There are REAL cases where the parents are the ones who destroy their children's relationship. Some parents INSIST to choose the partner for their children instead of allowing the children to love on their own account. It's real sad but it happens... if you wnt me to talk about my mother it'll be another thread .. she is forever never happy with all the partners that I used to have ... even the current partner whom I want to settle down with, she looked down on him a lot just because he drives a Viva. There's one time she actually said it in front of him, "Men should not drive a Viva! Why you drive such a small car? You should be driving big car like BMW! Show some power!" My mother really destroyed his ego ... it's not that he's poor .. just that he doesn't want to spend unnecessary money on something that is a liability. But my mother sees things differently. To her, the only acceptable husband for me is a really rich man/datuk/tan sri material.
His mom is asking us to move out of her house.
I know ... You listen also beh tahan ... imagine me having to go through ...

Lol! Granny problem eh? 

Neshimaru, i hv the opposite of this situation. My mother never looked down on my bf's proton saga and has never complained about him, she just said "u choose one, as long as u're happy.  but his mom looked down on my job and everything else.  She said and i quote "why you do this job? why you buy this house? why this like this that like this why why why?"

Lol! Granny problem eh? 

Ahyoh geram just reading this ... ask her back la .. "Why all mothers like to judge their children's partner??! Why you;re not happy with me?? Why! why! Why!" 

Ahyoh geram just reading this ... ask her back la .. "Why all mothers like to judge their children's partner??! Why you;re not happy with me?? Why! why! Why!" 

yup an old hard-talk granny, the thing is she knew i love to cook,, then we share all the fun about cooking till the day she died.  sweet memory but still bug me sometimes. relation to gf become more relate to granny lol

haha...she ask me how much i earn too. then when i dowan to say she keep asking. i just avoid the question, but inside so geram. haha
ya, sometimes i wish to ask her too, why is she being so difficult, but i dun want to create world war 2. she is so fierce, i sure lose the fight 

Well at least the troubles are over ... just keep the sweet memories
Sounds a lot like my mother alright. Every guy I date she would always say, "Before you can marry my daughter you must show my your bank book account and salary slip!" She ended up scaring all my man away ... good thing my current one is a strong man!

lol. but i think ur mom is really worried about you. i mean, ur bf is driving a viva...she will wonder if he has the means to give u a good cushy life. no mom wants her daughter to lead a hard life, even though she choose to. i think by assuring her that u all can very well handle ur financial, and it is going on well! might get her to stop poking n asking  hard questions on ur man...

also...does she know u hv a nuts mother in law to be? if she knew...she'll be ultra worried as well

That's the problem. It's just a car ... goodness he earns 5 digits per month! It's the same as seeing a rich old men wearing shabby clothings ... he doesn't want to show off at all! He can afford a BMW but he's the type that likes to save and what more, earning 5 digits a month he saved tons! He just bought a new house for investment. But my mother is more short sighted ... to her is .. my man has to drive a BMW, hold datukship title or tan sri title, and a SOMEBODY in the country .... 

gosh 5 figure and driving viva is like 
but i gotta say ur man is down to earth!!!!!!!!

Why so surprised? Some senior management in OnG company that earns 5 figures still drive 15yr old iswara or take  LRT to work.

When ask them why no buy better car, they say cars are just serving as a transport, and people that buy expensive cars are just buying expensive scrap metal and killing themselves with debt, LOL.

Lol this is exactly what he thought too .. a big waste of money. He pumped his money into property instead!

Lol this is exactly what he thought too .. a big waste of money. He pumped his money into property instead!

His mom is asking us to move out of her house.

Neshimaru, i hv the opposite of this situation. My mother never looked down on my bf's proton saga and has never complained about him, she just said "u choose one, as long as u're happy.  but his mom looked down on my job and everything else.  She said and i quote "why you do this job? why you buy this house? why this like this that like this why why why?"

Neshimaru, i hv the opposite of this situation. My mother never looked down on my bf's proton saga and has never complained about him, she just said "u choose one, as long as u're happy.  but his mom looked down on my job and everything else.  She said and i quote "why you do this job? why you buy this house? why this like this that like this why why why?"

Ahyoh geram just reading this ... ask her back la .. "Why all mothers like to judge their children's partner??! Why you;re not happy with me?? Why! why! Why!" 

Omg same!
My mom dont look down on my bf even though he has no car and license but she complain why am i doing online business, why am i working so hard etc etc.

You have a keeper there 

i think for safety issue he should buy at least a car with air bags. just my 2 cents worth. or when u guys hv a child, the child protect thingy cant fit into the backseat. then change car la

ur guy is definitely nice, but nothing's perfect huh? with him comes him mom. *headache*

No plan of moving out to an apartment together without his mom there?
From your age, you both should have enough savings to rent or buy an condo i suppose?

Omg same!
My mom dont look down on my bf even though he has no car and license but she complain why am i doing online business, why am i working so hard etc etc.

u all girl should choose me as bf... i dont have parent..my 1 aunt who raise me.. freedom here.... lolx

u all should enjoy appreciate what you have now even they are nagging, just treat it as wind blowing.   
btw i single and available now ~~~ 
hahahahaha

I know! 
For now I have a Toyota Altis so anything we can just use my car first ... until maybe we have a family only we perhaps think about buying a family car. One that is SAFE for our child 
Well we're thinking of moving out after we're officially married .. 
Oh dear that must be difficult for you  too ...
Lol well I hope you find a good one!

Lol this is exactly what he thought too .. a big waste of money. He pumped his money into property instead!