It's not about her being a good mom or not. More about she needs to learn to respect ppl's boundaries.

Actually it's the opposite. She's staying in my home. Does that mean I can command her to shut up? 

I think I already respect her as an elder by keeping quiet and not answering her back. Just nod n listen.

Haha I respect him, he isn't a bad fler. I oso dont want to criticize his mom but sometimes I wish he would speak up and tell his mom to stop complaining about me, other ppl and everything else she can lay her hands on.

There was once she came to stay over, then I try to avoid her complains by hiding in the room and then she came in without my permisision and came into the room question me what I am doing then continue her complain. I still nod n listen n lead her out, smile smile. But of coz inside I a bit angry coz no respect my privacy but what to do.

gosh 5 figure and driving viva is like 
but i gotta say ur man is down to earth!!!!!!!!

Lol this is exactly what he thought too .. a big waste of money. He pumped his money into property instead!