I know a couple, both husband and wife didn't want to have kids, they basically just want to enjoy their own lives without having to worry about walls getting stained by crayons and stuffs.

But they got pregnant early this year (ah well, no protection!), and surprisingly, they decided to keep the baby (When I said they don't want kids, it doesn't necessarily mean they hate kids). Now, they're happy parents of a little princess, and they moved back to Netherlands to probably want to propagate more kids, according to the husband.

I don't mean to be rude but you remind me of Chandler from FRIENDS who always had commitment issues when it comes to marriage and kids.

im blessed with a hyper toddler that literally won't sit still, stop talking n screaming which drive me crazy all d time, n also a "velcro baby" which is sooo attach to me until sometimes i wish i could put her back inside my womb.Frankly speaking after having them both my life n husband when chaotic.we dont even have our time like before.when u have a kid everything will revolve around them.

but would i trade this 4 anything else? by looking at them im sooo sure that being a mother/father is d best damn job in this world n i wouldnt trade it with anything else..seriously raising a kid is sooo tiring, challenging but yet fun.Trust me!

so give urself a chance ok

when I first told my hb I was pregnant, he said he is happy with the expression of . I knew he is not ready like you.
Till now, bb already 8 months old, he still complaints a lot abt having a bb, no freedom, expensive, troublesome, noisy, blah blah blah... (potential you in the future)

But, he is having a lot of fun with our bb no matter how much he complaints about. I bet you will too. Cheers up. Nothing is really a big deal, be cool

Seriously?

I'm 24 this year and Hub's 26. I broke the news to him when we were playing League of Legends. What more? he gave me the o.O look although we planned for it (been married for 2 years that time).

And yes - eversince that time, he deleted his LOL and warcraft, didn't have the time to play Diablo too. Now everything evolves around the baby. He's the one doing house chores (from mopping the floor to cleaning the dishes and ironing the clothes) AND he attends to the baby. My only job is to breastfeed =) I only help him with lighter chores and I can see that sometimes he's really frustrated, but he enjoys the company of our girl.

The other day I asked him if he had the chance to do it all over again, will he choose to TTC at that time? And he replied yes. Her smiles and laughters are very well worth all the hardwork.

p/s: my girl loves him more than me - she only cries for me when she needs milk " most of the time she'll be dadaaa dadaaa-ing calling for the daddy.

Same situation like me.
No time diablo, no time dota.
Semi-watching football match.

Haha... as for me, no skyrim, no movies, no lazy-lazy... lots of household chores. Takes time to get used, but i'm survived. Not becoming a soulless zombie yet.

haha..sounds like I will lose all my personal time to the baby in <3 weeks time

Definitely.
Unless u got 2-3 people helping you to takecare at home full time.

pity your wife/gf

Grow-up man. Thank to God i'm a new daddy with a baby boy after 5 yr of marriage after putting a lot of effort & pray.

If you are not ready, you should not make her pregnant. Now, take the responsibility.

Worried about taking care of your baby?

I can do it... for a fee.

Or just give him/her to me!
I love babies.

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Added on November 20, 2012, 4:52 pmps- that was me when i was high a moment ago
now i am depressed thinking about money and all that.
changed my mind. sigh

lol



This post has been edited by satricalwong: Nov 20 2012, 04:52 PM

dude u should be happy....thank you God bcoz u have your own next generation..should be proud men..

Every child is a blessing. You take care and love your kid and when you're old your kid will take care of you. Some people want children but they are not blessed. So cherish what you are given.

This post has been edited by svage98: Nov 21 2012, 11:30 AM

congrate bro!

what do you mean not ready? you do it raw, then you have to take the responsibility...

your leisure time is now a happy time with your baby..treasure that!

Pls be ready. I am planing on my second BB. Good luck.

xtau guna kondom?

Lol this is funny....

Btw u should have use condom if u r not ready to become daddy.

Happy Father's day TS.
Reflect on your childhood and see if you can improve what your parents gave to you.