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juicyliana
post May 14 2014, 10:59 AM

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QUOTE(Jeli0320 @ May 14 2014, 02:34 AM)
i see ppl use over 50k+ for a wedding buffet, wedding dinner, find good date for wedding, many many things

i think that those so extra and waste $$$ even though u get the angpao money back

wai not just register as husband wife or maybe take a few family photos? isnt it more cheaper and simple
wai la so ma fan do all this, unless that person really really rich la. I see those financial problems owe ppl money still want do all this.

PS Me kiddo here so not understand
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Personal experience is:

RM36K for wedding dinner @ RM1200 per table at 4* hotel in KL
RM5K for lunch buffet for the morning reception
RM4K for pre-wedding pics
RM2K for actual day photographers
RM2K for actual day makeup artist
RM10K for honeymoon in Japan, Free & Easy
RM90K for house downpayment & legal fees & Stamp duty
RM60K for house furnishing and Reno.

Upfront need almost RM200K just to settle down....

Angpow cannot cover wedding dinner cost as average guest give only RM100... Some even RM100 but 2 people come. cry.gif cry.gif

Need to save many many years with partner to get that amount....

juicyliana
post May 14 2014, 11:39 AM

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QUOTE(ciwi1166 @ May 14 2014, 11:33 AM)
dafuq... you anak raja izzit..?  biggrin.gif
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bro, all these save over a span of 5 years. both parties save through monthly salary and also bonus.

Possible if 2 people save... it will be very very hard for 1 person to save.

Anyway, both married at age past 30s.
juicyliana
post May 14 2014, 12:29 PM

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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 14 2014, 12:00 PM)
you include house downpayment and reno also? doh.gif

60k reno is very cheap, condo or DSL?
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Don't wanna stay with either in-laws or parents. also don't intend to rent. prefer to have own place. getting a own house together should be part of the plan too before settle down.

Cannot be settle down first only think of where to stay right?

the house is sub-sale DSL, renovated. so manage to cut down some cost there. just do minor reno to suit personal taste. tongue.gif
juicyliana
post May 14 2014, 02:09 PM

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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 14 2014, 12:37 PM)
i meant you included the house as part of the marriage sweat.gif

should have done all that before the wedding... my case, i include car also can? laugh.gif

not bad... not bad... by the way, wedding photos is studio package?
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Can include car too. smile.gif

yes, photos is studio package. some people go for freelance but the bride & groom gotta find their own gown.
juicyliana
post May 14 2014, 03:50 PM

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QUOTE(IluvProton @ May 14 2014, 03:33 PM)
when was this ?
u cainis or not? no need gip duit perkahwinan ?  laugh.gif
mana cincin ?
mana dai kam jeh? yima kuteh pre-wedding dinner?
car deco ada?

kenot la. now I budget budget exclude house stuff also about 80k liao  doh.gif
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This was end of last year.

Wife parents didn't ask for dowry, very fortunate eh... else sure kena ketuk.

cincin just use the normal white gold band, less that RM2K for a pair.

No need dai kam jeh coz this is a Christian wedding.

car pinjam orang punya.... luckily no need to rent. for the deco, it is covered by the bridal studio.

Why your kahwin only RM80K? U need to give how much for the dowry?
juicyliana
post May 15 2014, 08:47 AM

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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 14 2014, 09:10 PM)
then you a lot of things didn't include, dowry, rings?

i went for freelance, my gown rental alone already reaching 4k
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the wife's parents didn't ask for dowry. so there is no "price" to be paid.

 

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