So to hear what u had mentioned. Main problem is on your case described was the sperm right? May I know your hubby age and did doctor said anything about what makes his sperm not good as mentioned?

What attempts and how many times u had done to work this out?

Lastly, u can ignore my question if u not will to publish it into post and I respect it. My purpose is try to find out the problem and "maybe" someone read this can help.

Yes, is because he has the undecended testes from child, it has affected the sperm reproduction. We have immotile sperms and only one. Retrievel using the Surgical method. We went few doctors. Even to Urologists for examination. He is hi risk for cancer.. Because of this events, he is very very upset.. We did the SSR one time, and doctor advise us not to anymore, no point. The doctor said we need to find other alternative now. My age is going up, so our percentage to conceive going down.

From ur current situation, I really not dare to give any advice as much as I can understand how u guys feels. A little story from my own experience and NOT comparing to yours and I made it shorter for u to read. When we decided to go for IVF, we have a lot of problem lagging in between and most IMPORTANTLY for our side was age and financially (ONLY ABLE TO DO ONE SHOT) if failed we need to accept the truth of not having baby and live the rest of our life which is very very hard to accept. Before we go for IVF, I told my wife all the things that we will face and even if we failed we need to face it and will tell our self that we did our best.

What I trying to tell inside this superb short story is, don't give up, don't lose hope and try to make both u and husband happy and as long as u both had tried your very best to make this happen. Time is limited but not the end yet.

Thank you for your kind words.. I posted here, because I feels this thread people give alot of virtual support, and positive feedbacks.. I feel sometimes sharing with strangers is better.. I don't want to give-up, but this journey give me so many obstacles.. I am just getting tired. But thank you again for sharing you journey..

this time I can give a little advice when ur saying getting tired coz of too many obstacle. plan a small break and have fun! it won't consume u too much time but it will let u refresh just like restarting up your computer. this will makes u run smoother

hope it helps!

Yeah. that's true..

Believe or not , may try winter caterpillar
After one year can see result

what is winter caterpillar? i tried google and results with bunch of caterpillar or moth and similar. how does it relates to this thread topic IVF or similar? care to give more details?

This post has been edited by skydrake: Jun 11 2016, 11:36 PM

Chinese herb , caterpillar
It's able to increased sperm count to normal from low count

u mean this?



and also known as "Dong Chong Xia Cao"?

Yes

Helo. How do I get it and how to consume it? boil etc?

Thanks in advance.

U can get from Chinese herb shop but make sure the shop is trusted one
The singseh will teach u how to consume and boil

This post has been edited by danielisme: Jun 13 2016, 10:15 AM

oh ya, if any chances that u wants to know more about ivf. u can come to listen for the coming talks at tropicana. We will be there also coz they invite us for the success celebration. u can PM my wife for registration and reserve your seats and FREE VOUCHER at https://www.facebook.com/ivfjourney2015/

best reason to go for this talk is because ALL the doctors from this facilities will be there on the same day. so is an opportunity to get more information.



This post has been edited by skydrake: Jun 13 2016, 04:35 PM

Hi me and my hubby is searching relevant info and deciding which doctor to go for currently, as such, can you add me in the group? My email is khaiyin85@hotmail.com. Thanks.

How come discuss in Fb become private? Dr prashant quite a good doctor and high success rate. If from Northern, I can also recommend a good doctor but it require lots of time and energy as queue as early as 6am

Can pm me your FB profile link ?

Dear Rose could you add me to the FB secret group about IVF?
My fb name is Betty Cartoon
Many thanks.

Hi Betty pls msg me on lowyat thanks

after tried so many round still not pregnant, finally decided to give a try on ivf....