Honestly, really no time.
don't say leisure time, even time to go for lunch, toilet, and washing plates also limited.

very depends on kid situation, if they keep crying over midnight, really no time to sleep.

I am a working dad, my wife currently still on maternity leaves.
She lost 11KG already, and I lost almost 4KG.

A few situations:
1. No time for computer games
2. Limited time to go to toilet, better think twice before go to toilet to shit, pee or bath.
3. When my wife pumping breast milk, I responsible to takecare my boy, when i am taking bath, my wife monitor my boy, so always got one person monitor him.
4. Takes turn to feed baby every 3 hours, lucky then 4 hours with formula milk (Formula milk can tahan longer), breast milk worst case 2 hours feed one time.
5. Midnight standard wakeup 3 times (Baby < 1 month), 2 times (Baby < 2 months and onwards, probably 2AM once, 6AM once, if lucky then 1 time, if unlucky then every 2 hours.
6. This morning just take my kid for second month injection, at 2PM my wife and I only have chance to eat the so-called "breakfast".
7. Use your mouth to suck the baby's nose, to get out the snivel when he is flu and after bath. Sing song to him/her, comfort him/her, telling funny story, telling scary story, making funs, make serious faces.
8. No time hang-out with friends, always will have to either get back home early, or FFK, or change schedule.
9. Pee on u sometimes, Shit in front of u sometimes.
10. You will totally forget what means "tired", because you are too tired.

You will become the full time:
1. Teacher
2. Singer
3. Sports Trainer
4. Motivator
5. Psychologist
6. Entertainer
7. Cleaner

You not ready also must make urself ready.
don't tell me u plan to do abortion.

I think you should take responsible like a man.
Anyway, u already married for how long?