I see nothing wrong with that. It's actually normal for women to go for older guys.
a young lady attracted to an older man, I need everyone else's advice
a young lady attracted to an older man, I need everyone else's advice
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Aug 17 2013, 11:59 AM
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I see nothing wrong with that. It's actually normal for women to go for older guys.
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Aug 17 2013, 01:08 PM
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thanks everyone again! it looks like a majority of you are against the idea. may i know what is that? is not not common to see a younger lady with a much older guy? any older guys care to give me some advice?
also he used to have a few relationships but none ended up in marriage. maybe he is too obsessed with his work. This post has been edited by choclover9: Aug 17 2013, 01:10 PM |
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Aug 17 2013, 01:48 PM
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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 17 2013, 01:08 PM) thanks everyone again! it looks like a majority of you are against the idea. may i know what is that? is not not common to see a younger lady with a much older guy? any older guys care to give me some advice? maybe he just playing around with little girls, u can go try it out on your riskalso he used to have a few relationships but none ended up in marriage. maybe he is too obsessed with his work. |
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Aug 17 2013, 01:53 PM
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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 16 2013, 09:11 PM) HI everyone, i think i will go straight into the point. I am a 22-year-old woman and recently i am attracted by a man 20 years my senior. I am not a gold-digger per se, but he does have a lucrative career. He is single by the way. 22 is woman already? i tot still a girl I first met him about two weeks ago and started liking him after seeing his attentiveness to his job and god damn did he look so sexy. He is not classified into the hot guy category, but i can't stop thinking about him and want to have all his babies! i am totally sold and think he looks sexy in every way! What should i do? Is 20 years too big of a gap? Will he be attracted by me? What should i do, as a younger person, to attract a man who has seen the world? |
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Aug 17 2013, 01:54 PM
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The reason he is still single even tho he's doing well is either.
1, he's gay 2, he's ultra picky 3, he's a playboy. 1 and 3 he might be carry aids and STD, if 2, then a desperately girl is sure not his cup of tea. Good luck |
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Aug 17 2013, 02:00 PM
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why is it in our society that we assume having no a significant other means that there is something wrong with the person? i am 22 and single and don't think i will ever get married until i am 40 or so. so does that mean if i am doing well but not married then there's something wrong with me?
haha, also, there is no risk, because i am the one on the sexual prowl this time around. ok, now don't worry about me. I am instead worried about how an older man will think of being with a much younger lady. |
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Aug 17 2013, 02:03 PM
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I think the usual formula for checking these is actually his age divide by half and then plus 7
So since he is 42, then 42/2 = 21 21+7 = 28. Usually Anything beyond that then people will start raising eyebrows Of course don't have to take it so seriously. Perhaps go have a few casual outings with him first and see how things are like? |
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Aug 17 2013, 02:15 PM
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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 17 2013, 06:00 AM) why is it in our society that we assume having no a significant other means that there is something wrong with the person? i am 22 and single and don't think i will ever get married until i am 40 or so. so does that mean if i am doing well but not married then there's something wrong with me? For the record, theres nothing wrong with being gay, ultra picky, and being a playboy. haha, also, there is no risk, because i am the one on the sexual prowl this time around. ok, now don't worry about me. I am instead worried about how an older man will think of being with a much younger lady. Why do our society associate being gay, playboy and ultra picky as something wrong? |
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Aug 17 2013, 02:16 PM
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Keyword : not a gold digger, lucrative career, want have all his babies!!
Well done.. Wonder u fall in which categories... |
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Aug 17 2013, 02:21 PM
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well, let's just say i want to f*** this older man.
