So to hear what u had mentioned. Main problem is on your case described was the sperm right? May I know your hubby age and did doctor said anything about what makes his sperm not good as mentioned?

What attempts and how many times u had done to work this out?

Lastly, u can ignore my question if u not will to publish it into post and I respect it. My purpose is try to find out the problem and "maybe" someone read this can help.

From ur current situation, I really not dare to give any advice as much as I can understand how u guys feels. A little story from my own experience and NOT comparing to yours and I made it shorter for u to read. When we decided to go for IVF, we have a lot of problem lagging in between and most IMPORTANTLY for our side was age and financially (ONLY ABLE TO DO ONE SHOT) if failed we need to accept the truth of not having baby and live the rest of our life which is very very hard to accept. Before we go for IVF, I told my wife all the things that we will face and even if we failed we need to face it and will tell our self that we did our best.

What I trying to tell inside this superb short story is, don't give up, don't lose hope and try to make both u and husband happy and as long as u both had tried your very best to make this happen. Time is limited but not the end yet.

this time I can give a little advice when ur saying getting tired coz of too many obstacle. plan a small break and have fun! it won't consume u too much time but it will let u refresh just like restarting up your computer. this will makes u run smoother

hope it helps! 

Chinese herb , caterpillar
It's able to  increased sperm count to normal from low count

Tried for two times IVF. All failed. 2 frozen embryo left but I dont have the courage to go for it. Start my IVF treatment since 2014 and all results in failure. Just feel hopeless.