QUOTE(The Analyst @ May 14 2014, 04:42 PM)
Why not? Of course. She does the same for me as well.
Oh, means she paid for half the wedding cost? Aiyah... should've just said so early on la, not so confusing.wai wedding need use so much money
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ppl wan jaga maruah diri mah
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QUOTE(Jeli0320 @ May 14 2014, 02:34 AM) i see ppl use over 50k+ for a wedding buffet, wedding dinner, find good date for wedding, many many things dah nama jeli...jeli ler tui think that those so extra and waste $$$ even though u get the angpao money back wai not just register as husband wife or maybe take a few family photos? isnt it more cheaper and simple wai la so ma fan do all this, unless that person really really rich la. I see those financial problems owe ppl money still want do all this. PS Me kiddo here so not understand |
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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ May 14 2014, 07:43 PM) Oh, means she paid for half the wedding cost? Aiyah... should've just said so early on la, not so confusing. I paid quite a bit more but its okay. Now all joint accounts anyway.  |
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May 14 2014, 04:50 PM
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QUOTE(Jeli0320 @ May 14 2014, 02:34 AM) i see ppl use over 50k+ for a wedding buffet, wedding dinner, find good date for wedding, many many things Dont worry what ppl say...i think that those so extra and waste $$$ even though u get the angpao money back wai not just register as husband wife or maybe take a few family photos? isnt it more cheaper and simple wai la so ma fan do all this, unless that person really really rich la. I see those financial problems owe ppl money still want do all this. PS Me kiddo here so not understand By law...u are married when u sign n register the marriage certificate... Whats the point...have huge grand wedding...not even 5years already divorce...what a waste... Just do a simple wedding... So.my wedding i wil make it simple... And i wil state in the wedding invitation card just give money only... i.dont wabt ur shityy foto frame... your shyte candles. Ur crap kitchen ware.. Make my life easier... |
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QUOTE(The Analyst @ May 14 2014, 04:48 PM) I paid quite a bit more but its okay. Now all joint accounts anyway. Nice bro. 50/50 contribution all the way!  |
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May 14 2014, 06:47 PM
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cainis why got so many spend on wedding?
coz.... 人在江湖 身不由己 |
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QUOTE(juicyliana @ May 14 2014, 02:09 PM) Can include car too. then you a lot of things didn't include, dowry, rings?yes, photos is studio package. some people go for freelance but the bride & groom gotta find their own gown. i went for freelance, my gown rental alone already reaching 4k |
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Chee bye la show off
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QUOTE(Jeli0320 @ May 14 2014, 02:34 AM) i see ppl use over 50k+ for a wedding buffet, wedding dinner, find good date for wedding, many many things Personally, I think it's because of the typical asian Chinese mentality that prioritizes ego or face-saving, need to let the whole world know or people would get the wrong idea that the marriage was a quiet one because of other reasons. This is why I avoid weddings at all costs. i think that those so extra and waste $$$ even though u get the angpao money back wai not just register as husband wife or maybe take a few family photos? isnt it more cheaper and simple wai la so ma fan do all this, unless that person really really rich la. I see those financial problems owe ppl money still want do all this. PS Me kiddo here so not understand But some truly does it big simply because they want to share the joy, but I personally prefer a small, quiet wedding if possible. It's nice sharing your moments with people whom you really love and know over a huge group of people that you barely know. Later dad invites his friends, mom invites her friends, brother invites his friends, sister invites her friends, then you and your spouse's friends. Then later the cousins, and it just extends and cousins might end up bringing their own friends to the dining table  |
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May 15 2014, 02:29 AM
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Marriage is not for the poor
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coz waifu and mom wants to kuda
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QUOTE(LVL1NiNjA @ May 14 2014, 02:39 AM) Society these days measure success by how big is your car, house and spending. |
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May 15 2014, 03:27 AM
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QUOTE(marsupilami @ May 15 2014, 02:29 AM) Breeding is not for the poor |
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May 15 2014, 08:47 AM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 14 2014, 09:10 PM) then you a lot of things didn't include, dowry, rings? the wife's parents didn't ask for dowry. so there is no "price" to be paid.i went for freelance, my gown rental alone already reaching 4k |
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May 15 2014, 09:43 AM
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once a life time ma. must make it memorable. the chinese dignity!
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May 15 2014, 10:00 AM
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sometimes is the old folks who wants it...
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QUOTE(The Analyst @ May 14 2014, 04:23 AM) For me, it's as long as the wife likes it. I don't want her to have any regrets and use that against me in future.   can't offend wimmenz |
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May 23 2014, 10:25 PM
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Me and my gf dont mind just sign the paper then do a small private dinner with only close friend and rather use the money go and honeymoon. The rest of the money can help me pay for house and car. The problem is our parents thinking only.
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QUOTE(Jeli0320 @ May 14 2014, 02:34 AM) i see ppl use over 50k+ for a wedding buffet, wedding dinner, find good date for wedding, many many things show off maaaah. more money, more extravagant, more show, more face.i think that those so extra and waste $$$ even though u get the angpao money back wai not just register as husband wife or maybe take a few family photos? isnt it more cheaper and simple wai la so ma fan do all this, unless that person really really rich la. I see those financial problems owe ppl money still want do all this. PS Me kiddo here so not understand Bodoh. it's just one day. |
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