Buat baik berpada-pada
Means if you want to do good you must berkira la when to do it for who wanna do it how much wanna do it?
It's like saying "Ok today I'm gonna donate money but I'll donate RM2 only cause later RM5 i wanna buy coklat"
I don't understand why if wanna do good must berpada-pada.
True story this morning:
Me: I go pick up jiran jap. Bai.
Mak: Yer y u always do work for them one??
Me: Wut. I'm not doing anything now also so y not
Mak: U know onot pipul love to take advantage of pipul like you!! U know or not if jiran ask his sibling to pick him up his siblings will ask for payment and  he will pay!! Now that u always help him for free so everyday he'll ask u help him!!
Me: Near only mah, tak sampai RM2 pun minyak. Lagipun not everyday.
Dad: I know it's not sampai RM2 but you think money so easy to earn meh? With his siblings he can pay but with you he dowan pay pulak.
Me: Cause I don't ask for payment.
Dad: And that's why he always ask for ur help!
Me: Hey, I'm not berkira how much fuel cost to help this and that all la, if you wanna buat baik to people why need to berkira this and that?
Dad: Buat baik berpada-pada... later people take advantage of you like now, those kind of people once they take advantage they will do more and more!
Me: If I dowan help then I say I dowan, now i feel like helping, so i go help. Other days i don't feel like helping, so I say no. I don't make stupid excuses like tengah ada kat luar la bz la because I don't want help. Plus it's not too membebankan the cost, and i decided to help, y must berkira?
Dad: *angry* kids nowadays born in luxury don't know how to appreciate parents work hard to find money!!
I kenot brain la. Explain plox.