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sovietmah
post Oct 20 2012, 05:06 PM

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QUOTE(eaglef1 @ Oct 19 2012, 05:10 PM)
but i am not ready yet, i sacred no more leisure time sad.gif
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Honestly, really no time.
don't say leisure time, even time to go for lunch, toilet, and washing plates also limited.

very depends on kid situation, if they keep crying over midnight, really no time to sleep.

I am a working dad, my wife currently still on maternity leaves.
She lost 11KG already, and I lost almost 4KG.

A few situations:
1. No time for computer games
2. Limited time to go to toilet, better think twice before go to toilet to shit, pee or bath.
3. When my wife pumping breast milk, I responsible to takecare my boy, when i am taking bath, my wife monitor my boy, so always got one person monitor him.
4. Takes turn to feed baby every 3 hours, lucky then 4 hours with formula milk (Formula milk can tahan longer), breast milk worst case 2 hours feed one time.
5. Midnight standard wakeup 3 times (Baby < 1 month), 2 times (Baby < 2 months and onwards, probably 2AM once, 6AM once, if lucky then 1 time, if unlucky then every 2 hours.
6. This morning just take my kid for second month injection, at 2PM my wife and I only have chance to eat the so-called "breakfast".
7. Use your mouth to suck the baby's nose, to get out the snivel when he is flu and after bath. Sing song to him/her, comfort him/her, telling funny story, telling scary story, making funs, make serious faces.
8. No time hang-out with friends, always will have to either get back home early, or FFK, or change schedule.
9. Pee on u sometimes, Shit in front of u sometimes.
10. You will totally forget what means "tired", because you are too tired.

You will become the full time:
1. Teacher
2. Singer
3. Sports Trainer
4. Motivator
5. Psychologist
6. Entertainer
7. Cleaner

This post has been edited by sovietmah: Oct 20 2012, 05:23 PM
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post Oct 22 2012, 09:55 AM

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QUOTE(eaglef1 @ Oct 22 2012, 09:50 AM)
Im totally nervous and not ready yet? i think im just going to hire a amah to settle this.
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You not ready also must make urself ready.
don't tell me u plan to do abortion.
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post Oct 22 2012, 10:18 AM

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QUOTE(eaglef1 @ Oct 22 2012, 10:17 AM)
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I think you should take responsible like a man.
Anyway, u already married for how long?
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post Oct 22 2012, 11:38 AM

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QUOTE(eaglef1 @ Oct 22 2012, 11:23 AM)
3 years smile.gif
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OK right.
Soon you will get used to it la dun worry.
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post Oct 29 2012, 09:50 AM

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QUOTE(jaunty_niel @ Oct 29 2012, 08:06 AM)
Seriously?

I'm 24 this year and Hub's 26. I broke the news to him when we were playing League of Legends. What more? he gave me the o.O look although we planned for it (been married for 2 years that time).

And yes - eversince that time, he deleted his LOL and warcraft, didn't have the time to play Diablo too. Now everything evolves around the baby. He's the one doing house chores (from mopping the floor to cleaning the dishes and ironing the clothes) AND he attends to the baby. My only job is to breastfeed =) I only help him with lighter chores and I can see that sometimes he's really frustrated, but he enjoys the company of our girl.

The other day I asked him if he had the chance to do it all over again, will he choose to TTC at that time? And he replied yes. Her smiles and laughters are very well worth all the hardwork.

p/s: my girl loves him more than me - she only cries for me when she needs milk sleep.gif" most of the time she'll be dadaaa dadaaa-ing calling for the daddy.
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Same situation like me.
No time diablo, no time dota.
Semi-watching football match. sweat.gif
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post Oct 30 2012, 01:57 PM

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QUOTE(aladdin @ Oct 30 2012, 09:15 AM)
haha..sounds like I will lose all my personal time to the baby in <3 weeks time smile.gif
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Definitely.
Unless u got 2-3 people helping you to takecare at home full time.
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post Dec 4 2012, 01:11 PM

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post Jan 22 2013, 01:54 PM

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QUOTE(0601824 @ Jan 22 2013, 12:56 PM)
I only become a father for 2 hours and baby has passed away. i wish it would be longer. You should be grateful that you can be a father and spend the rest of your life with your kids. Not everyone can have that.
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baby didn't breath correctly?

 

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