Buat baik berpada-pada
Means if you want to do good you must berkira la when to do it for who wanna do it how much wanna do it?
It's like saying "Ok today I'm gonna donate money but I'll donate RM2 only cause later RM5 i wanna buy coklat"
I don't understand why if wanna do good must berpada-pada.


True story this morning:
Me: I go pick up jiran jap. Bai.
Mak: Yer y u always do work for them one??
Me: Wut. I'm not doing anything now also so y not
Mak: U know onot pipul love to take advantage of pipul like you!! U know or not if jiran ask his sibling to pick him up his siblings will ask for payment and he will pay!! Now that u always help him for free so everyday he'll ask u help him!!
Me: Near only mah, tak sampai RM2 pun minyak. Lagipun not everyday.
Dad: I know it's not sampai RM2 but you think money so easy to earn meh? With his siblings he can pay but with you he dowan pay pulak.
Me: Cause I don't ask for payment.
Dad: And that's why he always ask for ur help!
Me: Hey, I'm not berkira how much fuel cost to help this and that all la, if you wanna buat baik to people why need to berkira this and that?
Dad: Buat baik berpada-pada... later people take advantage of you like now, those kind of people once they take advantage they will do more and more!
Me: If I dowan help then I say I dowan, now i feel like helping, so i go help. Other days i don't feel like helping, so I say no. I don't make stupid excuses like tengah ada kat luar la bz la because I don't want help. Plus it's not too membebankan the cost, and i decided to help, y must berkira?
Dad: *angry* kids nowadays born in luxury don't know how to appreciate parents work hard to find money!!



I kenot brain la. Explain plox.

you how old

42

Tlg buat sandwich jap bleh?

sm u so good liao.
semoga anda dicucukri rahmat

Your parents wants the rm2

nk tumpang

malays create this saying because malays themselves know that malays like to take advantage of other peoples goodwill

no roti at home

i love to take advantage and manipulate pipul
and i am muka tebal always ask for help but not be able to return the favor
and when i am berkira, i will really berkira to the last cent.

Sebab pompuan terlalu baik la ramai jadi keldai dadah
Buat baik biar bertempat
Jgn kawan dgn org yg tidak dapat beri kita kesenangan di masa depan

u 42 still use parents money for petrol?

This post has been edited by Rrrocks: Mar 3 2012, 05:02 PM

i dun think it's only applicable to meleis...

u really good la TS. but as ur parents said, b careful later ppl take advantage on ur kindness..

jokes on you

buat baik berpada pada tu macam tengok tempat lah.

takkan member suruh tolong mencuri hang nak tolong atas nama berbuat baik kat member

Which reminds me most of my friends are inanimate objects.
Memang betul2 membantu kehidupanku wahai bantal, selimut busuk, mp4 dan payung.

Fuel i always use my own money.

I'm not good at all, i'm far from good.
It's just that, I really don't understand. Buat baik berpada pada? What tis mean? I really kenot digest this concept in my brain.
Who came up with this thing? In english version got?

itu bukan buat baik
itu bodoh namanya

dah kata member mintak tolong? hao?

buat baik shudn't be something that mendatangkan dosa, no?
if it's like that then it is 'tolong buat jahat'
philosophy 101

42 = 24 = kita sama umoq

People this tyoe we called doormat