I think so...

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Added on February 19, 2012, 3:38 pmI think your gf have problem also... she don't like you anymore, you better off this... if you don't believe talk to professional and see.

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Added on February 19, 2012, 3:53 pmYa, alexlim85, I think your relationship is on its way out also... Trellva, you are right, sex is important in order to keep good relationship. of cos think the good way of sex between couple. I can say that I agreed with trellva, what he say is relationship... My fren lawyer also say this thing to me...

Mr alexlim85, 我看不好你，你们真的有问题。当然她的问题比较多。I didn't lie to you, lawyer also say like this, they handled this kind of cases a lot...
That why between couple sex is very important, if 1 party give up of sex, that is very big problem already. If really can't solve the problem better walk out..

This post has been edited by Mickey C: Feb 19 2012, 03:53 PM

Your gf is so damn silly... How to even enjoy or have good sex with that kinda attitude??

I suggest either you find alternative sex. Or if you're the "morality is king" type and refuse to cheat on her, then you either tahan, or break up.

Seriously, I honestly think ur gf is missing out so much when it comes to sex, how can she refuse doing those things??? Gosh!!

Better don't cheat on her, you cheat her you also can't solve the problem also...
alexlim85, you try to say break up with her, see her reaction first. If her reaction is tidak apa punya, then you know, you must walk out. Don't waste time anymore, she not belong to you. Even though you forcefully remain with her, your relationship won't last. Good relationship mana ada paksa punya, betul tak. You must give and you must take, automatic punya action. alexlim85, if I not mistaken in all the situation your gf only take, ask her give, sangat susah lo, banyak alasan. Don't confuse I said all the situation, meaning banyak perkara perkara lah, not sex only...... Okay... I just guess only.. maybe she really do a lot of others thing. Hope you don't mind.

have u try anal?

unstable female hormone...shuld go n see specialist...the doctor will prescribe her those hormone pil...

I know what you mean. Let you said she got something inside her head, meaning she have problem in her head. If she have problem in her head, why you ask them to marry fast??? You think marry can solve the problem? Oh you're wrong. Marry won't solve the problem lah boss...If marry can solve all the problem then no divorce case lo....
If I were him, I won't get marry until all the problem solve. You have to solve the problem first b4 u get marry...
Tell you 1 things guys, to all the men which can't solve the problem b4 marry just like alexlim, you can get marry also but don't register. Bcos one of fren punya fren is going this. No worry this is totally legal. No worry u can arrange ur marry but never register.. This thing nv happen in the past but happen lately bcos lot of female now too protected until they lost their sexuality.
Because this day lot of women are like alexlim85 gf, a lot of them have mind problem. In order to play safe, u can marry her but don't register.

If I have gf like alexlim85, I will do this, since he said he already pakthor with her 8 years without nothing happen... So I will marry her but just no register. If you no register you are trouble free.

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Added on February 19, 2012, 6:11 pmCorrect also, but remember problem still there.
1st who is going to pay the bill??? Not cheap, not 1 time appointment, banyak appointment need to follow.
If the girl want to go and she pay then is very good.
If alexlim85 pay all the bills and finally she ran away or she still sick???? habis lo....
The reason is bcos they are not marry yet , not register yet....

So in this case susah to cakap. If I am alexlim, I will ask her see Dr and I won't pay the bill. It just too risky bcos the girl have problem from the beginning . If you are my wife then is difference I will pay the bill....

This post has been edited by Mickey C: Feb 19 2012, 06:13 PM

seems to me she has some issues with sex...maybe bad experience?

at least she willing to sacrifice for you (give you her first time & always, move together with you)
appreciate her ya

but for me...
I dont have that opportunity....

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Added on February 20, 2012, 2:55 pmTS, try have a honest discussion with her....
without knowing the true reason, is impossible to solve it

GOod luck TS

P/S: Anyhow, I do agree sex do neccesary in relationship, it help to spice up the relationship. But dont abuse it.....

