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a young lady attracted to an older man, I need everyone else's advice
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TSchoclover9
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Aug 16 2013, 09:11 PM, updated 13y ago
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HI everyone, i think i will go straight into the point. I am a 22-year-old woman and recently i am attracted by a man 20 years my senior. I am not a gold-digger per se, but he does have a lucrative career. He is single by the way. I first met him about two weeks ago and started liking him after seeing his attentiveness to his job and god damn did he look so sexy. He is not classified into the hot guy category, but i can't stop thinking about him and want to have all his babies! i am totally sold and think he looks sexy in every way! What should i do? Is 20 years too big of a gap? Will he be attracted by me? What should i do, as a younger person, to attract a man who has seen the world?
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SUSmeistsh_musical
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Aug 16 2013, 09:20 PM
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2 year different i see no problem here
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Heero Yuy
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Aug 16 2013, 09:27 PM
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QUOTE(meistsh_musical @ Aug 16 2013, 09:20 PM) 2 year different i see no problem here Read carefully, it's 20 years difference.
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xander
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Aug 16 2013, 09:36 PM
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any idea what he thinks abt u?
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a-y
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Aug 16 2013, 09:39 PM
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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 16 2013, 09:11 PM) HI everyone, i think i will go straight into the point. I am a 22-year-old woman and recently i am attracted by a man 20 years my senior. I am not a gold-digger per se, but he does have a lucrative career. He is single by the way. I first met him about two weeks ago and started liking him after seeing his attentiveness to his job and god damn did he look so sexy. He is not classified into the hot guy category, but i can't stop thinking about him and want to have all his babies! i am totally sold and think he looks sexy in every way! What should i do? Is 20 years too big of a gap? Will he be attracted by me? What should i do, as a younger person, to attract a man who has seen the world? So you are gold digger. This means he is 44 now. What will happen when you will be 44 he will be 66, have you thought about that. To be honest I think your attracted more the prospect of having a stable life. The only reason you could give for your liking of him is his career. So yeah your a gold digger who is denying she is one. By the way younger women are attracted to guys older then them.
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SUSSi Kosong
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Aug 16 2013, 09:47 PM
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QUOTE(a-y @ Aug 16 2013, 09:39 PM) So you are gold digger. This means he is 44 now. What will happen when you will be 44 he will be 66, have you thought about that. To be honest I think your attracted more the prospect of having a stable life. The only reason you could give for your liking of him is his career. So yeah your a gold digger who is denying she is one. By the way younger women are attracted to guys older then them. Maybe that guy was Hugh Jackman.
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a-y
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Aug 16 2013, 09:51 PM
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QUOTE(Si Kosong @ Aug 16 2013, 09:47 PM) Maybe that guy was Hugh Jackman. Oh if its wolverine than its ok.
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SUSSi Kosong
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Aug 16 2013, 09:57 PM
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QUOTE(a-y @ Aug 16 2013, 09:51 PM) Oh if its wolverine than its ok. I think so ? Based on TS description. Haha !
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kelvin_87
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Aug 17 2013, 12:40 AM
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QUOTE(a-y @ Aug 16 2013, 09:51 PM) Oh if its wolverine than its ok. haha, you all making fun of TS. what if TS imaging the man suddenly lost his job? would you still be there for him?
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a-y
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Aug 17 2013, 12:46 AM
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QUOTE(kelvin_87 @ Aug 17 2013, 12:40 AM) haha, you all making fun of TS. what if TS imaging the man suddenly lost his job? would you still be there for him? She will be diggin again
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SUSxeda
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Aug 17 2013, 01:01 AM
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techmania
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Aug 17 2013, 01:36 AM
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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 16 2013, 09:11 PM) HI everyone, i think i will go straight into the point. I am a 22-year-old woman and recently i am attracted by a man 20 years my senior. I am not a gold-digger per se, but he does have a lucrative career. He is single by the way. I first met him about two weeks ago and started liking him after seeing his attentiveness to his job and god damn did he look so sexy. He is not classified into the hot guy category, but i can't stop thinking about him and want to have all his babies! i am totally sold and think he looks sexy in every way! What should i do? Is 20 years too big of a gap? Will he be attracted by me? What should i do, as a younger person, to attract a man who has seen the world? Love has no boundaries and age in not a barrier. If you think you loved him and vice versa go a head don't bother what others said. Life is yours two not them. Yes 20 yrs is big gap however you can try approach him and give him signal see how's his respond. Btw 40's have very good job but still single probably ghey?
