nowadays also, I kinda know her taste of music. She likes BEP, jason derulo, thriftshop kinda song, Missy Elliot etc. So every week I'll have a new playlist for us to listen and sing along to in MY car

She told me that she liked my playlist. So I was glad. Coz seems like everything that I'm doing I'm doing it for her and she appreciates it. But one thing that I enjoy the most, is the happy crazy things that she does in my car. I can see that she damn likes to sing, and dance as well hahahaha.

I hope she'll still come back with me every night. Its been 3-4 weeks where I have been sending her back home at night. But my other senior who lives a lot nearer to her place is back from study leave. So, probably that will change soon. Regardless, that thursday night seemed like everything was going my way. Coz the senior told her that hes going somewhere else first. So thats when i told her straight away that I'll send her back.

Sometimes, i think the things that I do make it soo obvious. But to date, nobody has ever realised it. Except if i tell them, of which I will never

I wonder if she notices. But even if she did, nothing has changed.

I think you're overinvesting your emotions and effort on her.
Just ask her out and move on if it's a no. You're putting too much effort on her.

I have the answer of your relationship already.

Don't tell her your feeling cos the answer will be

"I LOVE YOU TOO... BUT LIKE A SISTER TO HER BROTHER. SORRY TO KNOW THAT YOU HAVE A FEELING TOWARDS ME"

Till then, I will just keep my laugh. Reality is mean.

aiya just ask her out only la on a proper date, your not trying to propose to her just letting her know you mau got out have fun with her.

theres a way that you can actually score and win,

get her whatever she wants, get into detail, be very detailing with her.

watch every tiny thing that she wouldn't even notice about herself, maybe you can start off with getting her food, buying her lunch or ice cream,

but remember to hold on your feelings.

keep on doing that until someday, she will not be able to resist what you've given to her.

she'll either i) Tells you that both of you are best friends
ii) Confess her feelings to you

try to pay more attention on her, do more things to her, from small tiny things to big stuffs. just observe and understand her doings.

you can try to learn, work as hard as you can on her favourite kpop songs, sing it to her fluently in karaoke or something.

make some bond right there.

she'll be yours.

good luck buddy

This post has been edited by ProperTYcoon: Jun 26 2014, 01:09 PM

I kinda like the way u wrote the story...keep update us and may the God be with u..good luck dude.

She got any single friends?

thanks to the jerk below, I guess I'm not going to post it for time being. Anyway, cut pasted everything somewhere else. Sorry guys, I get paranoid quite fast. Probably when I'm ready I'll post u an update yea.





This post has been edited by noonies_naruto: Jul 2 2014, 09:16 AM

i still find it weird la...why la u sharing ur love details?? simply coz u hv "fans"?
I too am happily in a relationship, but u dun see me sharing every details of it...no one does that.
wad if one day she reads ur story here? she'll be embarrassed lk hell leh!!

shut up lah.

hmm what if i told u, that yesterday she jio me for a movie?

but not just the 2 of us la. She ajak that close gf of hers.

So got 3 la. hahaha.

See la how, movies today. I might go.

i can somehow relate with your experience, i've been in similar situations too.

she is the girl yang semua orang suka. she probably not the hottest/cutest but shes friendly, and you value her.

keep her as friend/confess/flirt sampai judgement day/whatever, up to you. but since there was never really anything between you two besides sharing laughs and flirt sana sini (which in my situation, im not the only one she do it to), there isnt any wrong with what you are doing or going to do next.

if you ask me, i enjoyed most of the moments with her.

oh and fyi, she asked me to stay too. bla bla bla said she only have me bla bla. then when she work in new place, bye bye me haha.

yeah la go out show that you can have fun! make her laugh show her best gf that you can be a cool guy then score more points with the gal you like also that way.

Too long to read. The first thing that catch me was you are named naruto but has nobita picture. There's no match

haiihh... the last part... dunno how to work that out.. Doesnt seem shes gonna resign anytime soon.. but most probably we wont be working in the same team anymore.


Movie was great. But because im not that chatty with the friend, so nothing much occured hahah. Anyway, I screwed up dinner juz now. At first wanted to go Isetan for japanese food, and as we went down the escalator, I saw sushi king. I thought din wan to go too far, so changed my mind to sushi king.

But when we finally in front sushi king, she say she dun like. Then I straight away say lets go Isetan la. Then she malas already. Then inside complain i bawak go sushi king. I really dun understand

And then when i say, lets go eat food court saja lah. And then she say dun wan eat food court on off days.

Whaa.. Anyway, her phone batt was out so she cudnt call the parents to pick her up from lrt. Soo, guess who had to send her back?

Yours truly. And what do i get, kena marah marah marah marah complain marah marah marah marah complain marah marah marah n complain saje.

sheesh. And then talk about work pulak juz now. Tell me why i left my work hanging, because of me another senior had to ABANDON his leave and come work to sort it out.

when i told her memang the senior said he wants to handle it, she mcm x accept. and then i be like, "SO WAT, I ALSO ON LEAVE TOMORROW HAVE TO COME DO WORK WAT. BIG DEAL."

and then she SHAKE HEAD saja...