This post has been edited by kelvin_87: Feb 20 2012, 03:14 PM

Ya, .....

Let her go back to KL la.
She bored with JB and her job ady.
Also most probably bored with u la.
Maybe you sex tactics always the same.
Lick lick, finger finger, do that few secs then change that few secs.
To short or too thin or awhile uhh uhhhhh....shiver ady.

But it is so sure that u are the problem.

there is a high chance she might be something is bothering her or she is thinking of something or she actually develop interest in other guy or she might be slowly loosing interest in you.

woah, TS, talk bout privacy....
dude, mayb somtims she feels sex is only a common thing.
y not try spendin time wit her, instead of carressing her evry nite?
XD

1st, i've not read all 6 pages, but here's a tip. Sex like any other activity has to be enjoyed by both parties.

If it's repetitive and mundane most likely the person will feel used and of course if you do the same thing all the time most people will get bored.

Why don't you curb your urges and treat her more like someone to be cherished rather than someone you use just to fulfill your sexual urges. Then perhaps she will feel more valued, besides do you know if she has ever enjoyed any of these sessions?

This post has been edited by Tak3shi: Feb 22 2012, 10:30 AM

imo.... she left her home with guilt. She is feeling more and more uneasy as days go by.... Do you plan to visit her family and bring her along? If you can do that and her family accepts you, this many starts changing her life again.

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Added on February 23, 2012, 10:29 amimo.... she left her home with guilt. She is feeling more and more uneasy as days go by.... Do you plan to visit her family and bring her along? If you can do that and her family accepts you, this many starts changing her life again.

This post has been edited by liez: Feb 23 2012, 10:29 AM

Alex

I think its probably a hint when she tells you that theres not enough money to get married; she's probably unhappy with the fact that there's not enough money. I think she WANTS to get married. Any woman in her right mind would want that with the man she loves.

Women need to feel secure to be happy. They are complex creatures and because she loves you, she may not want to directly say it cos that may hurt your feelings. But at the same time, she remains unhappy and is probably taking it out on you in the bed. Like it or not, security to many women is a wedding ring, a home and a solid breadwinner in the family. Thats how they're built ...to want to feel secure.

I honestly think it doesn't help at all that there's sexual relations before marriage. More often in my view it can ruin the marriage than help it in the end.

I believe we are all deeply moralistic inside, (I guess that is what separates us from the animals) and we actually DO feel guilty inside when we dont do what's right. I guess people tend to indulge in that activity tats making them feel guilty at first by doing it even more, so that the guilt starts to wane. But the downside is that each time we keep doing that, we lose a bit of our humanity.

Also I think its possible that these "moral" feelings are beginning to re-surface in her again, causing her to dislike the activity so much that she's now finding what she used to like doing before, disgusting. But this is just my guess.

I honestly think it would be good if you could abstain from sex until marriage. This should help you find some peace in all this turmoil while at the same time give you a clear mind to make positive decisions in what you plan to do in your life with her.

Sex is not everything, brother...believe me, once upon a time I thought it was and it ruined my life.

All the best, friend.

ahahahahaaa TS reading your post is like watching some porn (the way you discribe it)..

Go find a fubu lar... Sex life between a long-term couple can get stable and 'settled'.

It's just sex, either you find ways to spice it up (with or without her), or leave it at that - Maybe you can live without it =.=

Update,
Go to vacation (Taiwan) last week with her.
She very like it..... This is the first time she go oversea vacation.
and we do have sex within the trip but most of the time is too tired to do so.
Sometimes is she demand it. but still no suck, lick and fingering. She say dirty.
our life still the same.

you really a hot chick ..
love your opinion..

Since whatever you did.. she keep saying it's dirty. Try doing it at the bathroom.. washing can be done immediately.
Teach her the joy of dirty sxx. U have to put in more creativity to spice her up.. to make her be naughty... else you forever get a "doll" on the bed only.