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Poison-artz
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Aug 17 2013, 02:59 AM
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If you really like ..go for it! Gud luck anyway... I assume tht guy will treat you like child or little sis
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Aydee
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Aug 17 2013, 03:02 AM
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go for it,age is just a number
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evilcold
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Aug 17 2013, 03:05 AM
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Yeah sis, you may wanna investigate first why such an attractive guy with great career isn't married yet by 44, there is a possibility he is gay or maybe other things, just to be on the safe side. Don't just jump in right into it, you only know him for two weeks, it is too early for anything.
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ymc2303
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Aug 17 2013, 10:19 AM
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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 16 2013, 09:11 PM) HI everyone, i think i will go straight into the point. I am a 22-year-old woman and recently i am attracted by a man 20 years my senior. I am not a gold-digger per se, but he does have a lucrative career. He is single by the way. I first met him about two weeks ago and started liking him after seeing his attentiveness to his job and god damn did he look so sexy. He is not classified into the hot guy category, but i can't stop thinking about him and want to have all his babies! i am totally sold and think he looks sexy in every way! What should i do? Is 20 years too big of a gap? Will he be attracted by me? What should i do, as a younger person, to attract a man who has seen the world? this is the hangat hangat tahi ayam stage.. sooner or later, communication gap will begin.. then your family will object.. if you already know what happen as per above yet insists of going all out for that... umm..  just go ahead and don't regret..
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TSchoclover9
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Aug 17 2013, 11:03 AM
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thanks some of you for your replies. Well, hates gonna hate. I am not entirely sure if i will still like him if he loses his job, but as of right now i really enjoy the thrill of the thought of being with him. I am sick of "guys" and now i need a "man," someone like him who can give me a sense of security and who can guide me. (he is a specialist doctor and is definitely not gay)
Please stop giving unhelpful comments. I don't think i mind the gap, because with him being 42 and me being 22, he is still relatively younger than my father. With that being said, what do you think he will think of the gap, from a man's perspective? Any male's insights will be much appreciated. Also, i will be grateful if you can give me some tips on "seducing" (duh) him.
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aspire2oo6
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Aug 17 2013, 11:37 AM
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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 17 2013, 11:03 AM) thanks some of you for your replies. Well, hates gonna hate. I am not entirely sure if i will still like him if he loses his job, but as of right now i really enjoy the thrill of the thought of being with him. I am sick of "guys" and now i need a "man," someone like him who can give me a sense of security and who can guide me. (he is a specialist doctor and is definitely not gay) Please stop giving unhelpful comments. I don't think i mind the gap, because with him being 42 and me being 22, he is still relatively younger than my father. With that being said, what do you think he will think of the gap, from a man's perspective? Any male's insights will be much appreciated. Also, i will be grateful if you can give me some tips on "seducing" (duh) him. Ts u don't need a doctor to make you feel secure and guide you. A doctor specialisted in a specific knowledge for smart ppl eventually will boring. Find someone that flexible and stop judging someone by its cover.
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WaCKy-Angel
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Aug 17 2013, 11:40 AM
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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 16 2013, 09:11 PM) HI everyone, i think i will go straight into the point. I am a 22-year-old woman and recently i am attracted by a man 20 years my senior. I am not a gold-digger per se, but he does have a lucrative career. He is single by the way. I first met him about two weeks ago and started liking him after seeing his attentiveness to his job and god damn did he look so sexy. He is not classified into the hot guy category, but i can't stop thinking about him and want to have all his babies! i am totally sold and think he looks sexy in every way! What should i do? Is 20 years too big of a gap? Will he be attracted by me? What should i do, as a younger person, to attract a man who has seen the world? 42 years still single? Either he is damn rich or he is too poor then, it not fit into this 2 category then probably he is married but hiding his status. Better becareful.
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