based on my skill of fortune telling ... SORRY !

i am STOPPING here, to prevent this topic going OOT too far away ...

if u wanna continue the flaming, PM me then whistling.gif always welcome !
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When was the pool took place? Can you show me the thread? Are you sure all the LYN members voted in the pool? & are you sure it's 100% accurate?
So, what are you trying to get across? doh.gif

Just coz you registered yourself in LYN earlier than me, it doesn't mean that i'm a n00b & you are very much experienced than me. If you can't even understand my point & opinion, then I know how "experienced" you are whistling.gif

Ok, that's all....next time don't simply kutuk others coz ur not perfect too doh.gif

This post has been edited by ViRaViRa: Sep 22 2006, 09:08 AM
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post Sep 22 2006, 10:57 AM

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QUOTE(CupidCupid @ Sep 22 2006, 09:11 AM)
LAST REPLY :

I didnt say i am EXPERIENCED .... pls read properly !!!

FYI, threads which were create long ago will be removed, and i am not able to SHOW you the pool ...
That's how it sounds when you call me a NOOB....as if you are a.... doh.gif

Fine, THREAD WHICH WERE CREATED LONG AGO....it's already not ACCURATE NOW!!!
So, what's your point?
No proof no talk ok!

So, who is the real fortune teller now? whistling.gif

HaHa, good luck thumbup.gif

This post has been edited by ViRaViRa: Sep 22 2006, 10:59 AM
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post Sep 28 2006, 05:21 PM

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There will be no end for this topic. It's not who is right & who is not. Everyone have their own view about premarital sex

Currently the way this topic is going is by only using one point which is religion & practical. It's a sin according to religion but fun for a free-thinker.

So, any other points? Can list down all the bad of premarital sex?

This post has been edited by ViRaViRa: Sep 28 2006, 05:26 PM
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post Sep 28 2006, 07:00 PM

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QUOTE(stefanong @ Sep 28 2006, 06:22 PM)
cry.gif  Obviously you haven't read any of my posts or you don't understand what I have been writing so far.
ow, you....yes I still remember. All your posts are too 'short' which makes me sleepy tongue.gif

No hard feelings. Can you come straight to the point when giving opinion next time so that newbie like me can pick up your point without configuring what are you actually trying to tell ? thumbup.gif
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post Oct 2 2006, 04:48 PM

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QUOTE(jimmy79 @ Oct 2 2006, 04:44 PM)
since so many guy here is look so important about the girls virginity.
I have 1 question to ask.
Lets say
You and your gf is in love for many year and planning marry soon.
one day due to criminal case your gf lose her virginity, what will you do?
Leave her or accept her?

One think i cant figure myself. Hope can get some idea from here.
For Muslim,If you guys so look important to a girl virginity, how about the 4 wife system? Do you expect all your wife also virgin even though urself is no longer virgin after you marry ur first wife? Does this call fair in current moden system when girl and guy is equal ?

thanks first
No, I will surely accept her icon_rolleyes.gif

Im not a muslim. Do I still have to answer this question? tongue.gif

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