im nt a girl
but i just wanna add my opinion as a boy

1. do you dare to approach the guy that u like?
2. will you tell him that u like him and want to be friend with him? how? pls share and give me some ideas... tongue.gif
3. do you ever think that you are not suitable for the guy? i mean u look down on yourself, think that the guy is so great that you are not the right one for him...

1. approaching the guy is not a bad idea. hey this is not 1908. This is 2008.
but that depends on the guy character as well. if you are approaching a "small-minded" guy, then u should know what you will get

2. before you tell him you like him, are u sure he is the mr.right ? I meant, are you really close with him.
do you know what he likes to do? do you know his real character?
if u think you really know him, then go ahead.

3. if u do that, you will make himself king of your world and you are just the maid.
think other way, think that he is just a human being and you are one human as well.
he is a guy and you r a girl. this way will make you both king and queen of your own world


peace

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Added on August 14, 2008, 11:24 pmdid you hear the guy say he loves his gf yet

This post has been edited by nottikid: Aug 14 2008, 11:24 PM

1. do you dare to approach the guy that u like?

i think im dare if im in drunk...wahaha..

2. will you tell him that u like him and want to be friend with him? how? pls share and give me some ideas... tongue.gif

i tried once..and it was hurt when he said "im prefer to be ur fren"...>.<

3. do you ever think that you are not suitable for the guy? i mean u look down on yourself, think that the guy is so great that you are not the right one for him...

love is all bout feeling..suitable o not..is another issue when im not in love
and nottikid..did you hear the guy say he loves his gf yet <--this is true..but not gut to seperate couple isnt it?hehe..

i've tried to confess once.. and it was good.. eventho we didnt make it in the end

i wont mind ppl approche n say like this... i wont reject or terus turn him her down...if is friend (i'll smile n ask y suddenly say like dat leh??continue...den change topic)
if is friend's friend *stranger to me* (i'll still smile, maybe we can be friends...then u'll know am i suitable) ^^
this is my style lor...
anyway im Tsukino Aizawa, im new here.. great to meet u all ^^

but i didnt teach to separate the couple oh...
is you teach one
so bad la u

well..lets look at the bright side! at least gals will knw n understand pressure on how d tradition of 'guy-should-take-the-1st-step' in confessing to a gals...not oni gals hav emotion n feelings..but guys too r emo creatures!! one would explode if he/she were to confess to somebody..pressures and mix feelings of afraid being rejected, anxiety, excited, want to b impressive n persuasive in word choice, avoiding bad breath, the way i look, the way i present myself, and d list goes on and on...so i think is good tat gals should take d initiative to try n venture into those pressures we faced..since some gals thinks tat guys hav oni feelings at a range of a teaspoon??!! hehe

This post has been edited by ~eXclamation~: Aug 20 2008, 01:40 PM

when i was still in college, i really like this boy. he's my friend's friend. i heard that he asked for my no but he never call or sms. so, whenever we met at college or went out (of course with our friends), i tried to make the move. i did somehow get his msn. we chat alot. i did tell him that i like him but then he said i can find someone better than him. i thought he's joking cuz he likes to joked alot. and we flirt a lot too. not flirt as in gatal but just some flirt-ish..
but then, i heard he oredi have gf. maybe my confession was in the wrong time and wrong place. now, he's married...

that's life.

of course yes...impossible keep away from the guy...

you should give yourself cr for approaching a guy...it takes lotsa guts to do that...
who cares if he turns you down...most important is...you tried, you will regret later on if you didnt try

wei, try you still hav 50%, dont' try means kosong... why want to sit there and wonder...take away all the ??? and go for it

but if they turn gals down..then in class will be very akward 1 wor...
if try then the 50% gone...if nv try still got 50% wor...
and if turned down very sad 1 wor...when u dont get the answer that u wanted....
experienced 1 here...

i dare to but must make sure his reaction first before approaching..!

why bother keeping 50% of admiring chance , while u can use this 50% chance to win the guy you like...

but if you really worry, build up the % ... get close to him, talk to him, then if you feel that he is resisting, u know you are likely to fail, so don't force it, but if you think that he is giving you positive response, then you should start to take things 1 step further b4 actually confessing,

coz once u say i like you , means no turning back...coz you already show ppl your last card, as long as you don't show them your card, you can still play

and also, if you fail...don't think he's too good for you...coz there's some1 out there better who is waiting for you...

good luck kekeke

Agree with the sentence above, it's quite true that girl will getting high % success rate compare to guy....

Well~ if you are asking me how did i know that, I would say that guys normally will accept you as friend in case he
reject you might be something wrong with him

so .. wish you girl all the best and good luck

touching~

but if we admire the guy tht already got gf ley??

hi yeelin,
personally... if that gf is one of your friends, i suggest that you forget bout him...to lose a friend over a guy/girl is not worth it

and if she's a stranger, well...you should go for it...again, never try, never know...pls apply to 50% rule again hehe

ok...
basiclly, she is a stranger...
but if alr try and kena reject?
then? still continue tackling him?

hm, since he rejected, you should back off...be friends and give him some space...

sometimes the person you like very much is not necessarily the one that you are going to spend the rest of your life with...

so just let things go naturally and see where time takes you

yes..maybe time will prove everything to u..hehe

huhuh.. girls do have this problem also ah..

i tot only me and my fellow male`s brethren got this problem >.<