You could do it man, altho im only in my early twenties, I have already planned for kids and their future.

Yes, I am VERY proud to be a Dad one day in the future given the chance.

You should enjoy your moments now with your wife, NOT alone, take some pictures of your wife when she's pregnant, feel the baby when its showing. It shows alot of love and TLC for your wife you know.

You're a man, not a strawman.

You should be proud to bless be a father. Some ppl try years, but do not have the fortune to conceive.

You sound like my husband and he's a daddy of 2!! He still goes around telling people he's not ready. It doesn't affect me and I find it funny. Sorta like a punishment for him but he pulls his weight, majority on the financial side. Emotionally he still fails but he supports me like a personal butler. Of course I do get grumpy sometimes but he just have to tolerate all that.

Different circumstance often lead to different outcome. With a kid, yes you lose freddom, that's definite but you may outperform yourself!! Don't worry too much and let nature takes its course.

I'm going to show this to my hubby later.

To future posters, just a kind reminder that this is not Kopitiam and future Kopitiam-like replies will not be tolerated.

Honestly, really no time.
don't say leisure time, even time to go for lunch, toilet, and washing plates also limited.

very depends on kid situation, if they keep crying over midnight, really no time to sleep.

I am a working dad, my wife currently still on maternity leaves.
She lost 11KG already, and I lost almost 4KG.

A few situations:
1. No time for computer games
2. Limited time to go to toilet, better think twice before go to toilet to shit, pee or bath.
3. When my wife pumping breast milk, I responsible to takecare my boy, when i am taking bath, my wife monitor my boy, so always got one person monitor him.
4. Takes turn to feed baby every 3 hours, lucky then 4 hours with formula milk (Formula milk can tahan longer), breast milk worst case 2 hours feed one time.
5. Midnight standard wakeup 3 times (Baby < 1 month), 2 times (Baby < 2 months and onwards, probably 2AM once, 6AM once, if lucky then 1 time, if unlucky then every 2 hours.
6. This morning just take my kid for second month injection, at 2PM my wife and I only have chance to eat the so-called "breakfast".
7. Use your mouth to suck the baby's nose, to get out the snivel when he is flu and after bath. Sing song to him/her, comfort him/her, telling funny story, telling scary story, making funs, make serious faces.
8. No time hang-out with friends, always will have to either get back home early, or FFK, or change schedule.
9. Pee on u sometimes, Shit in front of u sometimes.
10. You will totally forget what means "tired", because you are too tired.

You will become the full time:
1. Teacher
2. Singer
3. Sports Trainer
4. Motivator
5. Psychologist
6. Entertainer
7. Cleaner

This post has been edited by sovietmah: Oct 20 2012, 05:23 PM

Im totally nervous and not ready yet? i think im just going to hire a amah to settle this.

You not ready also must make urself ready.
don't tell me u plan to do abortion.

I think you should take responsible like a man.
Anyway, u already married for how long?

you'll forget the pain when your child grow up.

Stop being a wuss and man up to your wife and future kid

3 years

OK right.
Soon you will get used to it la dun worry.

i really feel uncomfortable about it

Bro, it maybe just anxiety. I was in your position before. It's true your life will change. I know mine did... but it changed for the better. I gave up many things and it made me healthier and a better person. so hang in there it's not all that bad.

haha.. just accept the fact and look forward to welcome ur first child.. good luck!

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Added on October 22, 2012, 1:12 pmand... HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!

This post has been edited by meimei123: Oct 22 2012, 01:12 PM

you're lucky you still have leisure time after marriage. I lost my man card on the day I proposed.... she said yes but forgot to read the terms and conditions....

you will change by the time being. As soon as your mrs tummy growing big, you will want to see the baby as soon as possible!!

u are not ready to become a dad.....but then again...u fark your wife and put your jizz in her....why dont u think first...aiyaaaa....epic fail la....next time use condom....

What kind of topic is this? ..I'll show some of the alternative you may consider


a) TS, if you don't want the baby please donate to those couples who are unable to conceive..as simple as that..In PJ there is a hatch for unwanted baby

b) Please do apply for divorce so that you will not headache later on..

c) Please do an appointment with a councilor, any religious person, so that he/she can advise you

d) Next time wear condom...

This post has been edited by hakimnen: Oct 24 2012, 09:37 AM