Care so much about other people.. Dont give a rats assss about me.

screw this. I was so pissed juz now wei.

confess
see her reaction
if no then no
get back to your life


Some girl did to me the same
she confesses (jokingly later I found out from her friend to be true)
I politely reject because I got my mom and lil sis n bro to support
and.. we keep tab at each other till today like nothing happen.

so.. dont wait because it will eat you up or u wanna prepare yourself but all I'm saying is that, it is better knowing than not.

Good luck man

Soo.. I've been giving it a lot of thought. There are things which she does really really irritates me. I noticed that, shes more on other peoples needs, other peoples preference, rather than mine.

whatever I like, she just shoves it away. Whatever I decide, she'll be like dont want this dont want that, or what pains me, is when she told me I can't be selfish and ignore what my boss wants, the other senior wants,

Whatever hardship that is so called, I, ME, MYSELF, am putting other people thru is unacceptable to her. But if people do that to me, she silent only, never say anything. Never try to understand also. Instead, asyik want to scold me here n there. Whatever I say also dont want to agree. APA NI

Other people have to go to work when they already take leave? BIG DEAALL WEIII... BIG DEAAAAAALLLLLLLL.. I also at times will have to do that. If I had to do that, would she care?? Macam no saja? Not my fault also man.

Oh our boss cannot eat this cannot eat that. SCREW THE BOSS LA. Always tell me to decide where to makan, then just follow me la.

Among my favorite place go makan had always been the Shihlin Taiwan blahblahblah the one sell the XXL chicken. BUT NOOOOOOOOOOO... DUN CARE WAT I LIKE BECAUSE SHE DOESNT THINK THE BOSS EATS THERE. SPLENDID JUST FANTASTIC. AWESOME. AND THEN SUM MORE TELL ME IM SELFISH i go like SAY WHAAAAAAAAAAAAA??

What she said last night really is playing on my head until this morning. I wasn't in a good mood since then, but I never announce to the world, never show it to her also, DUHH OF COURSE RIGHT.. WHO AM I RIGHT? who gives a shit about me? Lets give a shit to everybody else who dont care for her as much as I do, right? Okay nvmind, let me put up a brilliant poker face and show you that whatever you put me thru, I memang will be okay with coz I LOVE YOU THAT MUCH pfffttttttt *vomitblood*

and what do i get in return? SCOLD SCOLD SCOLD SCOLD COMPLAIN COMPLAIN COMPLAIN SCOLD SCOLD SCOLD COMPLAIN SCOLD COMPLAIN SCOLD.

I really needed to rant. To tell someone. Now I damn merajuk

She rants to me ON A LOT OF STUFF. So in return, I should rant to her too right? but who rants to the other when the whole rant is about the other??

thanks man. I think i wont ever confess. Let me dream a bit longer yeah?

This post has been edited by noonies_naruto: Jul 3 2014, 07:54 AM

Wow buddy calm down dulu ye. Let me try to understand your situation. Seem like there is a twist in the situation because at the beginning of your posts were all pretty much positive situations and currently somehow become negative.

You said that she complained this and that to you. But when people done it on you yet she says nothing. May I know did she complain and scold you privately or publicly?

As for Boss stuffs, I have to concur to her. No matter what, it is indirectly we have to please the boss and of course during work we have to follow the demand by seniors and boss. This ain't your bapak punya company where you can follow your own style.

And I don't really fully understood your situation since I only hear 1 side of the story and it is not even the clear story haha. You may have to figure out what went wrong. You give me a perception that your jealousy were all over your head that is why whatever things she done or whatsoever turned out to be negative because your mind already in negative state at the beginning. If weekend got free try to go seaside and enjoy the sea breeze then think about it from there. Even a park also can or any place that can relax you.

thanks bro.

Okay on the boss part, i knew people would be thinking like this is like, boss of company etc. Its just our team leader, whom I usually call boss. And yeah, this 'boss' im talking about isnt the boss of the company i work for. Just a team lead thats all.

Haha, lawak kan cter aku.. awal2 memang la sume happy je post, baru2 ni je bikin aku panas skit. Semalam la kuar ngn dier tngk movie, ngn lagi sorg kawan dier.. pastu over dinner cakap pasal aku x siapkan kerja, and pasal tu lagi satu senior tu kena datang ofis during leave SEMATA2 nak abes kan keje aku. She din understand the situation, becoz senior aku tu mmg kata dier akan take over. Entah which part dier x paham, still blame aku. Lama2 aku naik emo la, kalau dier kisah sangat pasal org lain, then screw me la isit? Aku pun slalu je datang keje even when on leave, dont see her saying anything about that :/ and i wont deny, yeah memang aku jealous.

Complain and scold? dier bantai je depan orang. well, maybe i exaggerate la. xde la tengking, tapi mcm nagging mak nenek. Penat nak layan. Tau nak bisinggg aje. Everything aku buat ada je nak complain. Kadang2 memang dier messing around, tapi mess2 around pun chill la beb. I have feelings too.

LOL of course la u hear one side aje. How to hear the other side? Hopefully will never hear huh..

anyway, thanks brah. Needed that.

Looks like in my case the 4th quartile represents everything



LOL. OR PROBABLY JUST THE FIRST, PLUS THE SCOLDING.

This post has been edited by noonies_naruto: Jul 3 2014, 09:30 AM

You suffer more than u enjoy ah well good freindships has its ups and downs