Hi,

I have no idea where should i post this, but i think may drop into here.

Ok, let start here.

I know my gf from internet and never meet before. After few month on internet we because a net couple.
we suggest to meet up her on 1 holiday (we both in different state). she at kl, while me at johor.

First day of your meet up/dating.
- We do hold hand only, shooping, eatting.

2nd day of our meet up/dating.
- We have lunch, dinner, movie and also sex (both of us is virgin).

3rd day i go back to johor.


After that, she quit her job in KL and come to johor to work because of me.
We stay together (only after 1 month her family only accept this).

We are staying together for almost 1 years.
As we staying together, she getting less and less enjoy of Sex.

For the first month, i do buy sex toy and play together, she still will do many position.
She still will suck my penis, i will finger her, i will lick her vagina and so on.

This few month, when i request for sex, she do not want any foreplay.
just call me insert with lubricant and done it. She do not even move or change position.
Just missionary, that all. Sometimes, she will ask me faster finish it.

Like yesterday night, plan to have a good Sex with her like foreplay and lick lick.
she say, no, she say her Vagina very dirty (actually just after bath).
Than i kiss her, she only give lip to lip kiss and do not want French kiss. She say so disgusting.
plan to kiss her ear, she reply no, very dirty.
this make me totally off.

She very love me, willing move to johor because of me,
previously never separate from her family before.

not yet married also like this..... dunno i can tahan if after married.
she always say no mood or tired, so now days, we only have sex on saturday only.

she never been rape before.
she is a virgin, when we first time have sex.

when i touch her, any part of her body, she will say itchy.
she will push away my hand when i try to touch her vagina area and say very itchy, do not play la.

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Added on February 15, 2012, 3:44 pmshe say vagina very dirty, cause use to urine. So do not lick it.
Ear dirty cause got those ear wax.
she say she feel very disgusting when french kiss and also hard to breath.

now is like, before and after sex, she also lay down there and i'm the 1 who do all the cleaning.

the sex toy i buy, all put aside with dust already..... (wasted money)

She also a very jealous person, if i go out or talk with other girl, she will unhappy.
She got say before, if i do something like find other girl and have sex with other, she will never forgive me......
/But i also never plan to cheong .........

need advice, was it physiological problem?
Do i need to bring her for doctor?

This post has been edited by alexlim85: Feb 15 2012, 03:44 PM

she is not virgin now, cause do countless time with her already.

she never allow me to lick or finger her vagina at all.
finger her also cannot.....

no idea what will happen.........

yeah, she do eat birth control pills......
do not know this will cause the problem or not?
telling her to stop eating it.
and call her to eat EPO.

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Added on February 15, 2012, 4:36 pmReally hope can have back those great sex life..........

This post has been edited by alexlim85: Feb 15 2012, 04:36 PM

tried...
yesterday already very nice already.

cook steak for her,
open a rosa wine.

i still can have sex with her, but she just lay there only...
i totally turn off yesterday and direct go sleep.

Hope not,
i very love her.... but she unable to complete my life...
am i too selfish or too demanding???
any female here can give some comment?

GF: I think my BF is taking me for granted. I gave up my job and moved here just for him. My parents nearly disowned me. They really don't like me shacking up with him. Everytime I phone home, mum asks when are we getting married.

Her family already accept me, as i also got to her house overnight for few times already.


The relationship is not going anywhere. He just want things to stay as they are. Everyday, after work, sex. He doesn't think about anything else. Much less marriage. I want to start a family.

Everyday, i cook dinner for her. cause i reach home earlier than her. she just come back, take bath and eat dinner than directly jump to the bed.


GF's friend: If this relationship does not work out, you don't have a lot of time to look for another man. You're not getting any younger. Nobody wants an old maid. Play hard to get. Withold sex. See if he thinks about anything else.

She just 23 this year, she not much friend. no friend at johor at all.


Question: if you GF gets sick and you can no longer have sex with her, will you stick by her side. Or throw her away like a used rag, and go look for another GF?

I sure stick by her side. i will never look for any other gf. i really love her. i just try to solve the issue about me and her only.

I do introduce some of my female friend to her but she like dun really like to mix with other people.
She only will mix with her friend at kl only.
Sometimes i join other people activity, she will refuse to go and say so many people i do not know, so dunwan to go.

she enjoy watching TVB drama.......

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Added on February 16, 2012, 4:22 pmfirst is i intro those pill to her. how she is the 1 who wanna continue eat, cause will reduce pimple alot.. now her face do not have a single pimple after eating those pill.
That why i persuade her to change to EPO have the same effect that can reduce pimple.

I wish to married her but she reject say now not no money and do not wan to married so early.

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Added on February 16, 2012, 4:23 pmI may not naughty enough,, haha
but how to be naughty as u mean?


This post has been edited by alexlim85: Feb 16 2012, 04:23 PM

Update,
Go to vacation (Taiwan) last week with her.
She very like it..... This is the first time she go oversea vacation.
and we do have sex within the trip but most of the time is too tired to do so.
Sometimes is she demand it. but still no suck, lick and fingering. She say dirty.
our life still the same.

She never like to do in bathroom, cause she feel dirty and tired,
she dislike dirty.
i feel that actually she is lazy......

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Added on February 27, 2012, 5:22 pmwe both try to shave before.... haha...
but now she do not wan to shave anymore,
very trouble..
ask her wanna go out wax, she say dun wan let people touch her private part.

This post has been edited by alexlim85: Feb 27 2012, 05:22 PM

She already stop BCP 2 week ago. I think the low sex drive cause by the BCP....... Day before yesterday and yesterday she do request for sex.....



I do dry her hair, comb her hair and she do not shave, she pluck all the hair at armpit de.


no....
U know some one having same problem with me that from batu pahat?

sorr,
cause busy with some job, so unable to update.

Latest update, after she stop taking BCP, her sex drive back.
- Now she like to use vibrator to simulate her south part.
- yesterday, we have sex for 3 times in a day


So conclusion, is i think the BCP is the one who cause all this issue.

Update....

Now she like to use the vibrator on clitoris. Must have when watching movie on bed and before sleep..
her sex drive getting higher and higher now...

conclusion - after the BCP, the sex drive will come back slowly.

I think i need to buy a Hitachi type of vibrator to her already as she complain the battery operate de too slow........

But will this a problem in long run??

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Added on May 2, 2012, 5:19 pmNo way i will share my GF pic......
nonit to camp here for pic...

HAHA,, human is horny, if not, where u come from?

She stay with me, she go out with me.
except work, she never go out from the house without me.
i have her facebook, phone and email access. (full access).
Even her online bank account, i also have access..
but this cause she too depend on me already.....

dun think so....

HAHA,.. sure not 3 times in 30 mins la...

around 3 to 4 hours between sex la....


Read previous reply.

She din say itchy or uncomfortable, she just say no feel to have sex only.
Even in the middle of sex, she will ask, can stop? as no more feel.


Read previous reply.

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Added on May 2, 2012, 5:21 pmThank you,

will consider about it.

This post has been edited by alexlim85: May 2 2012, 05:21 PM

so far so good, as long she din eat the bcp, than all ok

But lately, she request to take back BCP cause it will reduce the pimple on her face.
After eat, really no more pimples.
after stop for 2 month, all the pimples come back....

she keep demand wanna eat it while i keep prevent her to eat it...........


She like to do on the bed only. No other places..
too bad.........


Depend how you see it.
but now i prevent her to take already.


i'm 6" de..... actually too long for her as well.
She complain few time about too deep and feel pain. so i need to control the deep also.

this i dunno.. haha.