but cannot piap2 during day.. dont wan la..

Japan korea china taiwan hongkong
I dont like private lonely island like bora bora or maldives

This post has been edited by leonhart88: May 14 2014, 10:01 AM

if u poor, idup orang miskin.
just suxk yourlife, jangan kahwin.

cannot wait until night time meh?

People all want to show off that they can afford a grand wedding. It's all about the face.

an important reason to throw a lavish wedding is to show ur bride n her parents that u are earning enough to support your new family...

when u got daughter u will understand.. imagine ur future SIL can only afford 10 tables in a one shoplot restaurant, honeymoon go genting... and ur daughter is a law graduate from Oxbridge... u oso sure ask them think twice first..

of coz, those who pinjam money or clear out their bank accounts are dam stupid...

to me a reasonable amount is the money u have left deducing all your obligations.... basically ur savings...

This post has been edited by seather: May 14 2014, 10:18 AM

Many people screw up on their financial planning (enjoying material life a God... buying newly launched "necessities" as they come to show off to peers) before reaching marriage age. Now their pocket empty $$$ to proceed with wedding , they blame these rituals as being too expensive.

wimmenz won't agree.. hv to fight2 with peers

So your wife is the type of woman who will blame you for any regrets she may have and use those regrets against you, huh? You must have a very happy marriage.

My wedding would be thirty five thousand feet above the sky and I would gladly invite my friends and family to join us.

oh yea, there is only a 1 way up ticket and the only way down is to jump.

It's all about the face. Must show off.

Keep low profile and have a comfortable life better.

Why want to use ipong or samseng instead of 3310? All can make & receive calls.
Why want to drive god car instead of proton saga? Both car can travel from point A to point B.
Why wanna go Mauritius instead of Pulau Ketam? Both place also island.
Why want to good food instead of Maggi mee everyday? All food also filling ur stomach.

If TS can answer this, then that is the reason why ppl spend so much on their wedding

Well the purpose parent want to do Wedding dinner is to acknowledge or announce to the public that their son or daughter already marry.

then i'm lucky cos wife's family only wants roast pig and gold bangle

u marry some1 daughter, and make the wedding event small and like no 1 know. Their parent will felt like they raise the kid for over 20+ years and some unknown guy just came and grab it away and no 1 even know what happened.

Personal experience is:

RM36K for wedding dinner @ RM1200 per table at 4* hotel in KL
RM5K for lunch buffet for the morning reception
RM4K for pre-wedding pics
RM2K for actual day photographers
RM2K for actual day makeup artist
RM10K for honeymoon in Japan, Free & Easy
RM90K for house downpayment & legal fees & Stamp duty
RM60K for house furnishing and Reno.

Upfront need almost RM200K just to settle down....

Angpow cannot cover wedding dinner cost as average guest give only RM100... Some even RM100 but 2 people come.

Need to save many many years with partner to get that amount....

Wedding new need furniture inside room.. My new room bought furniture already 20k+ without hiring designer.. 50k is consider normal

They mampu, so what. The catering, canopies, place all got budget range. Low budget, mid budget, high budget. Their money, their problem.

dafuq... you anak raja izzit..?

bro, all these save over a span of 5 years. both parties save through monthly salary and also bonus.

Possible if 2 people save... it will be very very hard for 1 person to save.

Anyway, both married at age past 30s.