baik sangat nanti orang lain amek kesempatan
Buat baik berpada pada, buat jahat jangan sekali, But why must berpada pada?
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 Mar 3 2012, 05:10 PM
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Mar 3 2012, 05:12 PM
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TS tumbang I balik can?
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Mar 3 2012, 05:14 PM
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129 posts Joined: Jul 2005 From: Mareshia
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jgn buat baik sampai bodo sgt, lurus bendul abis, nanti dipergunakan
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Mar 3 2012, 05:15 PM
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15,182 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Damansara Heights 
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Just becareful when offering yoh pusseh to some sosej guise aite.
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Mar 3 2012, 05:15 PM
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Sm, dia jantan kan? Sungguh nyata firman Allah. Dan jagalah faraj kemaluanmu kaum wanita. Sm, take care of urself. Even datuk pun rogol cucu skrg. Inikan pula jiran. Innamal amalu binniat. Tp kena waspada. Bila berdua, ada ketiga nanti.
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Mar 3 2012, 05:18 PM
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QUOTE(StationMonkey @ Mar 3 2012, 04:55 PM) Buat baik berpada-pada Bolded for truth.Means if you want to do good you must berkira la when to do it for who wanna do it how much wanna do it? It's like saying "Ok today I'm gonna donate money but I'll donate RM2 only cause later RM5 i wanna buy coklat" I don't understand why if wanna do good must berpada-pada. True story this morning: Me: I go pick up jiran jap. Bai. Mak: Yer y u always do work for them one?? Me: Wut. I'm not doing anything now also so y not Mak: U know onot pipul love to take advantage of pipul like you!! U know or not if jiran ask his sibling to pick him up his siblings will ask for payment and he will pay!! Now that u always help him for free so everyday he'll ask u help him!! Me: Near only mah, tak sampai RM2 pun minyak. Lagipun not everyday. Dad: I know it's not sampai RM2 but you think money so easy to earn meh? With his siblings he can pay but with you he dowan pay pulak. Me: Cause I don't ask for payment. Dad: And that's why he always ask for ur help! Me: Hey, I'm not berkira how much fuel cost to help this and that all la, if you wanna buat baik to people why need to berkira this and that? Dad: Buat baik berpada-pada... later people take advantage of you like now, those kind of people once they take advantage they will do more and more! Me: If I dowan help then I say I dowan, now i feel like helping, so i go help. Other days i don't feel like helping, so I say no. I don't make stupid excuses like tengah ada kat luar la bz la because I don't want help. Plus it's not too membebankan the cost, and i decided to help, y must berkira? Dad: *angry* kids nowadays born in luxury don't know how to appreciate parents work hard to find money!! I kenot brain la. Explain plox.  |
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Mar 3 2012, 05:20 PM
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QUOTE(xsan @ Mar 3 2012, 05:10 PM) baik sangat nanti orang lain amek kesempatan QUOTE(virphirod @ Mar 3 2012, 05:14 PM) jgn buat baik sampai bodo sgt, lurus bendul abis, nanti dipergunakan No i mean, if I don't feel like helping, I will reject instantly without hesitation. Very hard for me to help pipul ekceli. It's not that when pipul ask to do something I feel the need to do it anyway. banyak kali my neighbor ask for help, teman beli buku la, beli stationery la, i decline banyak kali kot. Definitely not lurus bendul.But I decline not because of "Oh tak boleh nak tolong sangat orang ni, nanti dia ambik kesempatan." But simply because I lazy to go out. And I tell them I'm lazy to go out. And if I help means I really want to help, not because wanna balas jasa ke budi ke hapa. QUOTE(si perfeck! @ Mar 3 2012, 05:15 PM) Sm, dia jantan kan? Sungguh nyata firman Allah. Dan jagalah faraj kemaluanmu kaum wanita. Sm, take care of urself. Even datuk pun rogol cucu skrg. Inikan pula jiran. Innamal amalu binniat. Tp kena waspada. Bila berdua, ada ketiga nanti. He's 9. |
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Mar 3 2012, 05:27 PM
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Better jgn buat baik Sgt cos nowadays ppl suka ambik kesempatan leh
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Mar 3 2012, 05:34 PM
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LOL
dont complicate simple stuff. it means,dont jadi nice sangat,nanti kena pijak. memang betul la kata bapak awak tu. sebab saya pernah kena,true story. |
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Mar 3 2012, 05:36 PM
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tldr
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Mar 3 2012, 05:42 PM
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Sm, are u a pedobear? Duhhh. Shit happens. I ngorat u, u jual mahal. Haha
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Mar 3 2012, 05:44 PM
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QUOTE(tom_tombak @ Mar 3 2012, 05:27 PM) Better jgn buat baik Sgt cos nowadays ppl suka ambik kesempatan leh QUOTE(Adamiquesce @ Mar 3 2012, 05:34 PM) LOL I don't deny it, my brain work in complex ways dont complicate simple stuff. it means,dont jadi nice sangat,nanti kena pijak. memang betul la kata bapak awak tu. sebab saya pernah kena,true story.  I don't understand why got parameter of being baik, if wanna do good can't we just do good je without considering "Hm dont do this too oftenly nanti kena pijak" Dulu I was a tiang too, whatever people ask me to do I will do, but then I learned how to change that. I decide if I want to help that person or not. Just that recently I decide to help more than ask for help. If my mood don't really wanna help pipul, i simply don't do it because i dont feel like doing it. because i tried to compare this concept to Rasulullah's concept, and couldn't find resemblance. |
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Mar 3 2012, 05:44 PM
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Berpada-pada. Perkara ini pernah dibincangkan dahulu bersama rakan2 dan cikgu. Kalau nak hurai dekat sini, agak panjang ceritanya....