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Aug 17 2013, 02:28 PM
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Aug 17 2013, 03:25 PM
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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 16 2013, 09:11 PM) HI everyone, i think i will go straight into the point. I am a 22-year-old woman and recently i am attracted by a man 20 years my senior. I am not a gold-digger per se, but he does have a lucrative career. He is single by the way. One thing I assure you, you're 22 and still considered as fresh meat for me I first met him about two weeks ago and started liking him after seeing his attentiveness to his job and god damn did he look so sexy. He is not classified into the hot guy category, but i can't stop thinking about him and want to have all his babies! i am totally sold and think he looks sexy in every way! What should i do? Is 20 years too big of a gap? Will he be attracted by me? What should i do, as a younger person, to attract a man who has seen the world? If you're beautiful like celebrities confirmed he'll be attracted to you. |
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Aug 17 2013, 03:26 PM
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QUOTE(ah_suknat @ Aug 17 2013, 01:54 PM) The reason he is still single even tho he's doing well is either. +100001, he's gay 2, he's ultra picky 3, he's a playboy. 1 and 3 he might be carry aids and STD, if 2, then a desperately girl is sure not his cup of tea. Good luck And he has money, can always piap with model.. |
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Aug 17 2013, 05:10 PM
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i was actually writing to get support but most of you act as downers and judge me without hoping to really give me some advice. sigh, guess i will just have to make decisions myself.
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Aug 17 2013, 05:16 PM
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This is called,"crush". You only admire him for reasons.
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Aug 17 2013, 06:47 PM
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It is just a crush .. u admire him. You are not even sure if its love. So u have to take more time to know more about him
If u don't want to care about the age gap then don't have to but investigate more on his background . At this age but still single. He might have some secret you don't know. Just don't rush things.. getting into relationship is not a game or just like what kid will do like.. "eh i like this guy so i want him" You must know more about each other 1st. This post has been edited by Strawberry<3: Aug 17 2013, 06:48 PM |
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Aug 17 2013, 07:41 PM
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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 16 2013, 09:11 PM) HI everyone, i think i will go straight into the point. I am a 22-year-old woman and recently i am attracted by a man 20 years my senior. I am not a gold-digger per se, but he does have a lucrative career. He is single by the way. Younger women-older guy relationship is perfectly acceptable by society, provided the guy has some measure of financial success.I first met him about two weeks ago and started liking him after seeing his attentiveness to his job and god damn did he look so sexy. He is not classified into the hot guy category, but i can't stop thinking about him and want to have all his babies! i am totally sold and think he looks sexy in every way! What should i do? Is 20 years too big of a gap? Will he be attracted by me? What should i do, as a younger person, to attract a man who has seen the world? Love your post about "want to have all his babies" |
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Aug 17 2013, 07:44 PM
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QUOTE(Strawberry<3 @ Aug 17 2013, 06:47 PM) It is just a crush .. u admire him. You are not even sure if its love. So u have to take more time to know more about him Lots of older guys are single these days, especially Chinese. It's hard to balance a career/ambition with relationship/marriage, which is very time-consuming. So it's not fair to be overly suspicious.If u don't want to care about the age gap then don't have to but investigate more on his background . At this age but still single. He might have some secret you don't know. Just don't rush things.. getting into relationship is not a game or just like what kid will do like.. "eh i like this guy so i want him" You must know more about each other 1st. |
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Aug 17 2013, 07:52 PM
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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 17 2013, 02:21 PM) Then, just go f*ck him la. Get a date with him and tell him your plan for the dinner, bar and hotel. He should get the drift. But, I don't think that's ur question. He might be financially capable but that doesn't he will spend on you. Your question is how are you gonna make him commit his wealth to make you feel secure. That's pretty much wat most women will wan but it didn't work out with other women, so, its unlikely that it will with you.I will suggest just enjoy the sex and see how it goes. QUOTE(Ascendant @ Aug 17 2013, 07:41 PM) Younger women-older guy relationship is perfectly acceptable by society, provided the guy has some measure of financial success. And make the younger women guarantees her fertility? Love your post about "want to have all his babies" |
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Aug 17 2013, 10:31 PM
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OK if you confirmed he is 100% straight, not married, sexy, very attractive that make you want to have babies with him then start make your move don't wait else will snatch by other girl..... what is your profession anyway? What I know doctor normally (not all doctor) will find doctor as their life partner or lawyer they don't go for office job ladies anyway you can try.
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