y ask until like tat leh...? ur fren ar...?

like i said b4, virgin or no virgin is not a big deal... if u commit a sin due to your stupidity... you must seek god forgiveness and swear that you won't do it again... its that simple... but if you still continue doing it... and in worst case... you enjoy it... then hopefully you will have enuff time to seek god forgiveness b4 you die... god is most mercifull and most forgiving... but remember... death can come at any time... u might miss your chance...

do you know muslim also accept widows as their wife???... widows are for sure dont have virgin anymore... so i stress here again... virgin is not important... what important is how you lost it... is it due to marriage???... or due to illegal sex activities (according to the religion)...

if you lost it due to illegal activities... there are still ppl that can accept you... and hopefully you can find them... but you can't force ppl to accept you... as you have the right to choose what you want... other ppl also have the right to choose what they want...

This post has been edited by myxzspzlx: Oct 3 2006, 08:01 AM

Thats the point...U have the patient to explain lolz..
Yesterday i wanna say same thing but too lazy i just cancel 1/2 way

Just enjoy it... its nature's gift

memang not important for some ppl lar... we must consider the majority ma... and esp the 1 we like ma...
some ppl feel betrayed when they find out tat their couple is not a virgin... u should ask how many ppl can accept non-virgins 1st out of so many ppl...

Don't have pre-marital sex!!!!


Don't think of a donkey in pink bikini...

for the west sex is just another entertainment.... but here we take it seriously...

(thought i neva had it b4)

there leh... majority are like tat ma... not many muslims there and it's a more freedom country... can't compare to m'sia... even if do pilihanraya also majority want it to be free lo... here leh 2 many ppl are uptight bout it lor... n many guys can't get used to seeing gals...

now a day people already talk have baby b4 married liao lor..

u still talking about have sex b4 married topic...

lol

ok . let's talk about sex outside marriage then. like having an affair with secretary and keeping mistress.

come on lar... this is Malaysia... wat u expect...? even giving up virginity is a tight issue for some... respect them lar...

many people got baby b4 married lor....look at all around your friend then u should know mah....i no say not respect them la....

i'm glad that malaysia is "closed-minded", in a way.

It depends on you well having sex b4 married they are few risks to take you lost ur virginity is one, i think this is normal but the complicated problem is getting pregnant or getting Sexually Transmited Disease, so you decide, they are also some cases which your BF take video n pictures while you are having sex and those pic was purposely distributed over internet or accidentally distributed via internet. So you decide

well said... these are all the risks... but some ppl love to show off their bodies on the net so i guess these risks don apply to them... so the greatest common risk should be STD...

Oral sex lo.....safe and shock

guarantee safe meh... i won be so sure if i were u...

Of course safe la....oral sex will never get pregnant

unless your girlfriend give you a blowjob, french kiss and you eat her *****. semen transfer from you to your gf's vagina.

Play safe pls use condom....for god's sake