I damn takut when it comes to wedding that's y I dumped my ex toowai wedding need use so much money
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 May 14 2014, 11:48 AM
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Deswai don't kahwin
I damn takut when it comes to wedding that's y I dumped my ex too |
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May 14 2014, 11:51 AM
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QUOTE(juicyliana @ May 14 2014, 11:39 AM) bro, all these save over a span of 5 years. both parties save through monthly salary and also bonus. hehe yes. Possible if 2 people save... it will be very very hard for 1 person to save. Anyway, both married at age past 30s.   I'm not questioning how long u take to amass that amount but instead why need that so much amount. anyway, if both are capable then no problem. |
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May 14 2014, 11:51 AM
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its once in a lifetime...
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May 14 2014, 11:56 AM
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QUOTE(skloda @ May 14 2014, 11:51 AM) its once in a lifetime... Divorce rate is going up yo  |
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May 14 2014, 11:58 AM
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QUOTE(cllee86 @ May 14 2014, 11:56 AM) Divorce rate is going up yo so be wise to choose a right partner  |
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May 14 2014, 11:58 AM
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/k/ earns 20k, 50k wedding is no big deal
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May 14 2014, 11:59 AM
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QUOTE(skloda @ May 14 2014, 11:58 AM) so be wise to choose a right partner Still no guarantee bro, along the road then something something happen |
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May 14 2014, 12:00 PM
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3,785 posts Joined: Dec 2005 From: Shah Alam
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QUOTE(juicyliana @ May 14 2014, 10:59 AM) Personal experience is: you include house downpayment and reno also? RM36K for wedding dinner @ RM1200 per table at 4* hotel in KL RM5K for lunch buffet for the morning reception RM4K for pre-wedding pics RM2K for actual day photographers RM2K for actual day makeup artist RM10K for honeymoon in Japan, Free & Easy RM90K for house downpayment & legal fees & Stamp duty RM60K for house furnishing and Reno. Upfront need almost RM200K just to settle down.... Angpow cannot cover wedding dinner cost as average guest give only RM100... Some even RM100 but 2 people come.  Need to save many many years with partner to get that amount....  60k reno is very cheap, condo or DSL? |
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May 14 2014, 12:02 PM
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Kinda depends on (1) how your parents/in law want it to be (2) how you want it to be.
I hope my in laws will be cool about having a small intimate reception of about 50 people only. If can, I don't even wanna have it. Better use the money go for honeymoon + take nice wedding photos |
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May 14 2014, 12:02 PM
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QUOTE(cllee86 @ May 14 2014, 11:59 AM) Still no guarantee bro, along the road then something something happen yea so dont commit so fast enjoy bachelor life bro |
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May 14 2014, 12:02 PM
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QUOTE(ciwi1166 @ May 14 2014, 11:33 AM) dafuq... you anak raja izzit..? actually wedding spending is only 200k -150k (house) - 10k (honeymoon) = 40k... biasa only  |
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May 14 2014, 12:04 PM
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so now this tered is who spend most in his/her wedding liao issit???
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May 14 2014, 12:07 PM
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487 posts Joined: May 2005 From: KL
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which is better
invest in the wedding or in the marriage |
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May 14 2014, 12:08 PM
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QUOTE(juicyliana @ May 14 2014, 10:59 AM) Personal experience is: must be nice house RM36K for wedding dinner @ RM1200 per table at 4* hotel in KL RM5K for lunch buffet for the morning reception RM4K for pre-wedding pics RM2K for actual day photographers RM2K for actual day makeup artist RM10K for honeymoon in Japan, Free & Easy RM90K for house downpayment & legal fees & Stamp duty RM60K for house furnishing and Reno. Upfront need almost RM200K just to settle down.... Angpow cannot cover wedding dinner cost as average guest give only RM100... Some even RM100 but 2 people come. Need to save many many years with partner to get that amount....  |
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May 14 2014, 12:29 PM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 14 2014, 12:00 PM) you include house downpayment and reno also? Don't wanna stay with either in-laws or parents. also don't intend to rent. prefer to have own place. getting a own house together should be part of the plan too before settle down. 60k reno is very cheap, condo or DSL? Cannot be settle down first only think of where to stay right? the house is sub-sale DSL, renovated. so manage to cut down some cost there. just do minor reno to suit personal taste. |
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May 14 2014, 12:32 PM
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3,575 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Kelana Jaya,Selangor/Muar,Johor
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u tak suka u jgn kahwin
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May 14 2014, 12:32 PM
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why you ask? because
"Kalau tak buat karang nanti apa orang kata..." that's why This post has been edited by sgwc: May 14 2014, 12:33 PM |
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May 14 2014, 12:36 PM
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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ May 14 2014, 10:37 AM) It's all about the face. Must show off. Yep. Me n future wife use the cash go Europe tour better Keep low profile and have a comfortable life better. |
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May 14 2014, 12:37 PM
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3,785 posts Joined: Dec 2005 From: Shah Alam
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QUOTE(juicyliana @ May 14 2014, 12:29 PM) Don't wanna stay with either in-laws or parents. also don't intend to rent. prefer to have own place. getting a own house together should be part of the plan too before settle down. i meant you included the house as part of the marriage Cannot be settle down first only think of where to stay right? the house is sub-sale DSL, renovated. so manage to cut down some cost there. just do minor reno to suit personal taste.  should have done all that before the wedding... my case, i include car also can? not bad... not bad... by the way, wedding photos is studio package? |
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May 14 2014, 12:40 PM
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3,785 posts Joined: Dec 2005 From: Shah Alam
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QUOTE(AllnGap @ May 14 2014, 12:36 PM) Yep. Me n future wife use the cash go Europe tour better my case, after the wedding we still went to Europe, but its like 1.5 years later, still updating blog |
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