Kadangkala manusia lain suka ambil kesempatan dengan kita. Lagi2 kalau kita ni jenis manusia yang tak beberapa berkira. Kata2 abah anda itu ade bernasnya, mungkin satu masa nanti anda akan faham... |
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Mar 3 2012, 05:45 PM
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hai stesenmonkey, boleh tumpang hantar i pegi hotel?
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Mar 3 2012, 05:51 PM
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Try to understand your parent feeling, probably something happen to them and don't want their child to follow their past mistake...
If i'm your father, I already piap piap u with rotan for question me back...  |
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Mar 3 2012, 05:53 PM
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2,036 posts Joined: Feb 2007 From: KL
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Don't help until you put you and your family in a predicament/ don't help bad people
Macam jadi keldai dadah la |
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Mar 3 2012, 05:54 PM
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596 posts Joined: Jan 2009 From: -SG/JB Assassins Brotherhood Hideout-
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QUOTE(Mustadio @ Mar 3 2012, 05:51 PM) Try to understand your parent feeling, probably something happen to them and don't want their child to follow their past mistake... Saya setuju. Walaupon golongan tua ni kadang2 tidak secerdik kita sekarang. Tetapi mereka ade pengalaman, sesuatu yang kita tidak ada. Kalau ade pon, tidak sebanyak mereka....If i'm your father, I already piap piap u with rotan for question me back... |
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Mar 3 2012, 05:58 PM
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QUOTE(StationMonkey @ Mar 3 2012, 04:55 PM) Buat baik berpada-pada I will explain to you. Do good things but at certain limit. As your parents said that people might just take advantage at you is true. You just dont know when. Maybe one or two times luck on your side but who knows one day you are not lucky enough. Nowadays crime happen even broad daylight. I have seen enough people who loves to take advantage on people who they see easy.Means if you want to do good you must berkira la when to do it for who wanna do it how much wanna do it? It's like saying "Ok today I'm gonna donate money but I'll donate RM2 only cause later RM5 i wanna buy coklat" I don't understand why if wanna do good must berpada-pada. True story this morning: Me: I go pick up jiran jap. Bai. Mak: Yer y u always do work for them one?? Me: Wut. I'm not doing anything now also so y not Mak: U know onot pipul love to take advantage of pipul like you!! U know or not if jiran ask his sibling to pick him up his siblings will ask for payment and he will pay!! Now that u always help him for free so everyday he'll ask u help him!! Me: Near only mah, tak sampai RM2 pun minyak. Lagipun not everyday. Dad: I know it's not sampai RM2 but you think money so easy to earn meh? With his siblings he can pay but with you he dowan pay pulak. Me: Cause I don't ask for payment. Dad: And that's why he always ask for ur help! Me: Hey, I'm not berkira how much fuel cost to help this and that all la, if you wanna buat baik to people why need to berkira this and that? Dad: Buat baik berpada-pada... later people take advantage of you like now, those kind of people once they take advantage they will do more and more! Me: If I dowan help then I say I dowan, now i feel like helping, so i go help. Other days i don't feel like helping, so I say no. I don't make stupid excuses like tengah ada kat luar la bz la because I don't want help. Plus it's not too membebankan the cost, and i decided to help, y must berkira? Dad: *angry* kids nowadays born in luxury don't know how to appreciate parents work hard to find money!! I kenot brain la. Explain plox. Another thing you need to remember you feel so need to help your friend and you decided it is better to derhaka to your parents. That is another example of buat baik berpada2. Do good but not up to derhaka to your parents. |
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Mar 3 2012, 05:59 PM
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Dulu i slalu kasi sedekah konon nya nk tolong saudara seislam kita dlm kesusahan, sehinggalah I dpt tahu diorg tu sindiket minta sedekah dn dpt 30k setiap bulan, ade yg sanggup colek budak utk dipotong tgn kaki sbb nk tagih simpati or yg terlalu baik memberi sedekah
Sekarang ni sy jumpa je peminta sedkah, sy kasi gula2 hacks je |
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Mar 3 2012, 05:59 PM
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15 posts Joined: Sep 2009 From: Border of Fantasy
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QUOTE(Mustadio @ Mar 3 2012, 05:51 PM) Try to understand your parent feeling, probably something happen to them and don't want their child to follow their past mistake... I always have a hard time understanding other people's feelings/emotions including my parents.If i'm your father, I already piap piap u with rotan for question me back... Most of the time I genuinely couldn't care :/ QUOTE(empyreal @ Mar 3 2012, 05:53 PM) Don't help until you put you and your family in a predicament/ don't help bad people My neighbor is 9 y.o, today got sekolah tambahan, nobadi to pick him up from school.Macam jadi keldai dadah la It's not that far from my home, but couldn't risk him walking home alone since a lot of child kidnapping case in my area. |
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